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Virtual Dating

By , About.com Guide   January 28, 2008

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Fans of the movie Clerks will remember a discussion of "the flying car" and its resuscitation several years ago with a late night television skit on Jay Leno (link opens to a YouTube video). In a nutshell, the debate relates to how we, as citizens of the 21st century, haven't quite lived up to our technological aspirations a la Jetsons-style.

I've had similar debates myself. What happened to virtual reality? Why aren't websites like Second Life more prevalent? And why aren't there a slew of virtual dating sites that merge the two? Well, technology is finally catching up with startup companies like Canada's OmniDate. Although still in beta testing, the site holds promise.

Still, virtual dating today is a far cry from what I had envisioned, which was a highly malleable avatar ready to date on a moment's notice, and in any locale the mind could create. Unfortunately, the "reality" of this virtual dating world (at this time) is that OmniDate only has ten avatars to choose from (five per sex) and that all hosted dates occur in a canned coffee shop environment. Not that any of those things will stop me from using the service and working through the bugs. In fact, I'm excited to see how virtual dates compare to face-to-face dates, and if the allure of meeting someone virtually will spill over into the real world. Then again, online virtual worlds carry the kind of social stigma that online dating sites used to about five years ago. There may not be enough of a user base yet, if ever.

How about you? Have you tried virtual dating? Would you? Why or why not?

Comments
January 28, 2008 at 11:36 am
(1) OneMinuteu says:

I met my wife on Second Life!

January 29, 2008 at 1:57 am
(2) Jen Love says:

Thanks for the site, im gonna have to check it out. Looks interesting.

February 7, 2008 at 2:20 pm
(3) David says:

I would like to put your mind to rest about virtual dating virtulove.com coming very soon is what you are looking for. Its real time and real looks of the real world. Its a place for daters to come first. check it out omnidate is still two steps behind.

March 16, 2009 at 10:20 pm
(4) Weopia says:

There is a new virtual dating site coming very soon at http://www.weopia.com that you will probably like

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