Mike1575 asks: "I am a recently divorced athletic male of 32 with hair loss. I've seen a woman 4 times recently, and we chat frequently online. Problem is, I sense no attraction on her part. We get along well, but my appearance seems to be a hindrance. This is the recurring scenario that I live with every day. I can't tell if she's just to sweet to tell me that she feels nothing for me physically, or what. It's just that it hurts me to know that I could be causing her unease about wanting to tell me the truth... as well as knowing that even when I can show a woman a good time otherwise, my appearance will constantly be impeding my progress. Is this how I should be reading this situation?"
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Thinning hair? Receeding hairline? A bald dome? I have dated a lot of guys with each of the above. Many are very confidant, but some are anxious. But what I have seen is that if the guy is confident, how much or little hair is never the issue. some of the sexiest guys are bald… but then, I’ve been around the block a time or two myself… too heavy and older…. so it’s attitude, substantiated by the fact that I date a lot and am attractive to many in spite of what many would consider limitations.
Here’s an idea… can’t change the problem (bald), so change the attitude… and make a statement. Try shaving it ALL off… It is one of the sexiest looks, IMHO. If you are really interested in this lady, ask her opinion about shaving it all off… she may give you feedback that is meaningful about where your relationship is going.