I'm sure you've noticed them all over the net, or even in an advertisement on this site. "Buy this eBook now, and learn how to get your ex back!"
Admittedly, these eBooks are tempting for folks who are in the throes of a recent breakup, or who really can't let go of a relationship that has run its course. But the question is: do they work?
I've read more than a few 'get your ex back' -type eBooks in my day. One in particular I used after a breakup to see for myself if the suggestions made any difference. Interestingly, they did - but by the time I finished working through the process, I found that I didn't want that ex back after all. Success? Guess it depends on your definition.
But how about you? Have you ever used a 'get your ex back' book to see if you could win back the affections of a lover with whom you'd parted ways? Did it work? Would you recommend it? There's a new feature being tested here at About.com, where you can rate and review items with your own starring system. I've set one up for get your ex back eBooks (you can enter in which one you purchased), and would love your feedback and advice about which ones to buy, and which ones to steer away from. Or, if you think they are all a waste of time, why not share your reasons in the comments?
Bonny, my thoughts about “get your ex back” eBooks are that it all depends on the person that is acquiring its. However, I do not trust any book/ebook related to relationships, and I tell you why:
Every relationship is different, every person has its personality, every break-up takes place for numerous reasons. I do not think there is a pattern that an author will follow, if you read 2-3 ebooks about “get your ex back” you will notice its have different approaches.
However, I do not say a book like that will not work, there are definitely relationships where what’s written in that very ebook applies and can become a real helper in bringing your ex-back. But, as you said in the post, people must first think about this: do I really want him/her back or I am just hanging on the past and not continuing with my life?
I find sitting in the car outside their house with a mysterious scowl is a much more effective tool for getting an ex’s attention.
I think Men are not that complex.Either they like you for who you are or they like you for sex.If its for sex then after sex they wont call you. iif they Like you for who you are they will call you back and after sex look into your eyes.
those e book that teach how to get your ex back really work , as i stumble upon a site that i bought the e book after i applied what i learn t i was able to get my ex back
any way it all depends on the gravity of the quarrel between you and your ex
In a serious relationship, I think we must not depend or assume things to happen in same way as published for people are unique in many ways if they fall in love. Attaining your ex back will depend to the sincerity you showed to him.
Knowing that there are plenty guides or ebooks out there sometimes make us dependent to it. The worst is we blame it to the guides if we stumble. Well, we are just given guides to follow or just give us the hint on what suppose to be done on a certain situation like getting an ex back.
It is already in your style on how you deliver the knowledge you’ve learn from the guides. The output depends on you. You just have to be sure that you are giving your best to get what you want. That’s not impossible if you are sincere.
I think if you really want to get your relationship back, a well chosen ebook or ecourse can really help. Here’s why: going through all the steps they outline makes you look closely at all aspects of the relationship, how your ex sees you, how you see them, what mistakes were made and what needs to be fixed to make it work. Not many of us have all those tools and abilities to start with.
What might be even more important is that going through this process will help you decide if salvaging the relationship is actually the right thing for you. It helps you separate yourself from the emotions.
One more thing: what you learn will help you create stronger, happier relationships in the future, even if you don’t get your ex back.
I have read The Magic Of Making Up and I can say in all honesty that this is a great book written from a down to earth person not some professional that claims to know it all.
I just got this e-book. I hope it works. I will return with the results at a later date.
So, it’s been two monthes, how did it go?
Thank you so much for the articles.
They are very informative.
Indeed, you’ve done a great job with this blog!
Winning an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend back is difficult.
It needs self-control. You have to control your feelings
to be able to give your ex space and time.
Let him/her realize your worth by stepping back.
Make him/her miss you by being busy with other things.
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Hello!
I found your site and also this post about books on how to get you ex back.I was wondering if you could tell me the name of the book that worked for you. I was exploring the Web and found multiple books but I don’t know if they are reliable but if a book worked for you I would like to read that one.
With regards and respect,
Ana