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Are There Any Legitimate Adult Dating Sites Out There?

By May 3, 2012

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Stephen asks: "I am trying to find a 'real' adult dating site. It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... as if it has been hyped to get you to join. Amateur Match is one for sure. The people on there either do not exist or are trumped up. I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply. And when I clicked on a picture, the city and/or state changed to someplace nearby... what a scam. There has to be a legitimate adult dating site out there. Help?"

Hi Stephen, and thanks to my colleague Cory Silverberg (About.com's Guide to Sexuality) for sending you my way. To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate. Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles? If that's the case, I'll admit its pretty hard to find. My first recommendation would be to try Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section (Buy Direct); you sign up with them and then decide which of the three sections you want to be a part of (Dating, Relationships or Intimate Encounters). You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.

It's pretty hard for any site these days (especially the big ones) to stop fake profiles and scammers from signing up, but I think I get what you're after. There are a lot of adult dating sites that don't have a lot of users, or use sneaky marketing tactics like the bait and switch you're referring to. We've all seen them - the ads show a bevvy of beautiful women in your area, but when you sign up, you realize that the women were just ads that were geographically targeted to your search preferences.

After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly 'ideal': Club Intimate, Fling, Adult Match Doctor, Get It On, and Sexy Ads. The last one I haven't actually reviewed fully, but the site owners took the time to add a profile on this site. Adult dating sites I don't recommend? ShagPal and Adult Friend Finder.

So dear readers: have you used an adult dating site that you can recommend, or want to warn other users about? Here's the form to fill out for either situation, or share your comments here.

Comments
May 29, 2010 at 7:30 pm
(1) Giovanni says:

sorry to say but no…. better just meet guys in person… dating sites are honestly a waste of time… the people that you see on the commercials doing those types of sites are paid actors…. the people on the site are total creepers

November 13, 2011 at 9:19 pm
(2) carlos says:

That’s not true not every guy are jerks you just have too meet the rite people and I’m one of the real men in alabama

May 30, 2010 at 3:15 am
(3) Arby says:

Well, I’m disappointed to not see Plenty Of Fish mentioned as an okay site. I’m new to this blog, so I can’t say I’m familiar with all that Bonny’s laid out. Maybe POF got a previous recommendation. I did note, in my one previous visit here (when I registered), in a discussion about smiling and body language that can affect your appearance, that POF was cited as possibly sliding, with the focus too much on how to generate revenue.

I get nowhere with POF, although I have nothing better to do while I wait. At 54 I really don’t want to wait for anything! Still…

I know for a fact that the women on POF, in many cases, want action but don’t say so directly. And they want what I want, namely action with younger partners. I can’t even get the attention of 50 year old women who are looking for the intimate encounter that I’m looking for.

But I wouldn’t quite call it dishonesty. It may be a little bit, but I think it’s more along the lines of those women just being careful about how they go about getting what they want. Whereas, What Stephen refers to sounds downright nasty. POF wasn’t my first foray, recently, into online hookup sites. Here in Toronto there’s a free paper called NOW!. It partnered up with some scammy outfit called CONNXXXTIONS which I joined. It was supposed to be free to join and put up a profile and have a voice mailbox. Well, When I realized that there were virtually no women using the site (or at least it appeared that way to me) and I kept getting asked for a credit card to use the ‘free’ features, I quit, but not before emailing CONXXXTIONS and NOW! to let them know why. Of course, No one responded.

July 8, 2011 at 2:14 pm
(4) rodney burke says:

I have found so far, there is no such thing as a REAL free site. There is always an “Oh by the way, in order to answer a letter…” or some such. I don’t know about you, but I am fed up with women who can’t make a commitment to meet and talk live and in person. I am 68 and I am very definitely having that problem. So POF wasn’t the answer, I guess we both need to go somewhere else. I am going to continue to read and if I have more negative comments I am gone…

My best to you on your search, I want you to find her and soon.

July 26, 2011 at 1:27 pm
(5) Jeff says:

okcupid.com is completely real, and completely free…. I can’t say I’ve met anyone “special” on it, but I haven’t been solicited in one way, shape or form on the website, and you have a ton of options available for free members… the only catch is there aren’t many looking for NSA intimate encounters on there… but if you want that, go to a trashy bar or something.

August 6, 2011 at 2:09 am
(6) Darrel Horton says:

I am fed up with the women on these sites to. On most of
them, I can’t even get a nice letter from an old granny, and if I do get an email from a good looking woman, she is usually a fake. On one site, I got email from a lot of women, and not
even one wanted to meet me! Even though I cancelled my
membership, can you believe I still get email from those fake
women! But on other sites, I get nothing! I don’t know what
is going on with these sites. I think its better to go to a bar. At least the women are real and you will not be spending your
money!

Darrel

May 30, 2010 at 1:54 pm
(7) dating says:

Arby,

I didn’t put POF on the list because Stephen asked specifically for sites that catered to adult dating, meaning, casual sex. I realize that Lavalife doesn’t quite fit that bill, but on POF, if you email someone for sex, the system automatically excludes you from emailing a whole schwack of people because of it. So, if you ever change your mind or find someone you want to email for other reasons, basically, you can’t.

I agree with your suggestion to try local papers and publications, although as a single male, it can be difficult no matter where you try. There just aren’t as many single women looking for that kind of relationship as there are single men.

October 23, 2011 at 4:25 am
(8) m shajir says:

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May 30, 2010 at 10:35 pm
(9) Arby says:

Yep, It’s rough!

I don’t like Lavalife at all. I just get zero returns when I do a search. I don’t get it. And I just don’t like the site. I don’t like all the framed questions. Let me do the talking for myself, Thanks very much! I delete my one day account there. There’s another one I joined up. Don’t know how good it is for Toronto, Canada. I forgot to bookmark it, so I’ll get the name while I’m here and look again.

This is all so painful.

May 31, 2010 at 11:28 pm
(10) Sandra Green says:

I have tried plentyoffish , ok cupid and lavalife (can’t believe you recommend this one along with POF).
What really has worked for me is Reelspark. This site is straight forward, easy to use and got video profiles on there.
 
I would highly recommend using this one.

June 10, 2010 at 3:17 pm
(11) robseo says:

yes many of adult dating site same problem. I know a free adult dating site where you does not face those promlem.

August 27, 2010 at 9:55 am
(12) Adult Dating For Me says:

adultdatingforme.com

100% Free online adult dating community. Free chat, Free email, Free video chat, Free cam to cam, no subscription fees ever. Everything is free in the Adult Dating For Me social network.

November 3, 2011 at 3:57 pm
(13) mjp says:

FYI. Adult Dating For Me is not a free site. its just like all the other sites, paying membership to recieve,send emails. robseo must be employed by them. totally false info!

October 5, 2010 at 6:52 pm
(14) Titus Billing says:

Well the only one I’ve come across is hornydevilsonline.com, Its kinda like a free version of aff. Besides that I have come across any others.

December 9, 2010 at 2:14 am
(15) Cindy says:

I have tried a few adult dating site. Some do not offer a lot. Tried free adult dating sites, some are not really free, but there are a few that have a lot of free services. I say sign up and check out a few for yourself and judge. I like http://www.hush.24ex.com

January 7, 2011 at 1:20 am
(16) Lily says:

I agree, it’s hard finding a true connection. That’s why I enjoy logging onto http://www.barstalk.com. All they do is tell you where the best bars to meet singles are located near you. The guy to girl ratio, best nights etc…You go out and make your own connection. Choose your fate.

January 7, 2011 at 4:32 am
(17) Kristine says:

I have tried Camerates http://www.camerates.com. Its free and good. Can also be used on mobile phones

January 15, 2011 at 1:53 am
(18) joe smith says:

just use yelp or this new site in NY: http://www.barstalk.com/

simply shows you good places to hang out to meet people

February 2, 2011 at 4:56 am
(19) Michael Chihuahua says:

plentyoffish.com is full of fakes.

The free dating site plentyoffish.com is full of scams. Most of the women on that site are fake profiles and the same pictures are used in many different major cities. I believe plentyoffish is responsible for this, because otherwise, if there were no profiles then who would join? I theorize all dating sites are responsible for putting up fake profiles at least in the beginning to get people to join.

I’ve attempted to contact plentyoffish.com to complain about (and report) fake profiles and you will not believe their response–they deleted my profile. I interpret that reaction as them not only knowing about the fake profiles but being responsible for it to scam people into joining.

Yahoo Personals was successfully sued because of a bunch of fake profiles they put on their site to entice people to join. I did join years ago. After the law suit, Yahoo cut me a check to reimburse me $35 I spent on a membership. They have the same fake profiles on different areas–in other words, one beautiful woman would be in the San Diego area, but also the same picture of the same woman on a different profile would show up in the Sacramento area, Seattle area, Denver area, etc, and there were tons of profiles like this. Yahoo Personals was so diluted with fake profiles that it was not even worth wasting your time after a while.

August 6, 2011 at 2:23 am
(20) Darrel Horton says:

Yes, and more and more sites are putting up fake profiles, so
that it is getting harder and harder for men to find real
women on dating sites. That is understandable, when you
consider that men looking for women online out number the
women looking for men. If they did not put up fake profiles,
they would not get any members. It’s better to go to the
green sheet, local newspapers, or ad sites. There you know
the women are going to real and they are free.

Darrel

February 7, 2011 at 4:48 pm
(21) Dan says:

Hi guys,

I’m just recently out of a relationship and a good friend of mine recocmended this site Maybeadate.com, it’s totally free and I’m enjoying meeting people:)

Hope this helps xxx

March 12, 2011 at 6:13 pm
(22) Bea Wildered says:

OK, so just HOW MANY of the above people posted information on dating sites because they’re only promoting them in this forum? And the ReelSpark site doesn’t even exist! So how can “you” recommend it “SANDRA GREEN”? If that’s really your name? On-line dating is ALL bogus. You’re much better off meeting someone “out there” in the REAL world instead of wasting your time and money. And that’s all these on-line businesses are good for…. STEALING YOUR MONEY!!!

August 2, 2011 at 8:13 pm
(23) tony says:

i agree with u i mean i have tried the online stuff and u dont think ur meetin a real guy and then u meet this person and they look like wtf so… stay away from these websites

April 3, 2011 at 11:28 am
(24) Ghosy says:

There are no legitimate adult dating sites anywhere. Why? Because a pretty female can step out the door, make eye contact for 30 seconds with any male, smile and get laid. This applies all the way up to age 50 if she is pretty. Plus, no woman in the world gives sex for free. Women want to see a man’s clothes, walk, shoes, car, where he lives and on and on. She does not really want to get to know a man at all. If a female has a job making $24,000 a year or more she will date managers at work and have sex at work. You would think the Internet would be the best place to meet because you can ask a lot of questions first. I went on one sex site that charges $49.85 a month and it was the absolute worst place in the world to hook-up or talk about sex. A lot of females would email and ask why I was on a sex personals site. Duh, I am looking for sex. How is this one, I am in my 40′s and a bunch of women said I did not even look 21 and would not date me let alone have sex with me. just amzing how lame the Internet dating scene is.

August 6, 2011 at 3:02 am
(25) Darrel Horton says:

You are right. Most good looking women can find sex
anywhere without going to a dating site, but have you
seen the men on those sites? Most of them are not exactly
Don Juans. Most of them are a bunch of creeps and nerds,
and no woman in her right mind would want to date them
anyway! I wouldn’t say that all the women on some dating
sites are good looking. Some of the women on Friendfinder
look like grannies. I don’t know why that is. Maybe they
want to add some realism. Everybody knows that every
women who joins a dating site is not good looking. You would
think that they would want to date anyone, but I couldn’t
even get a response from the old women. That is the reason
I am fed up with all the dating sites.

Darrel

August 14, 2011 at 4:22 pm
(26) Sally says:

Hey Darrel,
All is not black and white. I am an attractive (hard to say without sounding vain but..) woman and i use dating sites to (maybe) meet men. Do you know how many men are just too scared to ask a woman out in person – it’s a real problem for us. I have dated 2 men this way over the past few years, both of which were quite normal guys and we had normal relationships. They weren’t loonies and nor am I. Its just another medium to meet people and if you’re a woman who doesn’t come into contact with men in the everyday sense (or more to the point – they just assume you’re already attached!!), then it works for me, thanks.

November 7, 2011 at 4:03 am
(27) hmm says:

you know i would agree but the reason there was an explosion of these sites is because craigslist personal ads were so popular and then BAM, it was also dangerous. these sites try to profit from the idea that girls want to be safe when doing anything like this….NOW….that doesnt mean there are THAT MANY girls out there like that. I would agree with a few above posts. jsut be outgoing, positive and assertive and interact. IN FACT, not many people would think of this advice but it works for me. get MALE friends, quit focusing on getting females and just be ACTIVE. remember all males have friends of their own or sisters/cousins, etc etc….and you may not necessarily get with them (thats rude!) but those girls may have girlfriends…..just build yourself a net of connections.

July 14, 2011 at 8:04 pm
(28) L.J says:

There are actually a few real ones maybe 4 or 5 real ones however most are fakes. Here is a site called Dating sitebuilder.com where just anyone can pay $30 per month and create an adult dating website. They even offer fake profiles to potential clients and autoresponse. Where a computer automaticly response with fake messages. The automated response usually begins 5 to 10 minuite after one signs up.

July 24, 2011 at 8:43 pm
(29) PK says:

LOL! Yes there are fakes and lots of them but I have met and dated and scored with women on quite a few sites, usually after an email or 2 you can figure out if they are real or not. Also there is a thing as the phone, if I exchange a few emails it is time to speak and arrange a meeting.

Oh one of the women I met was a business owner, picked me up in a Benz and paid for the hotel we played in. Fantastic shape and beautiful.

Like anything you develop a sense of what real or not and also a strategy to “close deals”.

August 6, 2011 at 1:31 am
(30) Darrel Horton says:

What site did you find women on to date? I would like to
know. Finding a real woman on a dating site is like finding
water in the desert.

Darrel

August 6, 2011 at 1:27 am
(31) Darrel Horton says:

I enjoyed reading your dating article. I agree with a lot of
what you say, but I cannot say I like Lavalife and Match
doctor. It seems as though all the sites I have been on go
in two directions. You either get a lot of fake messages or
you get nothing. There are only two sites that I have
actually got dates on. Those are Friendfinder (Not Adult
Friendfinder, a terrible site!) and True, but even those
have gone to pot lately. I certainly agree with you about
friendfinder and its sister sites like Getiton, where you
end up spending your money on upgrades and get nothing!
I guess its better to go to a site that is free, so that if you
don’t get dates, at least you will not lose your money. I am
still trying to find one that will work for me, but I haven’t
yet.

Darrel

August 14, 2011 at 7:43 am
(32) Stephen Holt says:

I tried most of the dating sites and got so pissed off that most where totally designed to steal your money. That I researched the software and built my own site. http://www.floridasexysingles.com/
The problem is that the only people joining are scammers and people whom are looking for free advertising. I spent around a grand for this site in space and hosting and even went to totally free down from 1 buck a month.
So I am assuming that is what these other sites are doing is creating fake profiles to get others to actually join.
I would sincerely appreciate it if some of you looking would join and check it out to see if there is some type of problem I am not seeing and let me know? I am going to try to keep it free by using banner ads for at least some revenue. So try it out no matter where you live.

August 23, 2011 at 5:44 pm
(33) daniel says:

Really plentyoffish really does that if you request for sex? I have met like 20 girls in person dating and some turned to serious things but just after my friend got on my phone awhile back and just said hey I’m Dan wanna have sex. I got all these nasty messages back . I don’t get any messages back Lmao .

October 2, 2011 at 11:09 am
(34) harvey says:

well in order to prove that they are legitimate they should have their members with real names n profiles state that they have had a actual encounter from using their site and if more people are having wonderful encounters it would give us less of a headache and filter out all these fake sites that’s out their because honestly my pocket cant handle it.

October 7, 2011 at 8:17 pm
(35) L.J says:

Actually there are NO real dating sites. There are companies that produce these sites and I found one. It’s called http://www.datingsitebuilder.com People put down $29.95 or more depending on the plan and they get their own dating site complete with thousands of phony profiles and a computer response to members. There are no real dating sites because it would be imposible too start one. No one would put down $50 per month to chat with 6 people.

October 15, 2011 at 1:36 am
(36) frutrated frenchman says:

I aggree with most of these comments, i’m on 9 adult sites wich all i want is casual sex and these site are crystal clear that you’re here to meet other people for either casual or ongoing sex. No relationship, no dating toward a relationship, purely sex most women i meet are either single or in a relationship as well couples. They’re so many of cheating wives that’s unbelievable. It’s getting ridiculous that the only way to meet other women is to leave your own province or travel at least a good 100 miles just to meet up. I would like at least 1 site that can garantee that they’re real and will garanteed that you’re going to laid in a period of time not that BS like AFF wich you have to post blogs, reply to articles just to be eligible for the 3months free if you don’t get laid. The bar remains the only option but who wants to stay at a bar for a couple of hours with music blaring like crazy and yelling each other in the ear just to have a simple conversation. Very frustrating for the men who just want simple casual sex without the relationship drama and headgame.

November 18, 2011 at 11:16 am
(37) Meet sexy singles & couples now says:

Yes I run an adult dating website called Wink2Play and I use my own services too and I have had alot of fun ;) sign up and try it out, thats all the advice I can give same with any adult dating site out there if you dont give it a go then you’l never know.

November 19, 2011 at 2:32 am
(38) nadine martinez says:

Hello… Im glad i can make a comment on this issue… Im a 54 years old Filipinoa who wanted to meet someone sing those datings sites.. but unfortunately… the men I chatted with are either scammers or just want to play…I want to meet a serious man… but I think its really hard to find…Right now… Im tired of those dating sites…Is there still a man whom I can trust?

November 19, 2011 at 10:09 pm
(39) Bill says:

i saw this add when looking for a dating website and went to lavalife.com and although people use and talk on there if your not from canada or upper united states dont bother. every female that responded and that was active on the site was from canada it seemed. a few scattered here and there for the united states. oh and the age group, it was mostly cougars to hardly anyone under 33 years of age.

November 22, 2011 at 11:53 am
(40) robert says:

I was a member of gay sexyads which is deceitful there basicallya bi and hetero I met one guy in 3 years ..not worth the effort to join

December 1, 2011 at 12:21 am
(41) jeff says:

I have found the same as most and dont need to rely on a dating site but its all a bait and switch. You can tell the real females from the fake ones….cuz damn! All internet scam b.s. trying to keep alot of hard d@#ks hoping for maybe…just maybe that chance to get with the hotties halfway around the country who tell em how they wanna play. I told this girl from vegas(if it was a girl) that my unit wasnt big enough to reach her from florida. If she was real, then I`m a frickin awsome profile writer cuz I didnt download any pics and she thought I was hot! Sometimes I wish I was gay cuz It would likely be easier to have that casual encounter with another penis carrying member of society. Only men think like this. If you have a vagina and are even a little cute you have a key to the city. Its not easy for guys having to deal with what our units are capable of making us do. One pic of a hottie taking a …..can trigger days of chronic masturbation and obsessive thoughts that ultimately usually end in……yep more masturbation. Maybe its just me. All this talk has made want to go cruise some porn sites and look at s#$t that will never happen in my life time. I`m good but not that good!

January 2, 2012 at 6:44 pm
(42) John says:

alot of sites rip you off and cost money too. But I personally do not believe they are a total waste either. I never met women in bars. It will also cost you alot of money to date women there. No woman is going to bed with a man on first date, hence it could take four or five a ton of money too. The same as a six month subsription and you do not have to leave your room to chat with someone. The site is good for both married men and women. Negatives: single males do poorly since there are 13 males to every female. Hot broads are usually fakes getting you to upgrade and pay more for another package. Few people even show faces? sex with someone you cannot even see?

contrary to this review Adultfriendfinder is still the best because it has the largest database alot more profiles. There is some fraud to all of them…John

January 11, 2012 at 10:37 am
(43) Jeff says:

adultfriendfinder is fake. Stay away from there. Its full of bots.

January 12, 2012 at 7:56 am
(44) Jay says:

Hi after readinG the comments here i feel i should add an experience to this, I was on a dating site and i started talking with a lady on there and we got on really well that was 7 months ago and even though there is over 3000 miles between us we have meet up twice for a few days each time and we are NOW firm friends and lovers and we are BOTh working towards re-locating to be together, yes it is BLOOMING hard at times but with friendship and care you can MAKE it. even on normal dating sites remember the old addage…………………..
IF IT LOOKS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE ……. IT PROBABLY IS !!!
yes i understand that you are looking for a YOUNGER woman and yes i am older than my lover (13 yrs) but we became FRIENDS first as i never even looked at younger women when i did my searching just that my significant other read my profile and liked it and believe you me i was very suspicous and wary when we first started talking.
If it is NSA MEETS you are after the contact mags for your local area are more use to you as the majority are honest on what they want and want too get.
Good luck as i was very very lucky too find a beautiful to me Lady
i will give you the name of the site we meet on but it is full of scammers and fake profiles.

January 12, 2012 at 7:31 pm
(45) oneill454 says:

After reading all the comment I have to agree, dont waste your time and pay alot of money just for fakes to msg you.
Personally I’ve had success on POF.com. met, dated, got laid quite a few times. there are some fakes on there, but most are real. And most of the girls I’ve banged from POF they’re profile says “dating” “friendship” or “hangout” its hit and miss, but I’ve gotten alot of good ass from that site so I guess I can’t complain too much about POF.

January 18, 2012 at 9:29 pm
(46) Bryan says:

GUYS THE FAKE PROFILES THING IS SO MUCH MORE MESSED UP THAN YOU COULD EVEN IMAGINE!

I thought it was wrong on the highest moral level when all I thought they were doing was tricking and baiting us in with fake profiles to membership revenue..That doesn’t even make me all that mad anymore when you find out the full extent of it…
HERE IS PERFECT SUMMARY OF IT LISTED IN XXXBOOK.COM TERMS: (“Online Emissary” is their way of wording “Fake Person”)

“14.7 You also hereby expressly authorize all data in Your profile and all other data regarding Your use of xxxbookcom.com to be used in and in association with Research’sô Online Emissaryô Features, including, for example, to provide introductions to other xxxbookcom.com Members, introductions to other real and factious persons, including those in other dating services. To assist xxxbookcom.com in the formulation and transmission of communications to You, and to enable xxxbookcom.com or a third party in the creation and use of one or more Online Emissaries based on, acting as, or representing, You.”

THE FACT THESE SITES COULD BE USING MY IMAGE AS ONE OF THESE FAKE PROFILES THAT IS OUT THERE DECEIVING PEOPLE AND GENERATING MONEY FOR THEM MAKES ME ANGRY ON A LEVEL WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE.

THE THING IS, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE SITES SELLS YOUR IMAGE TO BE USED ON ANY 3rd PARTY SITE SITE THAT WANTS TO BUY IT. EVEN IF YOU ONLY EVER MADE A P.O.F. ACCOUNT FOR DATING, THERE IS A VERY GOOD POSSIBILITY YOU’RE NOW ALSO “HuNgBiG4U” IN ANY RANDOM CITY YOU CAN THINK OF.

THERE ARE LAWS IN PLACE HOWEVER THAT CAN HELP YOU:
Applicable Privacy Laws allows any individual the right to request the omission of their personal information that is in their custody or under their control and how personal information under their control has been used.

January 29, 2012 at 4:18 pm
(47) Denny says:

Yea,I agree with the majority of you guys,so DEFINETELY stay away from CitySex and Xdating and I-Hookup.You’ll get a ton of mail but hardly any of them answer your questions or acknowledge any personal things about you in your profile.I can’t believe in this day and age that these slimy lowlives can get away with this.It’s fraudulent at the very least so I’ve concluded that these money stealing crooks are all from Washington.D.C. Let’s face it,we all signed up to get F***ed and we definetely did but not the way we wanted.Alot of sites say if you don’t get laid in the first 3 months,they’ll give you another 3 months for free,gee,I wasted 3 months on fake BS and still had to masturbate and now they want me to waste 3 more. Well I’m sorry but if I have to go 3 more months ,I’ll have to sue them for carpal tunnel in my left hand.There damn well has to be something that we collectively can do against these crooked bastards.Thanks for letting me vent and good luck to all.

February 7, 2012 at 5:17 am
(48) Theron says:

There is no law on the Internet. You can get away with anything . There are more than two billion people on the web which makes it the largest “country” in the world. China is only 1.7 billion. The amount of money to be made deceitfully is staggering to the imagination. This is the last sea of piracy and it is going to happen to us all. Good luck to you all … I will probably die masturbating and some woman will have missed a really great time.

February 13, 2012 at 2:42 am
(49) ty says:

Dont know if any of you have heard of untrue.com or not but it is full of fakes as well peoples location change frequintly and there are many profiles witj pics of the same people, and I think they might have computeized profiles or wide spread messeges from fakes because I was getting messages from ladies that read: your so hot and other things about my appearance before I jad even uploaded a photo! And the membershkp is reoccoring amd the only way to stop it is by comtacting customer service, so if you were to overlook that when you signed up and decoded you diddmt wamt to renew your membership and they renewed it amyway you would not get a refunt, do not use.untrue.com!

February 26, 2012 at 10:53 pm
(50) Chris says:

If you read the fine print for most of the sites you will find that they actually have paid employees to “lure” you in. It is meant to initiate contact and also make you feel you have a chance in their site. When you sign up you find that there is hardly anyone on the sites and you just got tricked into signing up by an employee. They don’t think anyone will read their license agreements and terms of service (which 99 times out of 100 that is true) so they put it there for you to miss. They send false invitations, talk to you for a few email and chat sessions, then leave you. Do not be fooled and make sure to read the terms. If you see that this is a term of service, then leave the site immediately as it is a scam site.

February 29, 2012 at 5:55 am
(51) BrittnGa says:

I HAVE READ ALLL OF THE ABOVE COMMENTS AND ITS LIKE A GAMBLE PRETTY MUCH. I STARTED OUT NET DATING IN 2008, IVE HAD INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS FROM FLING, HORNYMATCHES, AFF, AND POF. MAYBE IT HAS ALOT TO DO WITH LOCATION. ALL OF THE MEN I MET USUALLY SAY THE SAME THINGS…. “I DIDNT THINK THIS SITE WAS REAL” AT ANY RATE, 80% OF THE MEN I MET ON THESE SITES I WOULD MEET WITH AGAIN FOR THE INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS. LIKE I SAID I THINK IT HAS ALOT TO DO WITH LOCATION AND IF PPL ARE ACTIVELY SEARCHING IN UR AREAREA. I MET BUISSNESS MEN WHO HAD LITTLE TIME FOR FACE TO FACE DATING, AND THE OTHER HALF WERE MEN WHO JUST LIKED THE FACT OF ACTUALLY MEETING ATTRACTIVE.WOMEN AND HOOKING UP WITH THEM. THE ONLY BAD EXP I HAVE HAD WITH THIS IS MEETING MEN FROM CHATLINES I.E. QUEST AND A FEW OTHERS.

March 6, 2012 at 3:09 pm
(52) pissed off says:

what a ripoff.i tried adult fineder and xdating and relised real fast that it was a money making scam.i email hunderds of women on thes site and got no responce after paying to get on site.i’m not a nerd or loser,nice looking,and i get no responce.i finelly emailed on women a hatefull email to get a responce .i got email saying she liked me. come on

March 11, 2012 at 7:40 pm
(53) TxTechD3 says:

Ha, BrittnGA, you might be the only real person that responds on those sites. And by the way, what location are you in that’s so teeming with legitimate casual encounter seekers?

March 21, 2012 at 4:03 am
(54) Rainman says:

Regardless of how many positive qualities one possesses, if you’re a 42-year-old male who doesn’t make enough money to afford the kind of lifestyle most women desire, you’re destined to live out the rest of your life alone.

Even the ugly and obese women don’t want to have anything to do with you.

I cannot complain about the women who want this because, in all fairness, it is important to be able to show that you, as a man, can provide for them (financially) and any potential offspring she may want to have with you someday.

And people think I’m crazy for frequenting Asian massage parlors or enjoying an occasional paid-for sexual experience.

April 2, 2012 at 7:04 am
(55) Amore says:

serusly tho what do u do when ur so ready to move forward in ur life but girls around u wont stop acting like kids going for thoz tipcle jock tipes

April 2, 2012 at 6:00 pm
(56) sam says:

I’ve joined a few adult dating sites and they all have fake profiles. Some more than others. I don’t want to pay $30 per month to have a bunch of crap profiles emailed to me. The latest site I joined is http://adolto.com, specifically because they claim to have no fake profiles and they charge way less. I guess time will tell if this is a con also.

April 18, 2012 at 7:43 pm
(57) hulk6923 says:

I have or am a member (some paying, some free) of aff, xxxmatch, untrue, fling, be naughty, blackfling, lonely wifes club, discreet adventures and a few more I cant think of right now. Most of the profiles are fake in that they arent even real people and many others are real people but dont look like their pics or never intend to meet in the first place. I have had a little success from aff and xxxmatch. I am chatting now(these past few days) with a beautiful girl on her webcam. She is for real! I have met several others. I have sent countless emails, flits, friend request, etc. There is limited success to be had, but dont expect instant results! They arent join today get laid tonight sites for the most part as they say they are. The girls might get that but the guys dont, lol. 10 times more guys than girls!

May 10, 2012 at 8:16 am
(58) JIMMY M. says:

I AM NEW TO WEB SITE DATING.I’VE BEEN RESEARCHING SOME OF THESE WEB-SITES.I’VE SIGNED UP WITH ALOT OF THEM,BUT HAVE NOT COMITTED TO ANY OF THEM.I JUST FOUND IT HARD TO BELIVE THAT SOME OF THESE MATCHES WHERE TO GOOD TO BE TRUE.I AM REALLY SCARED NOW TO SIGN UP AFTER READING EVERYBODYS COMMENTS.I WAS JUST LOOKING FOR FRIENDS TO CHAT WITH,PEOPLE WHO JUST WANTED TO TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.IF SOMETHING HAPPENED, FINE,IF NOT, FINE….DOES ANYBODY HAVE ANY SUGGUSTIONS?

May 10, 2012 at 4:41 pm
(59) codyj says:

Most of those sites, and also the ‘alternative’ dating ones are choked with scammers….not me, or any of my pals, have EVER gotten ANYTHING from them…and thats over a 12 yr period. My MATCH was right in front of me..at a local tennis club, doing the same thing i like to do (like interests)

May 11, 2012 at 2:28 pm
(60) Some Guy says:

I agree with most the comments here. The only non-scam adult dating site I’ve found is http://www.abitbigger.com, but it doesn’t have many members and if you’re a guy then you have to be well hung. It is completely free though, in fact there is no option to hand over any money and it appears to just rely on advertising. I haven’t seen any fake profiles either. All it needs is more women.

May 12, 2012 at 2:44 am
(61) robert says:

POF is a site I would recommend. I meet several women from there, granted a few were creepers but they were real. It also seems like everyone expects to.pick up a date the day they sign on to these sites. It took me awhile to finely meet the first girl and its something u have to work at. Yeah there are fake profiles and stuff and it seems all those are easy to spot. The ones that sound to good to be true are usually just that. AFF was somewhat successful for me but there are a lot of scanners there, I think I meet like three girls off that site in about 6 months time and a buddy of mine meet a few in about the same 6 months. I’m the one that showed him the site and its actually pretty expensive.

Needless to say I am hopefully with the girl that I will spend the rest of eternity on this God forsaken earth and I met her off of POF!

May 12, 2012 at 7:42 pm
(62) John says:

It is like everything else in the last 30 years of rampant deregulation. Even though these “businesses” are on the essentially unregulated internet, they still have physical offices somewhere with real employess and they still receive pay for “services”, which means they would have been busted for outright FRAUD and a host of other felony and misdemeanor offenses BEFORE the days of deregulation of business. Now thanks to all of you “Free” Market, never regulate, never tax business interest types, WE ARE ALL REAPING THE BITTER WHIRLWIND OF YOUR SELFISH LIBERTARIAN PHILOSOPHY. This is only the tip of the iceberg, since that same “Free” Market, “Free” Trade, anti-regulation, anti-taxation (of the rich that is), anarchist economic Darwinian philosophy has destroyed our American workforce, cost many families their homes to bank foreclosures, destroyed our beautiful Gulf of Mexico (BP), caused huge public paid for Wall Street bailouts, wars for profit, etc., etc., etc. WELCOME TO THE TRIUMPH OF GREED AND FRAUD OVER HONESTY, INTEGRITY, AND LEGITIMATE GOVERNMENT TO PROTECT SOCIETY FROM THESE THIEVES!!!

May 14, 2012 at 4:42 am
(63) shawn says:

fling is a fake site i was a member but all the ppl that would talk to me or that showed thy were in my part of the state were online cupids

May 14, 2012 at 5:12 pm
(64) Tanner says:

LOL.!! Even the scammers from fake dating sites are advertising about how “REAL” their sites are on a page about fake dating sites. Very comical!!! LOOK!! PEOPLE. IT’S VERY SIMPLE. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS THIS……….SIMPLY TYPE IN THE NAME OF THE DATING SITE AND PUT A / SCAM BEHIND IT AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS. HERE IS AN EXAMPLE: http://WWW.MATCH.COM/SCAM OR PUT IT INTO A QUESTION. EXAMPLE: IS MATCH.COM A SCAM?

OH BY THE WAY. NEVER,NEVER,NEVER, USE YOUR CREDIT CARD ON ANY OF THESE SITES…..NEVER!!!!!!!!! ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GO TO A WAL-MART SUPER CENTER, AND I KNOW YOU LIVE NEAR ONE, PICK UP A MONEY CARD, PUT SOME MONEY ($20.00 & UP) THEN JOIN ONE OF THE FAKE SITES. THIS WAY WHEN YOU HATE THE SITE, AND YOU WILL, THE CARD WILL BE “DEAD” AND THEY CAN’T RECHARGE YOU BECAUSE IT IS NOT CONNECTED TO ANY OF YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS. IT’S JUST THAT SIMPLE. TRY IT!!! IT WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May 16, 2012 at 5:31 am
(65) tickle-my-fancy.com says:

Hi,

Well let me start by saying I agree with a lot of what is said above. It is very dificult when starting a new dating site. Until you are popular it is hard to have other users that are local to other potentil users and so those potential users wont sign up so it. Its a catch 22 situation – you need the volume of existing users to appeal to new users, so how do you ever get started? Well at tickle-my-fancy our premis is offering an adult dating/ social networking platform for a much reduced price. We have typical features – chat, editing profiles, looking for, videos etc etc but we offer monthly membership for $10 total. Period. No additionally charged premium features. We are new and have over 1000 members so far and are constantly growing. Our ethos will remain the same – dating for less. We do not pretend to be free. Users can create an account for free and have a look around – but we are very low cost. Our mission statement is to be THE CHEAPEST and THE BEST.

May 19, 2012 at 10:54 am
(66) Kj says:

Lavalife definitely worked for me too. Intimate section for play… Dating section for the nice guys!

May 20, 2012 at 10:40 am
(67) One Born Every? says:

I was just inputting my details into Mature Dating UK and received notification of a message from a girl not far from me. Odd I thought but decided to look at her profile…it said she was a non-smoker but in her profile picture there’s an ashtray right by her side and she doesn’t wear glasses, apparently. Most peculiar because the picture I’m looking at has a Doris with specs on Deenis Taylor would be proud of. Come On! If you’re going to try and fool someone at least make it believeable.

May 21, 2012 at 8:10 am
(68) drdrdre says:

http://www.collarme.com
free, easy to use, lot of people on there

May 21, 2012 at 11:34 am
(69) toomanytimewasters says:

this is free site.with sum success .
http://www.fabswingers.com
you only pay a small fee for upgrades only if you want that which i dont use
and like someone above says..as its free and you get fakes timewasters etc you got nothing to lose

May 22, 2012 at 12:00 pm
(70) Jim Reid says:

I used http://www.casualsex.co.uk for a while and was pretty happy with it. I guess on many of these sites some of the profiles are out of date which can be a pain but I still managed to find a few girls on here and went out with a few (with varying degrees of success but that’s another story).

Hope that helps

May 22, 2012 at 3:47 pm
(71) Andrew says:

@Giovanni: You’re wrong. My girlfriend and I met on a dating site and we are both very happy. We are both attractive and very in shape successful people. We work very hard and have busy lives so we went online…oh and to your argument that they are paid actors…Ive been in two commercials now…so…yeah, sorry you must of had a bad experience. Best of luck

Key is, be selective, have fun and dont be too vested into any of it…again…have fun!

May 22, 2012 at 7:19 pm
(72) OMZ says:

They are 99% scams very few women are actually on these sites fact if u wnt to find a woman join a serious dating site like zoosk and ul meet women

aff pof seekbuddie be naughty all rubbish i ahve dozens of mates who hav givin in joinin thse sites onlyy one has work and taht was pof afte 6 month membership and he got with a total munter

May 22, 2012 at 8:26 pm
(73) Noreen says:

I have tried Match.com for two weeks and have to admit that
I should have paid attention to all the bad review I read
from consumers which were huge.
The company lures you in before joining with so called flirts,
email, etc., from members. Unfortunately, this is all a
scam. The majority of the flirts I received were thousands
of miles from where I live, not paid members and some
fake profiles. I live in British Columbia, Canada and many
of the bad reviews from 2012 were from British Columbia.
The old saying a fool and his/her money are easily parted,
well, that is true.
Do not waste your time or money on this site, it sucks.

Noreen Hardy
surrey, British Columbia
Canada

May 23, 2012 at 12:53 am
(74) Unbelievable says:

C’mon people. There are definately real dating site uot there but one myst be honest with oneself. first of all no WOMAN will go on a site and have SEX with you after an IM. Just diesnt happen unless money is involved. That being said, if you are confident in your presentation and dont look like a nightmare then you should have no problem. If you are but ugly and epecting sex….then the 90% of the internet is for you. I have enjoyed and met many women on a few different site in the past…match is real, lavalofe is also. Sure they use models to advertise, who doesnt these days, doesnt mean they are not legit or are fake. Look in the mirror, question your true intentions, be honest with yourself and girls will respond, as long as you hunt “WITHIN YOUR LEVEL” dont chase models and wonder why you are still single. Cheers mates!!

May 23, 2012 at 10:55 am
(75) Shaha says:

I have been looking for a while to join an Adult dating site which caters for all..as most sites seem to be filled with scammers and fake profiles . I came across a pretty new website that seems to be doing well..www.singleandfun.com. I decided not to judge the book by its cover as it did not have those flashy beautiful girls on the front page, but real profiles. they dont have lots of people like AFF profiles as its pretty new, but members seem to be replying emails and online..wow.. that’s something that takes a while with other sites.. .
I think the site has potencial as its dealing with only personals from the US.. finally i dont have to deal with people asking me for money lol..this is something that i have been waiting for….

May 27, 2012 at 1:27 am
(76) Crusnik02 says:

Hey guys I read all of these and I’ve signed up to most of these sites and more and can confirm they all pretty much suck, I have found one, just one that is completely free although they do advertise for sites that aren’t. There aren’t a lot of members but there is enough, although there are a few scams but if you join you’ll realize it’s only the same few pics over and over again for scams. This site is a little bit more for people into fetishes though, anywhere from normal to creepy but I figured I’d see if anyone wanted to try it, it’s babblesex.com and if you think this is just more spam just remember you’ve tried plenty others that didn’t work and this one is completely free so what’s the harm in trying? Hope this helps and if anyone finds another please post. Best of luck to you all

May 30, 2012 at 12:36 am
(77) Rick Smith says:

I think it is very important to remember why you are joining a dating website in the first place. If you are looking for something casual then perhaps your expectations will not be that high. If though you are looking to establish a serious relationship the just in a face-to-face style of meeting it is going to take some time and will not be able to be done in a week.

May 30, 2012 at 4:29 am
(78) thebrainsthatholdsthebiggestsecret says:

WOW SEE THAT’S THE PROBLEM WITH DESPERATE MEN, YOU NEVER EVER ADMIT TO A GIRL THAT YOU LIKE’EM UNTIL YOU’VE PLAYED THE GAME RIGHT AND HAVE HAD THEM FALL FOR YOU. BUT REMEMBER THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISHES IN THE SEA. OPTION 2 IS THE DESPERATE MEN SHOULD ALSO CHANGE THEIR APPEARANCE TO LOOK LIKE MICHAEL JACKSON,ZAC EFRON, JUSTIN BIEBER, ETC…. AND PLAY REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY, HAVE THE WOMEN AFTER YOU INSTEAD OF YOU GOING AFTER THEM. EVEN THOUGH A WOMAN WANTS YOU ALWAYS PLAY HARD TO GET.

May 30, 2012 at 2:11 pm
(79) MARIA says:

I know of a great website that just started. It is safe and interactive. I have had a great experience with it. The name is http://www.iknowyoureoutthere.com

I know you’re out there, which is a cool name and literally describes what I feel. They just started but it is already working for me.

June 2, 2012 at 9:53 pm
(80) JoeB says:

I have had success with AdultFriendfinder…..and didnt pay a dime…met the women through a local group chat on there….and I have had success at POF

June 2, 2012 at 10:18 pm
(81) ortopedia online says:

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(82) ortopedia says:

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June 4, 2012 at 3:15 pm
(83) Davd says:

There are still some good adult dating sites. There is this new one that just popped up called xotiq.co.cc.

June 5, 2012 at 12:52 am
(84) Kev says:

Ay, yall better stick to myspace if you’re looking for some online loving LMAOOOOO

June 5, 2012 at 8:32 am
(85) John says:

There is a brand new site that just popped up called Xotiq. This is an adult dating site where you can find people near you and even internationally to chat with. You can exchange pics, flirt, and even have a little fun. You can meet exotic people in your area.

June 6, 2012 at 1:34 pm
(86) Goulash says:

I’ve been on these sites for a few years now with some really nice encounters and friendships produced. Started with Yahoo personals, Kijiji and Craigslist, POF and yes…. I was suckered into the paid ones and fake ones like so many of you have already mentioned.
POF has been the most successful to date but you have to build two profiles on it. One for Intimate Encounters and the other, put either Dating or Long Term. Put your picture on one but not the other and you will notice if you read carefully, many women have done the same thing. With two different pages, you won’t be blocked from sending a message to an old fashioned woman, you will send her that message from your Dating page.
Most women really want to see Dating or Long Term…..I had the most torrid, satisfying and enduring encounters with a nurse who put how devote she was in her faith and that she would never go to bed with anyone who wasn’t her husband and that she really wanted to get married again, etc, etc, etc.. OMG, she was great.
The key to these free sites working for you is to be patient and communicative with the women. It may take months of messages and showing that you have not forgotten them for them to finally agree to meet you. Be a gentleman and a positive communicator, kiss them on the cheek tenderly and you will have them in no time at all. Many women I have talked to complain that men are pigs, jump right into sex talk and are all Romin Hands and Russin Fingers.
Guys, the time for that will come and I promise you, you will complain about how sore you D**k is when she finally opens her bedroom door to you, but be a gentleman first and foremost, and that helps these free sites work. They are only an “introductory to a stranger” mechanism, the rest is up to you. (cont’d)

June 6, 2012 at 1:35 pm
(87) Goulash-2 says:

(cont’d from pg 1)
One more thought if I may……
I have met and been with all shapes and legal ages (some pretty, some really not) BUT…..if you ask yourself honestly and answer yourself honestly……are you the most handsome Co*k in the barnyard at your age?? Does this really matter when you are in her bed, watching her moan and grip the headboard……and YOU are the one causing this to become????? No greater thrill is it for a man than to pleasure the woman and watch and hear it all, front row seat if you will.
I mention the above in support of using the free sites that are available and yet to be invented, along with doing your grocery shopping at 530pm weekdays, take your time and dress and smell nice….the old ways still work guys…..trust me.

June 8, 2012 at 1:06 am
(88) Asian Women Seeking Men says:

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June 10, 2012 at 9:03 am
(89) Chrkis says:

I’ve been on 12 dating sites (most of them mentioned), and i’ve been scammed, deceived, lied to and been totally sexually frustrated .What a waste of time and money! Since then I’ve increased my workouts, and started taking better care of myself, and getting better noticed in public. Who needs this chatting, winking, viewing, teasing, bull***t. How pathetic. I’d rather meet live breathing real women.

June 10, 2012 at 12:02 pm
(90) gatolove says:

This is a legitimate site where you can meet people from all nationalities for free. Maybe someone is there that you could click with. Give it a try. I did.

June 10, 2012 at 1:09 pm
(91) Amanda says:

We have a totally free website which need’s to have the word spread about it.

It’s called http://www.flirthut.com.

Please check it out and add it to the list if possible. We have been around for a year now and going strong ! But need to get more members especially women.

We are currently working on a better version on the site which will be ready at the end of the year.

June 13, 2012 at 12:14 am
(92) jeff says:

Does any one have coments about Ashley Madison. I am considering joining this site.

June 13, 2012 at 11:41 am
(93) connect-4-sex says:

Yes there are loads of fake sites out there full of fake profiles and bots etc. We are just starting and haven’t quite finished our site yet, but we are not using any of the above. We are working very hard to make a better casual sex/dating site. Our site is free at the moment as it is still under construction but we are welcoming people to sign up and have a look around. We welcome any comments and/or suggestions you may have.

June 15, 2012 at 9:09 pm
(94) Ms Optomistic says:

I was widowed 8 years ago and after four years I tried online dating. I was being optomistic about meeting like minded people. However I now know why children and youth are warned continually about the dangers of meeting strangers online.

This same rule applies to adults. I think adults think that they are not vunderable, they can’t be coned, lied to, manipulated, played with, taken advantage of sexually, money etc. by profiles on dating sites and the dating site companies.

I took great care and consideration with my profiles, my pictures, my search and responses. I tired Lava Life, Mate One, E-Harmony, Match.com, and a few others. I met a few men that lied about their age, intent, some were actually married. Some never exsisted and or did not show up for dates. Several were scum con men from Nigeria etc. I had to take widowed off because that seemed to be a target for cons and very undesirable men. It did cost me emotionally and financially for memberships. Two men I had dated and were interested in wanted a woman for sex only and a women to be support/pay their way (male hookers instead of the nice term gigolo).

Once I decide to go off line I felt better about myself, and more positive about dating and meeting a real, healthy, great guy.

No more online for me. I want to meet people in person, see the whites of their eyes(as eyes are the window of the soul), hear their words and read their body language. So I am still optomistic to find true love in Calgary, Alberta. I drive a 2012 Race Red, Hard Top Mustang. I am Selective, Sincere, Careful, and A Classic Woman Just Like My Mustang Car Good Luck To Find Real and True Love

Cheers, Ms Optomistic

June 17, 2012 at 7:17 pm
(95) ashley says:

Ha!! I gave up HOPE. Please be on your GUARD. There are just TOO MANY FAKE PROFILES out there…. I was made a fool of not once or twice, but three FUDGING TIMES!!!

I was talking to this guy on and off on the BADOO website (say he’s called JOHN) for a good 6 months…. the pics were gorgeous, he said all the right things etc… and during a picture exchange a few days ago…. i uncovered the lies…. after searching on his email address on facebook, out popped up a fake profile of a girl…. after doing a bit more digging… i found the real ”JOHN”… different name, age, location etc… He obviously didn’t know someone had stolen his pictures etc.

So upset…… But then again, it’s my fault for trusting a total stranger….

June 21, 2012 at 10:50 am
(96) Avdp says:

Check out: SEX-DATINGSITE.com

They charge only $ 2.50 per month.

Here is the link: https://sex-datingsite.com

Have Fun!

June 22, 2012 at 9:36 am
(97) Joeyy says:

Ok so i just searched legit adult dating sites and ive come to the conclusion that theyre obviously all fakes but not necessarily that just the amount of profiles.. anyways im 25 yr old athletic good looking male and i dont need to use these sites to get laid once in awhile but it is hard to find some new women on them and then it hit me one day.. ive been on the right site but also all the wrong ones.. you dont want to use any sex matching site, all the women are on regular friendship sites.. the one i use most and always works for me me is meetme.com similar to facebook but i use it seperatley for more discretion and ive hooked up with more women then adult friend finder which worked once for me but wasnt enuff that i cancelled it.. trust me fellas, women are stuck up they are “too good” for adult sites. .go to meetme.com, or facebook or anything of the lik e and just use the regular sites its all about being able to TALK to them, tell em what they want to hear and if neither of u are looking for some seriousness then ur golden just steer the ship in the right direction

June 25, 2012 at 5:34 pm
(98) Joey says:

There’s also a site that I use personally called tagged.com, its always worked for me and its kinda like meetme.com. u don’t have to pay a dime to use it and u get to send and receive as many messages as u want, view every profile, send friend request… the works. There is a V.I.P. that u can pay for but its optional, all it does is let u see if the ppl that u sent messages to have read them or not and a few other things. I haven’t payed for the V.I.P. cuz u don’t really need it. I think y’all should try it out if anything. It does have its share of fake profiles on there but if u been on dating websites b4 then u know what they look like just by either looking at there username or profile pic. Give it a try, I’ve been using it since 2007 and met numerous ppl from this site. Hope this helps!

June 25, 2012 at 6:36 pm
(99) miccousskkee1 says:

I can teell you not to go localcheaters.com one time a woman can be right down the road from you and next week she 2000 miloes away I spent several months on this siye at different times and out of over 3hundred and eighty some messages sent I never got one reply

June 26, 2012 at 1:40 am
(100) Andy says:

HI all . Why not use this place ? I am also tired of all these spam mails and sites. I am just a normal man 25 years, looking to have some fun . If some one is interested let me know .. I am from NYC. :) Hope this atleast works

June 26, 2012 at 12:22 pm
(101) Thom says:

Internet dating has been good to me. Why? I’m a big guy, with a few rough marks, and obvious military experience. Read architypal germanic warrior. Something you can’t be these days.

The internet allows me to express myself through writing, which I am very good at. I NEVER do pictures. I simply say: Why don’t we arrange things so you can get a good look at me without me knowing who you are? Perhaps a public library? I’ve only had one woman take me up on this, and yup I never heard from her again. But usually the subject of pictures just gets forgotten and we actually begin a relationship through writing. By the time we meet in person she has a very accurate idea of who I am inside and has, in at least one case, begun to have feelings for me. I feel as if I am allowed to ‘speak my piece’, as it were, on the internet where I am never allowed to when brutish appearance is a factor.

June 27, 2012 at 3:29 am
(102) LJ says:

OK guys & gals. My wife of 18 yrs “come July 2012″, & I met using the personal ads of a news paper. She answered my ad and we talked on the phone for 3 weeks before we met. I was up front with her and told her I was dating from the ads, I did not tell her I had met over 40 women in two weeks. I did however tell her she was number 13 that I actually met more than once. Most either I did not contact a second time or they did not answer when I called them a second time. Lucky for me I got to know this woman for three weeks before we met, because I was not what she was looking for at all & I was looking to get laid. We had described ourselves over the phone & despite the fact that I was tall dark & handsome, lmao, she agreed to meet with me because she liked our conversations. We dated for about a year & then married. All thanks to the personal ads in the news paper. Oh, & did I mention out of the 13 women I met, I got laid 4 times in three weeks. Yes I know I am a slut so sue me.
LJ

June 30, 2012 at 5:49 am
(103) Mike says:

I signed up for a few in my time and had varying degrees of success. I think you need to take the whole thing with a pinch of salt as almost all of the sites use at least some window dressing to get you hooked in.

There are some really basic sites (sorry I can’t remember any names) that are entirely legit but, the simple fact is, they have too few profiles.

The last site I used was f***tonight.co.uk so you can imagine the frame of mind I was in when I googled that one ;-)

I did ok on that site though and met a couple girls so I know at least some of them must be real. I think the golden rule is ‘If a profile looks too good to be true, it probably is’. Just look for the ones who look like real girls and only part with your hard-earned cash if that’s the case. If it says there is a supermodel living in your street who is desperate to get it on with a guy like you, exercise caution.

You can definitely meet girls on these sites if you don’t get sucked in and use some common sense.

July 2, 2012 at 11:39 am
(104) TxHottie says:

After reading everyone’s comments, and taking into consideration my experiences from online dating … maybe you’re looking for NSA on the wrong sites, there are women who aren’t looking for a relationship or commitment — I had never even heard of “Adult Dating Sites” and I’m 49yr old. There are women that have strong sex drives that enjoy the company of a man …especially after being married for 21yrs. I’ve been on free sites, and on paid sites. I even had a great FWB relationship with a 33yr old for 4 months — he approaches me in a email & I appreciated his honesty. We talked & texted for a month because I was dating another man at the time. We became good friends, and when we met we had amazing chemistry. I don’t look my age & it’s probably why I’m approached by younger men all the time. But I’ve dated a wide range. Don’t loose hope ….

Peace Out

D

July 7, 2012 at 12:44 am
(105) Kim says:

First I have to say I agree with Goulash-2. I am more than happy to get down and dirty, but let’s play nice for a minute first. I certainly want a relationship, but there are times where I will happily toss that over. :)

Also….I have been on dating sites for years. Without much luck. I have to assume I am not the best looking out there. Meet people in person? Would love to! I just don’t meet people when I am out and about. So…yea, I am not real successful. BUmmer for me.

July 7, 2012 at 10:47 am
(106) Phenix says:

Donít waste your money or time on Adult Match Doctor and Adult Friend Finder. I got zero results. Itís all hype and no action.

July 7, 2012 at 3:51 pm
(107) Bethany says:

I have been looking for a dating site where the guys are not looking for just sex, not because I dont want it or cant have sex, but moreso to find love and not a piece. I have been let down so many times because that is what 96.9% of guys want. I live in a small town and the selection is, lets just say, less than appealing. That is the reason why I have searched beyond my means into the curious world of online dating. Whether in person or online, I have been proven right with the males wanting sex only. Pathetic, I am a beautiful 28yr old woman who has her stuff together and knows what she wants and I can’t even find a real person with morals. I understand why people turn gay. That is why nice guys finish last, cause the real good girls get thrown in the mix with all of the other sex crazed materialistic females. This is a shame, I have such beauty to give and no one to share it with.

July 7, 2012 at 5:32 pm
(108) Brandon says:

Where do you live?

July 11, 2012 at 6:44 am
(109) Mark says:

All the negatives that have been reported on dating sites are true.
There will always be a few genuine women on the site, but most will be fake.

I have tried many sites and you see the same photos of women who apparently have different names, ages, all with varying characteristics, and locations hundreds of miles apart.

It is a shame, the opportunity to bring people together has been wasted by greedy, lying, cheating people. For males these sites are completely pointless, once you have picked your way through all the fake women, you are then faced with competing with thousands of men chasing only a few women.

July 12, 2012 at 8:12 pm
(110) MS says:

I’ve been to this one and it has a more classy feel to it than your average sleazy adult dating websites. It has a beautiful woman (Classy, done tastefully) laying on a gorgeous velvet couch in thigh highs and beautiful classy lingerie. It has a certain rich feel to it, like a great glass of red wine. As with most other tasteless adult dating sites, have a cheap, trashy look to them. This was eye-popping candy as soon as you hit the landing page @ http://www.VampirePalace.com

This site has 1000′s of people all over the world and what’s really good about it, is they have different levels…so if you don’t feel that comfortable with the full on XXX, within the same site it offers some Sexy (showing a little) to more normal type profiles in case you don’t want to get that crazy right out the gate…LOL!

What I liked about this site was there is truly something for everyone there to match your own comfort level, sometimes some may just want to ease into it, while others may want a more in your face XXX. And this is why I like this place, it had something to offer everyone! Subtle to Kinky.

My recommendation is that you try it: http://www.VampirePalace.com

PS. It’s totally FREE to join, I liked this too so I could check it out first.

July 19, 2012 at 10:24 am
(111) Mike B says:

All of the sites are scams designed to take money from lonely people.

I don’t know if women are treated differently but these sites don’t show any ‘active’ women in your area, you get messages (which you can’t answer unless you ‘upgrade’) from women far from your area which are never answered, etc. etc. etc.

Total scams. If you are desperate for female companionship, you WON’T find any on these sites.

July 19, 2012 at 9:16 pm
(112) jp says:

Try adultspace its 100% free and ive met a few ppl off of there

July 22, 2012 at 1:06 pm
(113) billy bob says:

stay away from UnTrue.com

July 23, 2012 at 9:08 am
(114) Cintiboy says:

They are total scams. Before you join there are lots of women near you. Once you join, suddenly they have not been on line for 3 months or more. You get messages from women from far away but none from local women and no one responds to your messages.

Is all a total scam and I doubt there are any women on those sites (except possibly for those working for the site)!

July 24, 2012 at 6:56 am
(115) ortopedia says:

I’m gone to say to my little brother, that he should also visit this weblog on regular basis to take updated from latest information.

July 25, 2012 at 7:04 pm
(116) Jules says:

I dont think there is a such thing as a free adult dating webiste or a free casual dating website. Regular ones like ok cupid or date hookup, sure, they are real and the members on there are real too. I met someone from there who iv recently had a relationship with(ok cupid) and on datehookup i personally know know one of the members on there. Those two are regular dating sites that are 100% free except ok cupid has a new feature requiring you to upgrade if you want to use the extra features but finding a totally 100% free adult dating sites is alot more harder altogether, i myself am still looking for one.

July 26, 2012 at 5:53 am
(117) jory says:

I hate randomly meeting someone online, but I guess I was hoping for love at first sight. Its just everyone I come across is interested in sex. Im interested in someone who I wouldn’t even kiss till the third date. Im only 20, maybe I’m just dreaming and living false hopes in the wrong ERA.

August 1, 2012 at 11:16 am
(118) Nine Lives says:

Confirming that Fling is a fake scam site.

I’ve personally had some success on okcupid. Haven’t met anyone in person through the site, but at least I actually talked to a few real people. Something that’s increasingly rare on dating sites.

Currently I’m messing around on plenty of fish and I’m rather disappointed. The place is FULL of transsexuals and prostitutes who post their services and prices in their profile. I sympathies that TG’s need love too, but on POF they’re blatantly dishonest about it.

August 1, 2012 at 12:42 pm
(119) Sam says:

How can anyone say that there aren’t any women online looking for sex. I mean, there are just as many women using the internet. Millions! And none of them are looking for hookups? Maybe your standards are a little too high guys. I use dating sites and see tons of girls. Sure, they’re not super models, but neither are most of you.

August 2, 2012 at 6:02 pm
(120) ruben says:

I just think it all depends on the way you look because I have been on pof is for about 7 months and I’ve already been with about 10 women on there I’m not gonna say their models but they were penetrate able

August 5, 2012 at 6:24 am
(121) Starpepper says:

I’ve been online dating for many years and here’s what I can say about men looking for sex… most women would be open to it, but you have to show that you have some friendship qualities too. I’ve had guys suggest sex on the first coffee date and that’s a real turn off to a woman. Even if we wanted sex too – we want to be treated like real human beings – not a piece of meat.

I’m one of those real women who would reach out to a man on a dating site and suggest meeting for a coffee if I was interested – without a lot of unnecessary emailing. So real women do exist out there – it’s just that so many men don’t know what to do with us once you meet us. They don’t know how to court a woman, so she does want to be with you. It’s very sad. Then men complain that women don’t want to have sex. I think they need to look within. We need to trust who we’re with. Success lies in the ability to treat a woman well. Like a flower that will eventually blossom – if you are interested in a woman as a person, and are sincere – it will pay off. Just don’t be a bull in a china shop about it.

- Starpepper

August 10, 2012 at 7:23 pm
(122) Mr X. says:

Online dating has worked for me, I am still a memebr there, joined 7 month a go and had sex 4 times only, but seems the women there only want one time only whilst I wanted it regular. NEVER email the pretty woman cos you wont get an email or have any chance as its fake most likely but FOCUS your attention on the less pretty ones and fat ones to and also with no pictures on, the reason I think I had sucess is cos it depends how much time you put into the site, like I am using it all day mostly and jsut sending out the same messages and usuallly after every 24 emails you get 1 reply, the hunt still continues……. adios xx..

August 12, 2012 at 10:04 pm
(123) Matthew says:

Dating site Ponzi scheme

Yes I have try serveal Dating site and they’re just the same odd. When I received a message from a another member on the Dating site and if I want to read it I have pay for it and when I do that and rely their message and they never rely back no matter how long I wait. I think that the owner of the dating site are not trying to help us to find the right partner they’re after our money yes it all about money. The member who paid to use the site get ripped off and the owner says “it good business”

I’ll say that it’s best just go bars and club at least the people are real and you can meet them and it doesn’t have be bars and clubs to go and meet someone to have a great it can be anywhere else to someone. And I’ll just have to be patient and lower my expectation. Sometimes a woman will smile at me when I’m having a great day and this happen you less expected, you just got to be yourself and to do what you enjoy.

August 17, 2012 at 12:13 am
(124) rapichat says:

I am going to be honest I searched for a long time and had the best luck and still currently at NightFling.com I have had the time of my life. Site is free to sign up and there are some costs to upgrade but there are so many people on this site it would be impossible not to hookup period! I mean anyone no matter who you are will hookup. Site Link is http://NightFling.com I love it and will always be on there.

August 17, 2012 at 2:20 am
(125) john says:

yea goulash is so full of it, he’s probably some cross-dressing mama’s boy, who tries to make others feel jealous even though he’s a 40 yr old virgin!

August 21, 2012 at 5:35 pm
(126) Nalee says:

Dating sites can get old, I find that just meeting people out and about works the best. And just make sure that when the time come you can deliver! I visit the http://adultspicestore.com to get what I need to look good and to satisfy my mate and everything else seems to fall in place!

August 29, 2012 at 7:59 pm
(127) Jim says:

To Mr X, get real OK, you says (Online dating has worked for me, I am still a memebr there, joined 7 month a go and had sex 4 times only). come on young man I’m 60 yrs old ( yes older men still enjoy sex) I known I can not keep up with the young men, but 4 time in 7 months, please, and to say online dating is working for you. I have sex at least one time a week and now and then 2 times a week. I have a casual friendship with 4 women that I meet online. the youngest was 25 when we meet 2 years ago and we still see each other now, the other 3 are in there 20′s and 30′s. yes I like younger women , but I put that in my ad to start with. yes it a free web site Craigslist.. yes it can be a long process weeding out all the Bots and Spam and finding a local girl is the hardest part. but it does happen. When me and one of the girls go out its understood I’m going to spend the night now. no we do not have a contract, sure I help them out time to time but no it not like they get money every time we go out. All but one has kids and when we go out the kids come to. we will go to a pizza place that has games for the kids to play or if we decide to go to a movie we go somewhere nice to eat and a movie. life for me is good and I spend a whole lot less money now then I did in my younger days bar hopping. Like Starpepper said Women want to be treated like real human beings Ė not a piece of meat. being nice to them does not mean slip them some money, it means treat them with the same respect you expect. Its a good feeling when one of the girls kids call to tell me what they got on their report card or to tell me their Birthday is coming up (hint hint). but they remember my birthday and Christmas too. To Be Continue

August 29, 2012 at 8:01 pm
(128) Jim says:

So as far as web site dating I will not ever again join a dating site. been there done that but no more. Craigslist. is free and when you get rid of the Bots and Fakes you can find what your looking for. Maybe I am lucky because I’m not rich, I’m just a everyday working men like I guess most of you are. But remember in my ad I was looking for casual friendship not just sex. Do you think any of these young ladies has sex the first or second time we went out? no way and if offered I would have turn it down. don’t laugh remember I’m old school and if she was willing to show a old man a good time the first time out then I know she was most likely friendly with a lot of men. I was looking for a casual friendship not a Pro. Is any of the ladies friends with anyone else, I do not asks and they don’t tell. But god gave me enough common sense to wear a party hat always. like I said at 60 life is good. How long will this last God only knows. But if it ended tomorrow I would go back to Craigslist and start over.
remember do not be in a hurry, be honest and use common sense.
because you can find what your looking for without going to a join and pay monthly dating site. Good luck to everyone I hope yo find who your looking for. I have 4 friends for life. The benefits may stop as they are young and may find someone there age to get serious with. But our friendship will never end. If one or all of the ladies get married I will be at there wedding, I mean don’t you go to a real friend wedding.

September 7, 2012 at 6:38 pm
(129) Marleen says:

I have also tried every dating site there is, people say to me that I will meet someone on a dating site but to me everyone wants sex on dating sites and thats not what I’m looking for. I’d rather meet a guy in person rather than waste my time on dating sites.

September 10, 2012 at 2:48 pm
(130) astounded says:

Lol,

Skimming through the 129 comments made me laugh, as I read some rather blatant attempts at “better” online dating sites.

This is a damn good thread by the way. It’s actually got a high percentage of real people unless most of you are about.com bots, trying to make about look busy :P

I suppose the old “too good to be true” saying, should be firmly adhered to.

Obviously the average man and the average woman (based on gaussian distribution curves majority) usually want different things. It’s a right old tangley web online (hur-hur)

Anyway, here’s a great site for you all to date on :P gooutsideforacupofcoffeeifyoucanandstopwastingtimetrawlingeyecandyonlineffsyounoobs.com
(That coming from a total noob oneself :( )

September 11, 2012 at 9:40 am
(131) Gina Browse says:

use the adult websites they SO work! ;-) xxx hehehe

September 11, 2012 at 10:54 pm
(132) George Evans says:

I’M A 51 YEAR OLD MAN THAT’S BEEN ALONE FOR 34 STRAIGHT YEARS. FROM WHAT I CAN GATHER IN THIS FORUM, THE ONLINE DATING SCENE IS ENTIRELY FAKE. I CAN AGREE WITH THAT. I ALSO READ THAT THE ONLY WAY TO MEET WOMEN IS AT A BAR OR CLUB. BUT WHAT ABOUT SOMEONE LIKE ME WHO WOULD NEVER SET FOOT IN A BAR OR CLUB??? WHERE DOES SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT SMOKE, DRINK, OR DO DRUGS TURN TO IN ORDER TO MEET UP WITH A NICE FEMALE EITHER FOR SEX OR ANYTHING ELSE??? I’M FED UP WITH SPENDING MY WEEKENDS BY MYSELF

September 17, 2012 at 12:12 am
(133) Janet says:

There are some good sites, but you just have to be careful. I’ve met some great guys, and I review them on my site if you are interested in which ones I think are the best…but I always talked to them for a long time first. I met some jerks too, but that happens in real life also.

September 17, 2012 at 12:16 am
(134) Janet says:

I apologize if I posted this twice…but yeah, I met a lot of great guys online. You just have to be careful and talk a bit, and then meet in person. I review some of the best sites on my blog adult dating website help, if you are interested in reading reviews and more tips.

September 17, 2012 at 10:45 am
(135) david brown says:

i used this site before and found a few dates, nice ladies xx thanks up4adate.

September 19, 2012 at 7:03 pm
(136) kiema says:

There are some like http://adultdatinghookup.socialparody.com that are free with no strings attached..nada..

September 22, 2012 at 11:41 am
(137) 50cent says:

There are free sites out there but those people look hideous, i mean come on why would someone search for a mate on the internet? Something really weird in that.

September 28, 2012 at 2:47 pm
(138) Justin45 says:

You should add untrue.com to the list of fake dating sites. Truly terrible site with thousands of members, supposedly. They even come out and tell you which ones are fake by labeling them “OC” for Online Cupid. THese are people the site pays to become members of the show to, apparently, liven up the conversations.

September 30, 2012 at 7:29 am
(139) J Greystoke says:

Now that there are software solutions that allow people to essentially build their own dating sites, the rip-off pay sites will slowly die and fade away.

This site was one of many built using Boonex, which is open source and will lead to invite only sites building communities of real people that only consist of other real people.

Can’t wait for it to take off in a big way.

October 1, 2012 at 11:12 am
(140) WavesOfTheNet says:

I have found what appears to be a totally free dating site, but unfortunately it is still a little under populated. But Iím still hoping that this might be the real thing, and that i wont one day have to pay big bucks just to open my mail :-)
but so fare it looks promising!!

http://www.socialaurora.com/

looks like it free…

October 3, 2012 at 2:35 pm
(141) brandon says:

use this trick that i use. whenever you find a sight were you can make a free standard profile. take a picture of your self that you know for sure is totally unattractive. like i used a picture of me from halloween with a zombie costume on . i had nails in my face, red contact lens, and my whole face was red, and on top of alll of that i made the dumbest looking facial expression, and that was it. in my info box said i was 8 feet tall 11 inches, disabled and only spoke latin. I STILL GOT EMAILS from a bunch from fake girls and websites saying that they want to meet me and stuff soo its a scam. use this tactic to find scams and real sites chances are they are always scams

October 3, 2012 at 2:44 pm
(142) brandons says:

if your receving emails from girls and havent even showed them a picture of your self yet. the site is a scam. just don’t upload any pictures for a while and see how many girls just love hooking up with guys who look a like a box that says upload photo here.

October 4, 2012 at 12:22 am
(143) JD says:

I just want to weigh in on some of what I read above. I have actually had my best luck with POF. Pulled 4 different hook ups in under a month about a year ago and might be going back to give it another go due to the dissappointment of other sites.

One in particular is Untrue.com, I was stupid enough to go out on a limb and pay a one month membership to see what I could find. Hundreds of ladies have contacted me but all have an “OC” tag on the account. I would like to warn anyone who reads this to not waste your time or money and instead go to a bar and try your luck there.

In the fine print of the User agreement it states that the site is for entertainment only and though it resembles a personal ad site it is not and OC profiles are fictionous.

October 4, 2012 at 5:05 pm
(144) jvn1169 says:

I have tried to be prudent, but still I have been victimized by scam sites.
However, I have found some success (sex and friendship) on http://www.fetlife.com This is a bondage site, but also for ordinary people who are just looking for sex. it combines online, with local “get togethers” (munchies). It is a clever idea since it encourages the bar scene without the bar, but also the fuller disclosure that can happen online. I have never been asked for money except for a donation to view user posted videos. The access to geographic specific postings is good. Spam emails are controlled by a limit on the number of emails per day.

I am not into bondage, but the openess on Fetlife is refreshing.

October 6, 2012 at 12:28 am
(145) memekiller says:

Dating sites = waste of time

Jim’s suggestion of Craigslist is still better than dating sites. You have to week through a lot of phonies and be careful, but it will work if you start out with a “casual friendship” approach.

The best I’ve found by far is Meetups (meetup.com). Join any of the movie or relationship groups or whatever (look for the stuff women like to do) and you’ll have a lot higher rate of real women (some of them even attractive) than any dating site.

October 8, 2012 at 10:33 am
(146) Sarah says:

I can say that Fling worked for me. It’s great if you want to get laid but don’t want to play flirting games at the bar. Signed up on a Friday night and was waking up next to a cutie Sunday morning. Honestly didn’t think I’d meet someone that fast.

October 12, 2012 at 11:09 am
(147) Billy says:

So far I myself have not found a real dating site. But here is a simple rule of thumb. All you have to do is Google the name of the dating site put a slash then type after it scam or complaints and that will solve your problem. You would be surprised as to what pops up

October 12, 2012 at 2:57 pm
(148) franko says:

if there are a lot of them are just to scary to try. i am a straight man looking to find love all over again, since my wife was the one that cheated on me and now divorced and single again. a real good woman is certainly a rare find nowadays, especially that there are so many very nasty women that seem to have a very bad attitude problem now, and have become very difficult to start a normal conversation with.

October 21, 2012 at 3:17 am
(149) Samantha says:

There is one totally free dating website (more of a social network) that I’ve found for adults. That’s http://www.nudeweb.com There is some activity there from african scammers (I guess it comes with the site being free), but they are quick to delete them. I was surprised when I was able to contact anyone and reply to the messages I got there without them asking me to pay. I think they make their money off of the live cams they link to becuase that seems to be the only thing on the site that ever asks for a charge, and you needa separate account for them.

October 21, 2012 at 10:32 am
(150) pat says:

all profiles probably start off in good faith.
the problem occurs for two reasons:

1. new sites prepopulate with copies of (genuine) profiles to give a high “member count”. Always check for new members.

2. sites insist on you “signing up”. hence you get “inactive” members. Look for members who have paid the charges to use the site.

October 29, 2012 at 9:42 am
(151) Steven says:

http://www.UKquicksex.com is very good. I’ve really enjoyed using it. I’ve used it on and for a few years, in between girlfriends.

October 29, 2012 at 11:08 pm
(152) gotron says:

as far as I have experienced datehookup.com has been the best for me. 100% free and the profiles are legit, there may be fake ones ofcourse, but i saw a real girl that i know on the site and the people seem real. Give it a try

October 31, 2012 at 7:46 am
(153) Joe says:

I know it’s been mentioned in a few comments, but OKCupid is the only site I ever tried that ended up in casual sex with the kind of women I like. And it’s completely free, though they do have a premium “A-list” price point that adds some features like more photos and different search filters and the ability to browse anonymously, while still seeing your visitors. You don’t need any of it, though. Seriously, check it out. I have been in two long-term relationships with great women I met on the site and now that I really only have time for casual hook-ups, I am literally turning down dates. Don’t believe me,. though., just try it… if you aren’t A CREEP. The key to internet dating, as in real life, is to be dateable…

November 1, 2012 at 2:50 pm
(154) Voltaire says:

My experience with online dating sites has not been positive. Out of curiosity, I signed up to benaughty.com as a standard member (i.e. the free membership) but deliberately gave the most minimal amount of information possible and did not upload a photo. Within 24 hours, I was getting notifications of several winks, emails, and invitations to chat, some of them from hot looking women half my age. So I deleted my account. It is far more interesting, fun and real to meet women in the offline world.

November 2, 2012 at 1:01 pm
(155) Rich says:

I have been a member of adult friend finder an met many women on that website so whomevet said it wasn’t up front is very disappointing to us

November 6, 2012 at 5:58 pm
(156) Jenny says:

http://freelivefriends.com is a pretty cool site. I highly recommend it

November 10, 2012 at 3:11 am
(157) jim says:

DO NOT EVER USE THIS SITE! first of all it is 100% fake, every day you will get like two messages but the people NEVER return your messages. secondly i think this is a website that only has people from OVER SEAS on it. This site SUCK and i wish i NEVER joined

November 10, 2012 at 10:14 am
(158) dave says:

I have came across a few sites where basically all the women on there are from the same town or the same two towns and are usually located 100+ miles away or nowhere near your location or area and usually always are listed in centralized metropolitan areas or in an area where the population is not that big.
I believe sites like that to be mainly fake or hyped profiles even though the women appear to be regular everyday women you would come across in real life, I do not trust dating sites that most if not all profiles are from the same place or the same two places.
It is the same with sites that have the automatic chat popupís that constantly show up and you cant reply to when you visit the site and your not a paid member, Also the sites that do not allow you to see profiles unless you are a paid member.
My rule is, If you cant chat with members or see the profiles without paying and they all seem to be in one or two areas itís either a fake site or a scam or the profiles are just there for the hype and you wont get any real responses from the membersÖ.

November 20, 2012 at 12:31 am
(159) Ben says:

Hey, I have found some good free dating sites, and met many people. Here they are, and social sex.com is all fake profiles lol just so you all know. They are listed in order.

1. Meet me
2. Ok Cupid
3. Collar me
3.Craigslist (forgot about this one, look at personals section, men seeking women, etc. Casual encounters, but dont ever agree to pay money on some age verified shit that is a scam.. Prostitutes with fake photos) lol
4. Plenty of fish
5. Adult friend finder (you don’t have to pay, just make an account, wait for a member to msg you, then it’s free to respond to the msg)

Hope this helps.. I’m tired of bulls**t fraud dating sites

November 21, 2012 at 11:53 am
(160) Playmatematch Webmaster says:

At a new site, http://www.playmatematch.com we are trying to change the face of adult dating by having real people, real photos (not professional), confirmed identities while remaining anonymous, and we encourage communication. This project came about by watching “various” companies deceiving customers into applying for memberships on other sites they own while sharing your profile on those other sites for the sole purpose of getting you to sign up multiple times. Users cannot talk across those boundaries unless both are on the same sister site. We may eventually have multiple servers, but you will always be able to communicate with everyone.

Another problem is that they don’t put blocks between the spammers who create fake profiles to lure you off site. Our methods will always be improving the quality in our numbers instead of quantity. Even people who are inactive will be removed from the statistics provided, instead of finding dozens of people who signed up years ago, never to return.

If this sounds too good to be true, check us out and see for yourself. We are on Facebook and twitter and have just started our membership drive to reach 50,000.

November 28, 2012 at 12:03 pm
(161) Sosimple45 says:

Just last month I joined a popular dating site after being alone n lonely for a long time. So I gave myself out with all honesty n genuiness..The bogus man seemed to be very respectable n respectful of me until his last email a week ago. Our exchanges of emails were full of love n emotions…I even cried st times…stupid me..I was so naive n vulnrable for my age..hahaha…thanks to my angels decided to become techy…checked the P n email address ..it was a range of IP addresses in Mountainvew CA…apparently not using only one server…and the worst thing…that evil man use fake pictures of Min. Bernier..and being from another part of the globe deprived me the recognition of this honorable man…gosh…for almost a month ..I thought this man in the picture fancied me too…lol… And now am also worried where my picturez will be used to…

Just sharing this unforgettable experience..am excused as this is my first time…falling for Min Bernier whom I dont have any wild idea who this person is. Oh gosh..it was really embarassing..for my age. Lessons learned well…though I must say this fake guy never asked anything..nor harm me…nor violated me…he in fact helped me be inspired…added color to my life…made me love again…haha…though everything was just a…dream…illusion…whatever…anyway…he made me go back to my aerobics again….charge to experience…good luck to all..love or date seekers

November 28, 2012 at 12:44 pm
(162) Sosimple45 says:

I just remembered uploading several photos of myself to my fake…min Bernier…now am worried..where will all these photos go or be used? ..Though they are all decent ones..but still…beginning to worry…the fact that they even use pics of famous people (whom unfortunately has no idea of)…how much more of ordinary people like me…..so help me God….

December 3, 2012 at 6:13 am
(163) Cdw says:

I’ve been on several adult dating sites, personally I wouldn’t recommend the free ones because all the fake profiles and crazy ass people that join, because it is FREE. You have to pay for quality, unfortunately thats the way it is. http://www.laywithme.com is one of the better websites I’ve used. It is free to make and browse profiles, but to actually contact someone, it does have a fee. Its well worth it though, trust me ;)
I’ve yet to run across any crazy people of fake profiles. Just my take but I love the site and recommend it to anyone looking for some adult fun or just a causal date! Good luck!

December 21, 2012 at 11:10 am
(164) john says:

Stay away from just hook UPS, it’s a scam and 99% of the profiles are fake.

December 21, 2012 at 11:12 am
(165) john says:

Just read the terms and conditions of every site you go to, it will say in there if they use fake accounts. It has to or they can be charged or sued for fraud.

December 21, 2012 at 9:00 pm
(166) steve says:

Very informative…Thank you

December 25, 2012 at 3:48 pm
(167) bronzman says:

stay away from lonelywifeclub.com,& ashleymadison.com, big time scammers, i sent out over 300 messages never got any respond from anyone, really, your killing me smalls, lol,,

December 30, 2012 at 11:53 pm
(168) Jamie says:

You guys are all pigs! Instead of coming up with all the ways you can get your rocks off, why don’t you grow a conscience? Of course your going to get scammed, your jerks and deserve to be taken. I like the 60y/o who thinks he’s Casanova – dude, you are paying these single moms.
If you are looking for the right girl and you are a good guy, you’ll find her but if you are a selfish pig, you deserve every scam being laid upon you!

January 1, 2013 at 1:43 pm
(169) Siddartha says:

i’ve met a FEW real women on Ashley Maddison, Fling and POF and Tagged.
Tagged is more of a social networking kind of site, but many use it as a dating site.Ashley Madison members are looking for ‘dates’ and are real, but very picky. I find most of the (real) women on these sites just refuse to respond if they are not interested. Also. even though they are SEX sites. a lot of the women shun NSA relationships and looking for liars (LTR’s seekers)
There is another side to this though.
I’m in an open relationship, And my g/f also is on the prowl for guys, you won’t believe how many MEN on sex sites are FAKES. They e-mail and message great, but never show up.
Once we set up a G/B with 8 guys for her 35th birthday…ONE showed up.

January 6, 2013 at 11:29 pm
(170) lukeluke40 says:

milfs.com is totally bogus all the girls are on line cupids never found a profile that was not labeled oc.

January 7, 2013 at 6:48 pm
(171) adult says:

You could enroll in any hiking club or even an organization team.
Its just much more targeted if you join a site where everybody is looking
for the same thing. Some people will pretend to be who they are so
avoid free dating sites that may be misused.

January 7, 2013 at 8:31 pm
(172) MaryAnne Kelly says:

I was AFF and complained about one of their memers because of things he said he was going to do to me satan type things and the next thing I knew they suspended my profit and acct, they did not answer any of my emails or phone msg to customer service so be very aware do not send them money you will never never get it back………

January 8, 2013 at 6:41 am
(173) sally says:

Dating sites let you meeting new peoples and it works at the best. I visit the http://truelovex.com to get what I need to look and get satisfied.

January 10, 2013 at 9:02 am
(174) mark says:

I am sick and tired of these sites that say they are free.
then you get to them and if you try to send a message to a member it than says in order to send a message you must be a full paying member. what happened to free? oh it is Free to create a profile. I see, they are all scams.
I also don’t get these stupid women on plenty of fish. I had a couple where they wanted to meet ME, I emailed them we had a nice back and forth conversation than the dissappear, I try to email them and I am blocked? and all I did was be very respectful and nice to them. such idiots on these sites. they are all players

January 12, 2013 at 1:56 pm
(175) Luke says:

Dont bother with adsforsex.com it looks really good at first but before id even put up a profile picture or filled in most of the info i had people emailing. But at least with that one the girls who are fake are marked with a tag to say they are fake but none of the real girls ever message back anyway.

January 15, 2013 at 9:27 am
(176) Steve says:

There are still legitimate adult dating sites but we have to do reviews before paying for membership subscription. Ask your friends if they know some good sites to subscribe. Most websites have fake profiles and scammers. Avoid signing-up on free adult websites. Most of the female members are scammers. Join a website with anti-fraud system. Check if there are enough online members. A friend of mine recommended me this website http://www.shagarena.com/ . It’s not a cheap website. They charges high for the subscription but it’s totally worth it. I love their VIP featured profile. I subscribed to their 6-month subscription. I’m going to subscribe to their 1 year once my subscription expired.

If you’re going to join the site, spend your time on older women. Most of them are hot :)

January 15, 2013 at 2:29 pm
(177) Wolf314159 says:

Well, I’ve been scammed also. Turns out “she” was from Nigeria. But that wasn’t revealed until she suddenly “turned” up there and had a scooter accident and had a dislocated knee. But, guess what, the “doctor” is here now and he wants to talk to you. I only needed to send them $5000 to get her knee “fixed” and she would actually then be on a plane to my city to meet me! I shut “it” down and deleted all information blocked all emails everything.
It’s no wonder that all this is happening at this time guys.
Take a look at this:
2Ti 3:1 You can be certain that in the last days there will be some very hard times.
2Ti 3:2 People will love only themselves and money. They will be proud, stuck-up, rude, and disobedient to their parents. They will also be ungrateful, godless,
2Ti 3:3 heartless, and hateful. Their words will be cruel, and they will have no self-control or pity. These people will hate everything that is good.
2Ti 3:4 They will be sneaky, reckless, and puffed up with pride. Instead of loving God, they will love pleasure.

So you can see why this is happening. And trouble is, it won’t get better it’s going to get worse.
Wolf

January 21, 2013 at 12:47 pm
(178) tkw51 says:

Ok, here is a real comment from a real person who has been doing the online adult dating for 5 years. I don’t know how many real sites there are, but it is very, very few. My money has been taken by 5 or 6 of them that are nothing but automatic bots that send you canned email and nothing more. If they reply to an email it is a one liner that promise more, but it never develops into anything. There is only one site that I’ve had any success on and I always come back after wasting my time and money elsewhere. There is no such thing as a free site that will actually let you date someone. It isn’t easy when the girl/guy ratio is a thousand to one. So here it is adultfriendfinder.com is the only site that i have actually met, dated and gotten laid. I met about 9 women dated 5 got laid by 5. None were 1 night stands but were mostly NSA. It was NOT easy. There are so many hard bodies for women to chose from that the rest of us must compete with intelligence and seduction to get anywhere. Even AFF my have some bots, and they do get solicitations to other fake sites, but they remove them as soon as they are exposed. Just because someone responds doesn’t mean that they will met you or even keep communicating. However, if they show no inclination to meet then move on. The real ones will want to meet rather than send endless emails. Then is your one chance to make the right impression. If you are married and chose to be honest about it that limits you even further, but it is hard to keep up much pretense with a real person so be wise with this one. If you can find one, treat real people with respect. they are not just for your amusement..

January 25, 2013 at 8:17 am
(179) Ruby says:

I just checked your recommendation Steve. I thought you were just promoting http://www.shagarena.com/.

I love the site. It’s clean and easy to use. They just charges higher compared to other sites that I joined before. What’s your username on the site Steve?

I am now chatting with some members in Italy. Thanks for a great share!

February 1, 2013 at 6:54 am
(180) sherlock says:

Any of Asian sex sites around that aren’t scams. I’m from Australia if that helps. Thanks for any assistance.

February 9, 2013 at 10:45 pm
(181) mike says:

A few things from a man in England here…

The dating sites are mainly genuine people. Trouble is women generally have a check list and if you aren’t scoring 9 out of 10 in the” looks department”, then it doesn’t matter if you tick all the other boxes, they will just ignore you.

Since, as in real life, the man is generally expected to make the first move, the dating sites main income is male orientated, but some sites allow a ratio of 30 men for ever 1 female, which ultimately impowers women, to the point that many of them get the attitude, that “they are doing us guys a favour” by talking to them.

Since I often only score 8.9 out 10 in the looks department, I have also tried adult sex sites and these are mainly an insult to us guys.
There are some scammers but the website site itself will “manufacture” numerous hot women to entice us to keep paying.

A few website tactics to look out for are: -

1. Hot girls in their 20′s…online at 2, 3, 4, or 5am in your country..
NO GIRL that age, (no matter how ugly she is) needs to go online in the night, looking for a man for sex !

2. Women who log on…and then relog on 2- 5 minutes later..and again, repeating the process over a few hours.

3. Women who “wink” at you, but they have no filled out profile or photograph.

4. Generic messages…ie they do not mention even one specific point from your profile, so that their message can be sent on mass to us guys.

February 15, 2013 at 1:43 pm
(182) SavyPR85 says:

This may not exactly be a dating or hook up site. But if your savy and fairly intelligent. The ability to hold a conversation and arrange a night out at the bars or club can quickly turn into a one on one encounter. The app is on android… not sure for ios. But it is called “Circle.” N the other cool aspect about this app is the integration of using ones facebook. N im pretty pos we can all tell if a facebook is fake or not. But I have yet to come across anyone that was fake. Now I have lots the attention of some women that would have been great to meet. But its no biggie. Sh*t happens. The other issue I have noticed is the amount of minors that have access to this app. But like I said it is not geared towards one night stands or casual encounters. But it is completely free and just as effective. Another downfall… the app uses gps to locate completely random people in your relative area. But u cannot adjust the range or search parameters. So, no looking for a single sex parameter. Kinda sux. But I have met some Veterans on the app n now we go to the club or bars n try our hand at playin the game. So all in all I would probably rate CIRCLE about a 7.5/10. I live in the permian basin (texas) and when I first came across the app the amount of people on it were very small, roughly 27 if I recall. N now its well over 150. And ive been usin it for about 3months now. N im sure there is a much better reception of people in a bigger city! Well, I hope that helps… its not much n I feel everyones frustration in here as well. I work 80 plus hours a week in the oil field, so meeting people is extremely difficult and frustrating! So I rely on social media to stay in contact and meet people. But again. So you dont have to scroll through my rambling. The Android App is called CIRCLE

February 20, 2013 at 2:08 pm
(183) Greg Sturdivant says:

Can anyone recommend a good dating site that not full of scammers and fake profiles.

February 26, 2013 at 8:16 am
(184) Craig says:

I am sick and tired of these sites that offer all these so called women waiting for you BS if u look around half of the female profiles are the same pic just different name,age,location, and no wonder! a lot off sites only charge men and women get on free (sexist) so no wonder there are so many spammers if they were forced to pay like men there would not be so many fake profiles!… and to comment (168 Jamie) the sexist sow! there are a lot of women who are no different to the men…even the normal dating sites are the same

List of Bogus sites
: Flirt- no photo and little info and i got 58 messages 3 day trial then 0.
; X dating- xblackbook- Same thing but did not pay!

March 3, 2013 at 6:47 am
(185) KC says:

One of the free dating sites is MeetOutside.com ( http://www.meetoutside.com )

It does not require any payment or fees and has facility to send messages, interests and chat room … so its worth trying … i did get some messages back on this one…

March 5, 2013 at 12:11 am
(186) Tom says:

Ok Guys, online dating is an art. I have used 4 different ones all free and have gotten what I want no problem, and I’m no ripped or super great looking guy, just an average Joe…. well Tom lol. The key is it takes time to get a female to become interested. I presently use plenty of fish. I have an erotic profile on there that describes a real good time. Now here’s what you do.. do not ever message anyone on there. Let your erotic profile do the work for you with a little help from the meet me functioin on there and also if you like the looks of someone make them a favourite. You can have up to 3000 favourites on there. This lures the women into your site because you faved them or did the meet me.. they will look at your profile. You can even see who looked at you. It will take some probably 30 or 40 women looking at your profile and one will send a message. If it is favourable you have someone on the hook. Send lots of messages talk clean all the time until she promotes anything other than that. This could take a month or more. Remember you can have several women on the hook at one time… play them send them pics of flowers… this works really. I have more women than I know what to do with most of the time. My profile is very up front about my intentions as well. I simply state… are you tired of looking… why not enjoy yourself while you search for the one… discreet , safe and I know what the word NO means so you can trust me, thats a promise… this one sentence has done wonders. I should sell this information…lol
I have two regular NSA women on the go and I always have one or two newbies I meet up with now and then. I’m serious guys you need to learn to take it slow and learn how cast a wide net and woo those women who get caught. All free , all real, I’m not selling anything just speaking the truth… yep I’m real, I score, cheers

March 7, 2013 at 4:49 pm
(187) webmaster of a site says:

If you think the scams, and bots, and false ads are common on a paid site, why would anyone want to visit a FREE site like POF? If it’s free to set up as many accounts as you can have email addresses the scammers WILL DO IT! If anything a paid subscription to a site would weed out the phony’s IMO. If I was going to post fake ads, I would use craigslist, or POF because its FREE!! So use coomon sense! I did meet a woman on AFF (adult frind finder) a couple years ago, and it did lead to what was expected. But only once, the rest of the time I felt like I was talking to robots on that site.. I tried match.com and had 24 women want talk to me before I even uploaded a photo.. BS! Women do not flock to a new member with out a complete profile or picture.. It was a great concept, but is BIG BUSINESS. HUNDREDS of BS sites!!! Search for “Buy daiting profiles” on google. There are sites that sell THOUSANDS of “profiles” to anyone so they can fill their BS dating sites!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March 10, 2013 at 5:47 pm
(188) Jonathan says:

I like this one http://www.rosapurple.com.

it seems to be pretty new and with not many profiles, but at least they are real and I actually was able to do a little cyber erotic chat with a cutie…..

March 14, 2013 at 8:37 pm
(189) Dan says:

XXXdate.com is a scam site The very best way to find out about a site is to read the fine print as in XXXdate .com case. It states this site is for entertainment only and all profiles with a small logo ” online cupid are not real. Whats more they state that they can use any info you put online to build fake profiles. So pix anything they want to use is up for grabs.

XXXDATING. COM is a fake site. Top to bottom tell everyone.

March 15, 2013 at 1:18 pm
(190) Harry Chambers says:

The best advice was given by someone above….

Stop focusing on getting laid, meeting gals. There’s just way too many dating sites creating an obscene amount of competition. This leads to you becoming another faceless man in the sea of choices women have online.

Instead, get out there and socialize with other guys if possible. Join groups; keep joining new groups to build up connections. There’s bound to be someone that knows someone that can set you up on a date. Six degrees of separation.

March 23, 2013 at 7:45 am
(191) Stanley says:

I recently joined membership on Asiandating.com and from mere moments later, i get bombarded with nothing but pinoy women (Philippines) all spamed their “interest” at me and want me to join other dating websites like ClassicaFilipina.com to either become their couple, or go to Lilydating.com to see more of their pictures.

I paid my membership that day, and several hours later, i gotten sick and tired of being manipulated by the fake profiles and fake women in Asiandating.com, i end up canceling my membership there.

Malaysiancupid.com is also another website with majority of their women’s profiles being fakes! Not only fakes, but some of them being scammers too.

March 25, 2013 at 2:10 pm
(192) dissatisfied fling customer says:

Here is my beef with fling.com I used them last year and all I got was people from places like Africa,Sweden,Norway, and people that tried to scam me so I killed that account plus my lavalife account but I have to say click&flirt owned by the same people that own fling.com and flirt.com is actually worth a crap and free to women and no I don’t work for any of the people listed I work at a Kroger’s location in my home town

March 26, 2013 at 3:22 am
(193) Will says:

I posted a profile on AFF and purchased the Gold membership for approximately three years. I also posted a profile on Ashley Madison and purchased credits. I removed my profile on AFF and Ashley Madison. First of all both sites were easily hundreds of ads or fakes to any one real profile. I also had several men posing as womens profiles contact me. They would agree to meet for coffee or a drink. They were hoping you wouldn’t beat them up because you we’re in a public place or because they hoped they could smooth everything over through a sexual favor. Over three years and the two sites I estimate I sent we’ll over five hundred messages attempting to contact women or m/f couples. I never had one real woman respond and meet for coffee or a drink. I did have three m/f couples meet with me through AFF. Another handful of m/f couples shared pics and chat but would never meet. Four times I was duped by men posing as women, one went as far as having a women voice verify for him. I had better luck on craigslist 8-10 years ago before the ads and fakes quickly took it over. I strongly advise you not to waste your time and money on adult casual encounter dating sites.

Most importantly if you are in a relationship you need to be aware that businesses make a living buying info or surfing the web storing photos associated with dating profiles. Other businesses working for your significant other or your significant simply can google profile names or email addresses if they discover them. I have found old photos online from profiles I canceled many years ago. Never post photos with your face, wearing your regular clothes, or from familiar backgrounds that your significant other will recognize.

March 27, 2013 at 12:16 pm
(194) Katy says:

They are all scams, even Christian Mingle. Full of scammers and con artists and fake profiles. Even the legimate guys show up and are 15 years older than they say or look. It sucks because when you do have the ability to go out due to work or parenting their is no way to meet anyone. Just have to swallow the bitter pill that you will have to remain single. This world is full of EGOmaniacs, self serving, arrogant and disrepectful men and women. Lying, cheating… I know its alwasy been this way but the internet and social media just exposed it. You can’t even turn gay and trust that either….. The sex shop is gonna make killing off me. Gonna go stock up on my battery operated boyfriend LOL

March 27, 2013 at 11:54 pm
(195) paul says:

All “DATING SITES” are fake you might want to try “POGO” and chat with the gammers there might find someone special there. You might find your new friend wants company or just to talk. always worth the time to try talking to others instead of just getting laid.

April 2, 2013 at 12:54 am
(196) Angie says:

After studying websites like POF & Craigslist personals for the last couple of years, Iíve come to the conclusion that dating sites (these two in particular) are filled mostly with phony ads. In particular, I think most of them are ads posted by lazy law enforcement. I gather this from the repetitiveness and baiting thatís easy to read into. Perhaps theyíre trying to find prostitutes, drug dealers, or sexual predators. I also believe there are rouge officers who get off on posing as perspective daters and when they come across the few legitimate ads posted by their co-workers, neighbors and friends, I believe they think they have the power to play games and abuse their positions. They bring their fellow co-workers into their assignments and have a big laugh at the daterís expense. They are the majority posting the bogus ads. Trust me. Itís quite sad. Because of this I will never post or answer an ad from any website.

Another thing is that when you post your picture on a dating site, it can be pulled up through a Google image search or just by the user name on Google. So when you think you get privacy when you pay for a subscription rather than using a free website, you donít really get privacy. If you use the same user name on several sites, a Google search will bring up the various sites as well. Funny, when you go to try and browse people in your area, some sites wonít let you do so unless you go through the rigmarole of setting up an account. YET if you know a user name you can search it and pull up sites and see the whole page of users without having a membership. Itís all so ridiculous. I must say that I do know one person who met their spouse on a dating site. But still, I see them as just a fluke.

April 2, 2013 at 4:43 am
(197) JETHRO says:

Whilst it’s true that many dating sites have photo’s of models and false identities.

My Son and daughter have met some nice people via these site

I personally went to meet three women in another country
the first two were a waste of time the third was okay.

And well off but something was missing from the relationship
and she was very annoyed when I finished the affair

Even sent me some virus’s that caused me Computer problems
I know it was her because she built me a site for free

Then tried to charge me . when i Left

Be Careful.

April 5, 2013 at 9:37 am
(198) Jaap says:

I am constant user of dating sites which orientate on traveling and dating. Iíve tried misstravel and travelgirl also friendsfinder and lots of other but damn they do have fake profiles. Its just waste of money and time. Though helpful for me was travbuddy, but girls are not so nice. Then I found globogirls.com and I enjoyed it. I see they are still new so all those escorts and scammers didnít reach them or they just fight with them. I found bunch of great girls who I am in touch. But frankly speaking I am super active trying my chances with all girls ahaha.

April 8, 2013 at 7:46 pm
(199) er1861 says:

I just wanted to let those doubters out there NOT all of the profiles out there are fake. I was a single mom, struggling to make it, and I met someone off of POF. We had our first date on 11-06-10. Sure, it took some time to actually get to know each other. Needless to say, here it is, 04/08/13, and we are still together, and plan on getting married next year. We have learned how to communicate, which means talking about REAL feelings…there is hope. The key is to be you. You don’t have to change who you are, maybe just the way you look at things…it does work. I am proof. Good Luck to all.

April 23, 2013 at 11:28 am
(200) ashthemanthatcan says:

hi guys i would like to say that badoo is prob the best site out there, you can talk for free and buy extra’s if you feel the need, you will find genuine people on it as i have met 6 decent girls off it already

April 27, 2013 at 11:33 am
(201) kids says:

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April 29, 2013 at 3:12 pm
(202) J.R. says:

Try Chess.com. Don’t meet too many women to date, but plenty of people to chat with who are interesting and appreciative of the honesty and competition on the site.

And Girls? Why, just today a lovely young girl named Sarah9888 said “can someone teach me a good e4 opening”? Wow! THAT is HOT!
She was even willing to Mate me!

April 29, 2013 at 6:48 pm
(203) MARIA says:

I have tried several sites. Some paid and some for free. I wanted a serious relationship so I erased my profile on POF. eHarmony was a waist of money for me. I got one match!! I know I am not the best looking woman in the world or the easiest as a matter of fact, but ONE!!
After a long search I found MyOnlyMatch.com (www.myonlymatch.com). It is a good, reliable website and I had a very good experience. In fact I met my current boyfriend there. Most of the people posting their profiles on myonlymatch.com are people who want serious relationships. I suggest you try this website, it really worked for me!

April 30, 2013 at 7:43 pm
(204) ALEGRIALOVE says:

I have tried several sites. Some paid and some for free. I wanted a serious relationship so I erased my profile on POF. eHarmony was a waist of money for me. I got one match!! I know I am not the best looking woman in the world or the easiest as a matter of fact, but ONE!!
After a long search I found MyOnlyMatch.com http://www.myonlymatch.com. It is a good, reliable website and I had a very good experience. In fact I met my current boyfriend there. Most of the people posting their profiles on myonlymatch.com are people who want serious relationships. I suggest you try this website, it really worked for me!

April 30, 2013 at 11:52 pm
(205) Zed says:

Online dating might not know it but it’s dying on its feet. The only people who get anything real from it are one in a million (and of course the people who run the sites).

Yes, I’m a straight man… but IMO most of the men who join dating sites are oversexed toads who’d be better off buying a Fleshlight for $60. Or maybe a milking machine.

Anyhow, if you’re looking for something real, forget about online dating and look for some singles groups on meetup.com. I did, and EVERYTHING CHANGED. This is why Meetup is wrecking online dating!

Oh yeah… and Meetup is cool because trolls don’t last long when they show up in person. :-D

May 2, 2013 at 10:13 am
(206) Diana says:

I’d like to share my experience with http://www.globorgirls.com. It’s actually more of a social network thing for people who would like to meet travel mates from different countries. The good thing about it is that it’s totally secure because they have the feature of video chatting with these girls so you’ll not share your personal contacts unless you’re 100% sure. You’ll also find pretty good tips on how to stay safe online and also some traveling tips. All in all, it was a very good experience.

May 2, 2013 at 3:17 pm
(207) No one says:

There are many fake women and some real women. If you are a good looking guy with nice pictures there should be enough real women on most sites. Fling had fake profiles but I also met about 10 real girls from there as well. I canceled it because Fling used my picture as a model for there other sites such as millionaire single or something like that and also another site. Even after I canceled Fling continued to use my picture as a model which proves how there are many fake profiles.

I am a male model and athlete so they took advantage of that. But they are not all completely fake. There are some hott girls on there because they are freaky and perverted as us guys sometimes. If you sign up just look for real girls. If the pics are too hott and professional use common sense. If your and fat guy talking to a super hott girl, come on think a little. She is most likely fake and the responses are automatic. Overall Fling was good even though they pissed me off and used me.

May 6, 2013 at 11:12 am
(208) Evgeniy says:

I’m registered on SaucyDating.com website and have to say it looks very nice. I’m male and there are many girls there :) What I like the most is Sex Map feature. In few words, when you search for a partner you can put all matches on a UK map and see who is living in your area.

May 10, 2013 at 2:33 am
(209) biguno says:

I have tried Fling with success. AFF, with limited success. Adultspace is free too. Onlinebootycall when it first started was ok too. Not sure about now though.

May 15, 2013 at 8:04 am
(210) Paul says:

I recently found a dating website called “bookagirlfriend.com http://www.bookagirlfriend.com – I signed up last month and do get a lot of messages from girls, and I met with one in London for a sightseeing tour. I was amazed really, as I have been a member of a few you mentioned above and this one worked out for me.
Thanks again for the informative information you provied here!!

May 16, 2013 at 2:18 pm
(211) late2theparty says:

Found this article very useful. After reading the reply’s it seems that most of you found the same thing I did. However, I think many jump into the casual encounter sites with their expectations way too high. So I’ll share what I’ve learned from making the rounds.
1. Best way to tell the quality of a casual encounter site is to count the number of women who don’t look like Victoria secret models…I mean they have extra padding. The higher this number is the more likely they have real membership (discount this if the site caters to bigger people).
2. The number of people you find in your area is directly proportional to the population of where you live. This is the same for any dating site. So be prepared to go distance if you find someone real.
3. They all employ the bait and switch as well as “special members” who are there to get you to sign up. On the nicer sites those members will have a logo or describer attached to their profile (online cupid or something).
4. It’s likely that you’ll be contacted by a person who will offer services if you register somewhere or pay some amount of money to earn their (it might be a man posing as a woman) time. Just look at where the profile location says, very likely a give away. Also don’t respond to the ones that say this is an old boyfriends account they want your money. Look for the mail that has the same words and situations that you’ve seen before. Copious use of “babe” is a pretty strong tip off, so is poor spelling and grammar.
5. The best sites will have the most freebies. Free mail and the ability to look at profiles are huge. But there is always a catch, not being able to reply to mail is usually one of them.

That all said be wise with your money here this is a giant sink hole playing on the some very intense feelings and emotions. Patience is key because you could exchange several e-mails before finding out the person is fake.

May 26, 2013 at 4:20 am
(212) James says:

Lol I saw several people say POF was a bad site. Well I’m in my early 20s and I signed up on there and after messaging a few girls for a week or so(give or take) I slept with 2 different women in a week without the effort of leaving my house to meet them lmao , Not saying you’ll find girls that are that easy your self , but hell , you might find a relationship on there.

June 1, 2013 at 4:02 am
(213) daniel says:

Fling and Chesty friends are both scams. Both have invaded my computer and I have had to change all my passwords. Most of these sites just set up for spyware…wait and see what junk mail you will get as well as smutty advertising. My experience has been(esp. with the free sites) they are all just phishing for information. What some of these sites promise is illegal.

June 4, 2013 at 9:33 am
(214) Roger says:

It’s your time, energy and not the least important, your money. But I have had bad experiences, or no sincere experiences, with a multitude of adult dating sites over the past six or so years. The sad thing is I continue to follow the same stupid path and try the new ones only to find out they are all the same. Fake profiles, fake messages, fake pics, fake everything except for their desire to take your money. Escorts, hell I’d be thrilled to get that far. Here are some, but this list not limited to only these, of those sites. Adult Friend Finder, Alt.com, an offshoot of AFF, Amateurmatch, xxxbook, Xpress, Match, Eharmony, Findcheaters, AshleyMadison, and I’m certain I have forgotten as many as I have listed.
Unfortunately, I can offer nothing positive because I haven’t had any positive experiences to draw from. I find it easier to find some thing interesting to watch on TV than finding a site that delivers anything it promises. The previous statement ought to speak volumes re: adult dating sites.
All I can say is good luck but understand you may never find any. However, if you do, PLEASE let me know.

June 8, 2013 at 1:16 am
(215) John says:

Well its nice to know i am not the only one having trouble meeting anyone on dating sites,, my socoil life is pretty dead with few friends around which i think does not help,,but i hit the dating sites about 6 years ago determined to find and meet some one,
so far met only 3 in 6 years,,,,maybe i could have met more if i liked my women only slightly smaller then a house but i don’t,
had a go on adult sites ,,got to be scams, had lots of contacts but when it came down to getting to meet every single one just ceased contact,,
adult sites just suck you in with photos ,
up for it waste of time lots of scammers on there,
joined connecting singles which is a real free site, have not met anyone and there are scammers there but they do make an effort to get rid of them,,and they have a forum which allows to to chat with people anywhere,,and scammers tricks are discussed all the time,

June 14, 2013 at 9:32 am
(216) Winton says:

Really useful this string. I thought it was just me, and then twigged about all the scamming. I have a theory, that the mix of profiles is that both the guys AND the old girls who are BOTH desperate are fair game to the scammers and they will keep taking their money.
I joined one site (Wicked Wives) and each fake email message I got was to a strict formula.. two lines of text and then 3 xxx kisses. Ha! I wrote back (to the gorgeous 35 year old in her black lace g-string underwear), and suggested she write in another form – otherwise I might expect a scam… and guess what!? I got a reply… in the same format!!! You’ve got to laugh, right up until you realise how much you’ve been scammed for!

June 17, 2013 at 7:34 am
(217) jose says:

follow…

The truth that we had a lot in common. I asked her what was she doing there? She said that since her husband left her she was disappointed with her sexual life, and looking for dating sites but never had the opportunity of dating with a man through internet… not bud, it was most like my story. Gone are the days, always chatting to her through the webcam site, till one day I asked for her phone number. She could not because of the company policy.
But even so I wrote my email and number. That was a crazy working week, so I didnít pay attention to the website or my e-mail for some days. One morning the phone suddenly rang. Just listening the sound of that voice my soul burned on fire in one sec. It was her. After a wile talking by skype and some emails after. We finally met in her city, Tarragona (Iím from Valencia by the way), both in Catalan land, so no that far away from each other. And guess what?… Nowadays we are expecting a child … =) I’m so happy. I feel reborn, like opening the eyes to the life for the very first time.
Thatís is my story. I wanted to share with you my experience cause I can really understand how easy is to fed up when you move through as webcam site, but that time it really changed my life. Sometimes fortune goddess is waiting for you behind the most unexpected door.

June 27, 2013 at 1:06 am
(218) Jimmy says:

POF was ok when it was new but now its full of fakes. All the rest are even worse. Ive hooked up on craigslist but it can be iffy depending on where u are. Now i just use my porn site which has a members section with profiles and a search option for finding people. Since its a porn site most people are pretty open and ive met several people in my area.

June 28, 2013 at 5:57 pm
(219) unme says:

Fling isn’t good either . They just want your money many of these dating sites advertise as free then you find out the sign up is free you bairly get to use it . You pay for the person emailing you or you responding they all suck

July 1, 2013 at 1:26 pm
(220) Anthony says:

Beware if sites as Cam4, Rubhim, Bait….they ask you to just register in order to view their videos, and it has to be with credit card, though they say we won’t charge you. They just want it for verification that your a ‘real’ person. Foolishly, I did and the very same day someone used my card and i had to get it replaced.

July 7, 2013 at 12:11 am
(221) Travis says:

In case the writer of this article doesn’t know Get It On and Adult Friend Finder are the same company! I don’t think either of them are scams because I’ve met several women using them, I’ve also met women using POF, OKcupid and Tagged! Fling is a crap website adultmatchdoctor.com has maybe a hand full of real women using it and sexy ads is a straight up scam website that pays people to send you messages.

There is a difference between spammers and scam dating websites POF, Tagged and AFF have all sent me spam I can honestly say I’ve never received spam messages from Okcupid. But putting Sexy Ads or “Get it on” on your recommend list makes me question the motives of this writer if AFF is a scam than Getiton is a scam too!!!

I don’t think AFF is worth the money because it took me about 5 month’s and over $100 with their discounts to meet a few women and in all honesty the hottest women I’ve met came from POF! which was 100% free! I used to think About was the best place to get legitimate information now I’m beginning to wonder!

July 8, 2013 at 5:42 pm
(222) dating says:

Hey Travis. At the time I wrote this, some things were different, such as AFF and GetItOn being different companies (at the time, they were; now they share the same database of members under the Penthouse umbrella – so does BigChurch, by the way). I’ve left the information stand because it is dated, and love it when readers share their own experiences — your experiences will differ from mine, and vice versa. I’m thrilled you found success, and happy that you shared what worked for you!

July 15, 2013 at 6:09 pm
(223) pamela says:

I’m a Nigerian, and I’ve tried most of this sites and I’ve found out that most of them are waste of time… One can hardly meet anyone real there and there is racism, although I still find it hard to believe that racism still exist in this present generation. A white man won’t want to be friends with me because I’m from Africa, it doesn’t make sense. Love doesn’t exist that way, it is no respecter of color.

July 27, 2013 at 6:40 am
(224) Andrew Miles says:

I’ve always wondered this question. I did come across a site who’s done their own personal reviews and some i’ve not heard of. That be sure I’ve signed up to a few (which are also free) and loving every second.

July 29, 2013 at 6:11 am
(225) robert says:

totally free site adultsexting.com

July 29, 2013 at 10:50 pm
(226) Mike says:

They all have a few real people, mostly losers, with mostly bots running the sites. Easy proof – make a “free profile” but only partially fill out info. You will amazingly get lots of responces from people wanting to meet you! Keep in mind, they know NOTHING about you, not evan what you look like! I can almost guarentee that if you pay for a membership, you will not get a single responce from any of the supposed people that wanted to meet you before you paid to become a member. USA now = united scam artists! America now survives on scams, not on real or legit buisness practices. Thank your politicians for ruining america as we once knew it! Scams are EVERYWHERE not just dating sites.

July 30, 2013 at 9:33 pm
(227) red lion says:

I wish!!! These hokey sites want to collect money for e mails that they edit or won’t allow if you try to set up a real meeting, dinner lunch or coffee to actually meet the person! It is just a big scam and though I have turned a few in to the fbi cyber division they pretty much all need to go away.

August 1, 2013 at 8:25 pm
(228) M. D. says:

I am on okcupid. com and POF ..I think this are all rip offs. I see in the comments above so many are looking for causal sex. I thought this would be where someone would want to meet and know a person and possibly get into a relationship. If sex is all you want you can get that any place. I want a real person that wants a real relationship not a sex fling.

August 3, 2013 at 6:43 am
(229) BS Finder says:

They are fake that send you robo emails (if you have free account) to entice you with emails from sexy women to join and pay monthly subscriptions. I have no photo on one and no personal info but I got a ton messages from beautiful sexy women who have no clothes on…lol. Me knowing women ..I know this is BS.

August 5, 2013 at 12:16 am
(230) WickedBiker says:

If you are into the adult dating sites this one has worked out for me
hornyaffair.com

August 5, 2013 at 1:17 pm
(231) Chris Okano says:

It the same old game. I finished trying to find a date for the past 7 days 16 or more hours everyday of those seven days on five different dating sites one of which is suppose to be the leading one.
To be honest with you I can’t really put the blame on the dating site. It’s like talking to a pistol on a table telling it “I hate you because you kill.” It is a machine only. It is about the site members and like most penguins they all follow each other around being led by the nose by social values that are as stupid as the people that adopted them and follow them.
When you find someone online and very likely in real life now, you’ll be finding someone that wants to be with you because it complies with a socially accepted standard. The person that will love you will not do that because they love you the person but rather they love the socially accepted match you represent to society. Women are especially this way now as a majority. All the time I read from women in their 20′s ” I am having a financially hard time because my partner (Their same age), left me or abandoned me and my baby and I’m looking for a man to love that can help me.” I’m 57 offer them a house all utilities paid, and offer to care for them genuinely and sincerely. They never write back. It is shear proof that people would rather struggle and suffer than to violate accepted social norms. PART 1 0f 2.

August 5, 2013 at 1:18 pm
(232) Chris Okano says:

Part 2 of 2.

I am continually harassed, persecuted, pushed, prompted to look for someone I do not desire to be with. I am 57 and looking for a very beautiful young woman to share my life with. It is what I want and desire. Just like someone may like blue shirts and goes to a store where only other colors are present. Suddenly everyone leaps from the social fence and proclaims “You should try this red or pink or green shirt because diversity is the spice of life, you should try something new it looks good on you. NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!,. I like blue shirts, it is what I want, what I desire, and what I will only accept. PERIOD. Why does society want to say to a wolf or fox or lion “You don’t need to eat meat.” their instinct. You know why? Because they are stupid! that’s why. I don’t care what social values you follow religiously dictate. They do not supersede my instinctual desire and want of finding a very attractive young woman as a mate in life. All these dating sites continually try to force feed their members someone they know clearly you’ll never be interested in. Why they do this, like mothers trying to make their young children eat spinach because it supposedly good for you, is beyond me. I do not need anyone to tell me what is good for me but a doctor when I am physiologically ill. Why do they want me to accept someone I am only going to neglect if I am with such a person? That shows you how much they care for other people and their happiness and well-being.
In essence, the entire online dating network is nothing but absolute B.S.; merely a money making machine. yes maybe you’ll find someone but the odds if your not in the same social group accepted norm is very unlikely. Be prepared to waste one hell of a lot of time too.

August 6, 2013 at 9:28 am
(233) mike cannon says:

They’re NO HONEST Dating Sites!!!!!!
Especially Romance Compass!!!! The WORST!!

August 8, 2013 at 2:25 am
(234) Tammie says:

I am so very discouraged with all online date sites. I have been ask for money, ask to send letters to generals to get men home on leave and told all sorts of things. I am honest to a fault, I hide nothing and use current pics. I want and need help. I never really dated before I got married and was married for 22 years. I got divorced in 2009. I had to take time to heal and I didn’t want to hurt a gentleman by making him a rebound man. I have been on sites, eharmony, zoosk, Christian mingle, richmen, meet me, date hook up, sugardaddies plently of fish, and the list goes on. I am 50 and it is hard to just go out and find a date. I am shy at first and backwards. I don’t go to clubs or bars, smoke, drink or do drugs. I have no sexually transmitted diseases either. Why is there no true sites out there that isn’t out to take your money with no results??

August 9, 2013 at 10:17 pm
(235) denny g says:

It seems that online “dating” sites are a waste of time and money, as most people don’t even get a date. At least that has been my experience and also the experience of other people that I have talked with. Watch out for the “intimate encounter” sites- these are targeted toward men. The profiles on these sites are totally bogus, so don’t fall for it. In the past I used a site called greensingles.com. I met a couple of people on this site and they were exactly who they said they were on their profiles. I didn’t actually date them as the chemistry wasn’t there. This is not a intimate encounter site- it’s for people who are looking for a real relationship. I exchanged a lot of e-mail with people on this site and everyone was really decent and polite. It’s just that a virtual or long distance relationship can get old. Good luck everyone.

August 12, 2013 at 11:49 am
(236) CAS says:

I signed up with 2 dating sites for mature people. They were both con merchants but I am not going to let this matter drop – I will pursue both of them via a TV programme.

ANYBODY WHO IS CONSIDERING JOINING A DATING LINE – DO NOT – THEY TAKE YOUR MONEY AND THAT IT IS.

August 15, 2013 at 3:32 pm
(237) Paul says:

I am a 47yr old male living in Suffolk UK who has never had a girlfriend or sex. Adult dating sites are useless as well as dating sites. I have only had rejection in my life. I hope to meet the girl of my dreams but its not going to happen. With adult dating theres no strings so it would not get hurt but I can’t even manage that. When my parents are gone I will not stay around.

August 16, 2013 at 12:33 pm
(238) Suzy C says:

Hi, I joined maturedating.com on a 3 day “trial” for something like £2.97 within a couple of hours realised I had made a mistake by doing so, so followed their cancel your membership instructions the same day, within 3 days they had taken an additional month’s subscription from my bank, because I had cancelled my membership within the required time of up to 3 days of joining at”no extra charge to you” and had not given any permission to take more than the trial period money from me for something I had cancelled I contacted them for a refund, which has now been going on for well over 4 weeks, they want all sorts of documentation to prove who I am before they issue me a refund, all of which I flatly refuse to give them, during all of this I am also getting unsolicited mail from a sister organisation of theirs cupid. Very quick to take my money without my permission but not so eager to pay my refund, but I have time on my hands and I will send this information to everyone and anyone I can, including the Media.

August 16, 2013 at 4:26 pm
(239) Beth says:

I signed up at http://www.saucydating.net last week and have already met a few shag buddies so would recommend.

August 17, 2013 at 10:45 am
(240) a guy says:

Online Is the #1 worst and most terrible place to meet anyone. IT’s a COMPLETE MYTH. NEVER go there to find anyone.

There are *NO* good dating sites…no good gay, lesbian, christian, catholic, adult, match, church or any other kind of dating sites. They are *ALL* oasis hallucinations that do not fulfill anything. Some of it is their own fault, some is the people on there who are the problems. But I guarantee you, all of them are making a nice $$ off of it and that is why it continues.

So-called dating experts often advertise there just to make a buck, because they KNOW this.

August 21, 2013 at 5:59 pm
(241) lex says:

best hookup site is abitbigger.com

August 26, 2013 at 4:09 pm
(242) desiree says:

Many women do not want to be used like that. I am not surprised by what I read. Why should I let a man just use me to pleas himself. If there is no real concern for me then $$$$ay. These men should learn to have genuine concern for others. If a man is really concerned about me he would worry about wether or not I have things I need. A roof over my head, presentable clothes, food to eat, and not only would he worry about those things but he would want to make sure people in my life are treating me right. Souns to me like these men just want to USE women and don’t want a mutually caring relationship.

August 27, 2013 at 11:16 am
(243) krazzykiller says:

Girls want. Or need attention
So here’s the deal on these sites for real.

First off for girls. It doesn’t matter what you put into a profile. The only thing that maters is your pictures. The competition on these sites create an artificial sense of self worth for girls. If your less than attractive you can still draw attention of attractive guys because only ugly girls use them. But none of these guys are going to actually date you. Most of them are porn surfing.

So these sites don’t work. Think of them as porn sietes for hot guys.

The girls on here no them are going to respond to an average looking guy when from there point of view they have become attractive to better than average guys.

The truth is if you’re on one of them and your not a good looking guy your wasting your time. But if your attractive then you don’t need them anyway. And your probably never going to meet one of the girls from there in real life anyway.

If you do actually meet a girl on one its because you got to her before she got the idea that she’s to hot for you.

The whole thing is starting to effect real life. Its got but uglys and fat nasties walking around thinking there sexy and turning down the few offers they get because there convinced they can do better.

Its all very pointless in the end.

September 6, 2013 at 4:08 am
(244) Evan says:

I agree with al the guys here the one thing all married couples have is incompatible sexual needs, most men like oral sex but you can’t force your wife to do it, so what do you do.
I hate the idiots who moralise about this, if two grown adults want to meet to have a simple sexual liasion what s wrong with that.
And most of the women who go onto these sites know that.
And a lot say if you DATE ME MAY BE I WILL HAVE SEX WITH YOU IF I LIKE YOU, WELL HAY BABE I GOT NEWS FOR YOU I CAN GO DOWN TO THE LOCAL PUB FOR THAT.
The women are pretentious snots with tickets on themselves.

September 7, 2013 at 4:32 am
(245) Marge says:

Sexdating(UK)

I tested the web site by sending a message to a male friend who is also became a temporary member. He set the filter in his profile to accept messages from anyone with my profile, yet he did not receive my message. The response I received was that my message was blocked by his filter. This was incorrect, so I deduce that Sexydating is fraudulent, like most of those sites.

September 7, 2013 at 8:01 am
(246) Dave Smith says:

I joined Datingforcheaters.com few years ago and I was immediately asked to pay, it took me awhile till I decided to pay and I did, the site is great. I did find women to bang. I for sure got my moneys worth, its way cheaper than paying an escort, sometimes you have to pay to get the result you want, you get for what you pay.

September 7, 2013 at 5:45 pm
(247) Jared says:

It is kind of humorous to hear people debating over adult sites. They are made to make money. Quite ingenious to make average people think that a woman 20 years younger would be interested in having free sex with an average to ugly man. People who expect the “adult site” to get them laid without having to impress anyone are like a person expecting to get a job without a resume and interview. Not going to happen. Tried POF and it worked, I met great single real women and it didn’t cost me a dime. Until the dating started, that’s when it got expensive. LOL!! haven’t found “the one” yet but that is not a dating websites fault.
Seriously, most women are not looking for a one night stand and if they are then they usually don’t have a problem finding someone attractive to complete the transaction. I recommend POF to anyone because I met a lot of people through that site. It basically allows you to screen crazies and set up safe meetings in public places to get to know someone. Anyway, hope this helps!! …and no, I do not work for POF, just a happy customer

September 9, 2013 at 3:37 pm
(248) Rick says:

Most ‘dating’ and ‘adult’ websites described here are full of bogus profiles, etc. Well, here is my experience with a couple of them.

Being over 60, I joined SeniorFriendFinders [SFF]. It is a huge site and very active. Most, if not all, of the people in it are real. If you are seriously looking, going Silver lets you see profiles, send messages, flirts, etc. For free you can chat all day long in the forums. No fakes in the chat rooms. As in a real-world bar or social environment, you get acquainted and if things click, you can take it from there. Chat room names [handles] and profiles do match up. If you are not over 50, this is not the place for you.

Adultfriendfinder [AFF]. Ah, lots of comments on this site!

It is pretty much the same deal as with SFF but has a lot more fake profiles considering the purpose for AFF existence. It would be a huge task for AFF to scrub profiles and eliminate the fakes. No matter, as you have to sort thru a lot of coal to find a diamond, as they say.

I use the chat rooms in both sites and developed a friendship with a gal in AFF, which led to exchanging emails and eventual meeting up. Did that meeting work? sure did.

adultxxxdate.com appears to be a mirror of AFF and clearly has the same member database. I have no idea why it even exists.

Use the chat rooms and prove that you are real and that your profile is genuine. Posting a pic of Tom Cruise [or a similar hunk] is really stupid and will bite you big time should you actually arrange to meet a gal. Not real smart either for a gal to post the pic taken when she was only 19.

So, in my opinion, one is well advised to only use the few really big, and real, dating sites and make use the chat forums. A profile is much like a business card- it is a snapshot to entice the reader to take the time to look into you a bit more.

September 10, 2013 at 12:14 pm
(249) Jay says:

Check out DateorPlay.com they are 100% free adult dating site, with other 80k real members.

September 10, 2013 at 5:31 pm
(250) B-1 says:

Those sites aren’t real. I’m a real good looking guy and sweet. The only women that talked to me were women trying to get more “clients”. I wouldn’t waste any time on any of them. You just have to luck up and meet a pretty woman that wants fun and friendship.

September 13, 2013 at 1:54 am
(251) David says:

Eventully even going out meeting is hard for me and most never smile back or want to know im loseing hope i used to get really neves im reveting back to that if i keep getting turned down 2 years ago i got tunred down by many ill give a guess bout about 30 odd wimen old young sinlge lesbians as i found out from 2 one was lying the other belived not just that but she loved comptergames to much and hung with all guys witch true dosent say shes a lesbian but after asking and being told the way it was said and crap ive sidetracked off topic sorry people ive tryed other sites some stayted free and some no reply ones are also many members dont log in but some were on just rude oralready gained enougth FB (not facebook) just unsure if i can sware to heavy on this forem is it a forem anyway been told i could be to needy but paid sex is even to expensive today my place well far from my area but the nerest a bj cost 500 quid no thanks ied rather pay a homeless guy close my eyes and think hard about wimen well get downright pissed to if that were an option but no thanks my

September 13, 2013 at 2:15 am
(252) David says:

alltime faverate wimen are the hardest to pullor try to get nsa ecounters with are asains and black wimen but i try all types but if anyone can guide me to an asain get laid or even dateing site thats not time wasteing ied be gratefull though ive missed a lot of sex in my life so ied rather get tons of sex before i get to attached or settle down as to hope that will not make me cheat and regain a smile i lost long ago now i can keep going if i could remember the rest i wanted to say but ill tie it of here but will say i just remembered some tryd a cuger site and goth site as well thinking i wasent good enougth so fit in with young sex pet to the cougers or as im paleish not goth but i could pas for one mabey even started to think maybe im just pure ugly see let downs have put my spirt down hope and happyness seems like itll never happen if anyone can figure out something im doing wrong out of what ive said then teel me and thanks but i think its the sites not me i hope after so much i found myself steriotypeing and doing the old mabey im a nerd not a jock

September 13, 2013 at 2:17 am
(253) David says:

anouther 10 years on a dry streak mabey thats a bit of it mabey girls sence i cant be controlled easy thats why as seen arounf here they go for super studs or really ugly odd balls cause theyll do anything to have a decent or super hot girl that sleeps with them and they have this so called extrasence or intuition and can feel the vibes hamefully not in them but feel and snce that i wont get controlled eaily and think im straight foward all there is to know about me is already knowen no challenge to find out if that other thing i read aint ball anyway ied likely enjoy and if i dident like the ater acts of bossiness ied walk as ied have brake the needyness and be well open and getting excepted some steriotype things that go through my head when im down thanks to this read and think i feel theres others the same anyway like if u get to have sex girls sence it and think oh hes good or we cant satve him crazy now might as well well enjoy him sort of that dont sound right huh well there is girls talk to but how would girls talk all over the world and say dont screw or date david blah blah blah my hands are acheing now so hopefully leaveing it like this wont be to offenseive with out my appolegize and explanation and hopefully this will shed some new beginning or some sort of hope of ever getting laid again in life what else is there crap i sound like sheen well being him not bad but still some would hate still that mony that life cool of topic again sex happy pleasuregameing ok eating needed as with sleep what else can be done to feel trully alive huh see im down thanks to how dateing sites have lead me who hates em more im starting to think im hight on the list

September 13, 2013 at 2:20 am
(254) David says:

oh crap half my stuff dident apper ah sod it ill just hate mail the sites and live a single no sex miserable life till i get so down i take up drinking again and get flatned by something preferably steam dont worry i aint gonna do anything nuts im just gonnna take more risks in life like skate bording over a shark tank if i can find sharks anywhere in england and unwatched and moved on lol

September 16, 2013 at 6:25 am
(255) Anna Marie says:

I would recommend the following sites:

1) http://www.swingswap.co.uk (Free UK’s swinging site)
2) http://www.sdc.com (Paid swinging and swinging clubs network)
3) http://www.mysecretliaisons.com (Paid – Casual sex affairs)
4) fabswingers.com (Free and Paid options)

September 17, 2013 at 2:20 pm
(256) Greg says:

Its all just a numbers game. The number of players is compounded, in some guys will get lucky anywhere they go. Most relationships start at the workplace for a reason.
Guys in the west should look in the east, theirs not much left for you in the west, I am off to the Ukraine as soon as I can.
Cheers
Greg
New Zealand

September 27, 2013 at 2:23 pm
(257) Mark says:

Many have success with online dating.
As far as casual sex and chat sites most are fake and cost a lot.
http://www.whosaroundtown.com is 100% free

September 28, 2013 at 2:43 am
(258) eric says:

Just be a genuine nice guy:) Doesn’t hurt to be funny either. I just became a member on POF and i messaged one girl and she messaged me rite back and made me laugh. I did notice a fake girl though. Just copy and paste the picture url on google images and normally if its someone else it will pop up as the original name. Good luck with your searches wherever they lead you:)

October 2, 2013 at 9:44 pm
(259) Seb says:

POF WORKS if ur good looking of coursr , i signed up 3 days ago and already slept with one girl and talking all day to about 6-10 girls at once lol :)

October 3, 2013 at 4:03 pm
(260) PeterRadcliffe says:

I have had some great success with POF and also with adults.co.uk but for me the best experience (in terms of actualy contacts, no spam etc etc) was with http://www.maritalaffair.co.uk also gave adult friend finder a go, was ok but not as much “going on” ;-)

October 9, 2013 at 7:01 pm
(261) JCS says:

I think it sounds like a class action law suit against these fraudulent sites…?

October 13, 2013 at 11:06 am
(262) Robert says:

I am searching for the same right now. I wasn’t, and then, like a dummy, I listened to some “girls” email and signed up for Milfaholic.com Straight scam. Messed up part is it took me less than 24 hours to realize I was played. All it took was about 30 seconds of research. Just wish I would have before I signed up. Ya, it was all fake people. Made me think they have people emailing you with somewhat specific things to fool you. Oh well, not much lost ‘YET’. Right now I’m just $50 poorer and until the last few hours, was still getting “text” messaging. They let you sign up, but it’s $10 more a month to have ability to return text messages. Somewhat comical. And yes, I would have thought the sites that charge money would probably weave out alot of the fakes, if the site’s legit haha. Of course there’s weirdos and pos people that send viruses. But for the most part, I think alot of the fakes go to the free sites. Ah maybe not idk. But thanks, I’m going to look up, and research, that website as well.

October 13, 2013 at 11:45 am
(263) Robbee says:

Darrell06 Man, I didn’t have to write a thing. Making some genius points my brother. ( Or also Darrell Horton, maybe 2 people with insight to my stem cells ). And everyone else, as for POF, only one I’ve tried. Off and on for approx. 8 years. It’s crazy wack! Ya , I’m modestly attractive white guy, and much like Darrell, I gets NOTHING. I’m sorry, At one point I did go to a girls house for dinner. And yes she was a midget. I couldn’t leave quick enough. As soon as I grabbed my pants outta her bathroom and finished my cigarette, I was GONE. Haha, anyway, It’s now 2013. If I’m not talking to myself, hope someone found a good one for me in the last 3 years? Stay classy America ;)

October 14, 2013 at 3:52 pm
(264) Stace says:

Contrary to this review, AFF is the ONLY site where I’ve had any luck meeting real women for casual sex. And that’s only after I vastly lowered my standards and resigned to hooking up with a few fatties and butter faces. But hey, they were real women and I’m willing to bet I’ve had better luck than the average guy on these scam sites.

Fact is, any woman who is even remotely cute can walk into any bar, club, church, etc…pick any guy she wants and within five minutes have him eating her like last night’s take-out. Most women simply don’t need to join a dating site for casual sex. Keep that in mind next time you’re on hornylocalmilfs4U.com and you find an inbox full of messages from women who all look like Maxim cover girls. Joining these hookup sites expecting to meet attractive women will just result in frustration. There’s just no such thing as a free lunch if you own a penis.

October 31, 2013 at 10:13 pm
(265) Sue Frohman says:

http://HookupTonight.com is for real, it’s not nasty but it definitely is for adults. Mature dating, I’d call it.

November 2, 2013 at 4:54 pm
(266) Ritchie Mayes says:

People,get a grip, how can you date someone who is not face-to-face? So-called dating and romance sites, are a rip. Think in terms of, I am attempting to meet someone using the internet. Along with that, goes all the drawbacks of thin trust. Rather, not having trust in the images or words seen on the screen. As a photo shows the world what we want others to see about us, social networking comes with a host challenges that must be surmounted. First of all is distance, second is developing trust, third is allowing an unseen individual into your life. Over the years, I have read many profiles of individuals, who have yet to move past, broken relationships, have not resolved trust issues, have become callused, or, afraid to admit to themselves, they actually no longer desire intimacy. I have also read in many profiles, downright hostility that shines like a beacon in the night. As long, as individuals are willing to pay money for hope of a relationship, the sharks will circle and offer the golden apple of delusion, tinged with the poison of unfulfillment.

November 4, 2013 at 12:31 am
(267) Jordan says:

Hey guys, I liked this site. The profiles are much better than the other sites ! Good luck http://www.adult-hub.net

November 5, 2013 at 10:59 am
(268) Older Hopefully Wiser says:

Many of the comments in here are right on the money.
Thakfully I never made the mistake of falling for the scams…other than “join for free”…and when you can do nothing…well…bye-bye.

PoF really is a PoS, from the brief time I looked around it…and no matter where you look, the fakes and scammers are there…that is the nature of these site.

And my general experience being…if they answer, scammers for the most part…and if they actually happen to ne one of the few real women…well, they don’t have the basic manners to give a quick email back, if only to say bugger off or not interested.

And the sense thier own imagined self-worth…figuring they are going to get a rich well connected guy withan unlimited bank account and an internet-sized cock…ha when they themselves are nothing much themselves…the hostility others have mentioned…

And Craigslist…now that is a hoot. Something I will look into once in awhile on a rainy miserable day when I need a humorous interlude….

Best luck I ever had was back when Yahoo still had their chatrooms, before they became over-run with bots.
Met several filipinas and a few other women..in real…, just from chatting there…and some of them led to physical fun as well.

Nowadays, I have concluded that it is for all practical purposes, impossible to meet someone online for something real time.

You are better off just dating the Palm Sisters…or paying a woman and get what you want and have it your way without argument…then go about your business, no second thoughts and none of the usual BS.

Ok rant off.

November 8, 2013 at 9:36 am
(269) Joel says:

hi, i have read all the comments on here , and you are all rite, diffrent encounters diffrent situation these sites truely are a wast of time and money if you pay for one, ive been to pof and datehookup , ive seen quit a few pix the are the same in the other site but diffrent age title and profile , after encouraging my self to delete all my profiles , im happy to say that im going to open a singles lounge / bar/grill, some thing diffrent the future in finding a true person for what every reason, my names joell and i live in orlando fl , with all the beautiful women that are out here and i wasted 6 years on these dum a”" sites, dont let this be you, its time to go out and say hello face to face with thoughs you think are attractive ,, just a thought :)

November 14, 2013 at 7:43 am
(270) Julie says:

I think many of us go to Adult dating sites for different reasons and different expectations, some swingers, singles, married dating. I personally have been on a couple of the larger sites as well. As a woman, you do get inundated by the men unfortunately. Especially if you choose to post a nude or provavcative photo. Again, your choice. I have honestly after careful review have met a few men in person, with no expectations . Personally for me I am more likely to respond to an email from a man who has a face photo or partially nude photo, I just find it much sexier.

November 15, 2013 at 3:44 pm
(271) beth jones says:

I was sceptical about online dating but i went online last month at http://www.saucydate.net and signed up. I have to say i’m very impressed so far as I have have had two dates and both men treated me like a real lady.

I have tried many sited over the last year but many are a waste of time. I recommend saucydate as its cheap and easy to use

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November 19, 2013 at 4:42 am
(273) Honestly! says:

I spent soooooo much time reading this thread which was a couple of years long. A lot of info to be had here and I am the type who would never go on an “Adult”site. I wanted to add that I get some attention from guys when I’m out and about but am too shy to look at them. I don’t understand why I am since I am very assertive, usually. I think the girls who are the ladies in the streets but the freaks in the beds are just as unlucky as the guys who have commented here. Best of luck to all of us!

November 19, 2013 at 7:53 pm
(274) Andy says:

To Sally, comment 26, who said, “Do you know how many men are just too scared to ask a woman out in person Ė itís a real problem for us,” I have this to say: Oh, you poor dear. How difficult and fraught with anxiety that must be for you. I do hope that as you sit, pining away, staring forlornly at the men to whom you’re attracted, you have the strength to resist the occasional impulse to stand up and ask one of them out yourself. What a world… what an unfair, cruel world you must live in. I, as a man, feel a profound shame at the way we’ve failed you.

November 20, 2013 at 4:27 pm
(275) Alan James says:

I am looking to find a free adult dating site. I live in Toronto and so far for a big city like this I can,t seem to find a connection.
I want to meet and to write to a sexy female older and white to. let me know. Bye. Alan James…

November 23, 2013 at 6:23 pm
(276) rob hancox says:

i think pof is a good site, have met several nice women on there, and
get lots of mail. i am 62 and have gone out with women from 45 to 65.
some just call or gmail now. also the datehookup site has been good for me. no fakes as far as i know. im in gulf shores, al. the adult hookup
sites are a joke, full of fakes and scams. good luck out there

December 2, 2013 at 6:05 am
(277) Mike says:

Most women want a dream so most dating sites don’t work

December 2, 2013 at 8:16 pm
(278) Lanesra says:

Pls be careful on meeting men from any dating sites! I have had a partner and he’s been using these names ” John ” or ” Ken ” or ” Kenny ” to meet different women. I have caught him doing these things and even spoken to different women that he has been meeting in the past. These women has no idea who he really is, his real age, location, status,occupation,etc. They have been vulnerable and been a victim as they have ended up sleeping with someone who has a family and worst got sickness in women. I feel so bad about what he has done and I have shown no respect to even some women who has agreed to sleep with him and have an affair with him even though these women were fully aware that he was then in a relationship and has kids. I think people should be very careful in joining different dating sites.

December 3, 2013 at 3:51 am
(279) Paul says:

I recently found http://sexincity.co.uk – specializing in London and UK adult dating. a lot of real people profiles. They claim to have member video chat inside. Will try to sign up and see…

December 4, 2013 at 6:46 pm
(280) RollingRock says:

I’m very attracted to Asian women and wondered if anyone has experience with any Asian sites. They seem full of false profiles. Anyone have any good luck?

December 10, 2013 at 5:15 pm
(281) Crazynutt3rs says:

Crazynutt3rs free adult social network http://www.crazynutt3rs.co.uk

December 11, 2013 at 3:00 pm
(282) dave says:

I like badoo its the only site ive tried and got real replys to and ive been on a few dont try erotic ads its just crap

December 11, 2013 at 4:34 pm
(283) Monte Cristo says:

Fling.com

Plain in simple. Don’t waste your money. Reno, Nv. is horrible in my opinion. For the amount of money you pay for this site, it’s as bad as the ACA.

December 16, 2013 at 7:47 pm
(284) Andrew says:

for dating and toyboy dating but also fetish and bdsm dating join!!! totalfantasydating.com There slogan is the new generation of dating sites. I have been on there since the start it came with fake profiles. but recently ther dissapering as the numbers grow. Its not an old site and all ready it has over 700. And i can truly say its the most honest site out there i would bet my life on it. you do have to pay. Its says join free??? How dose this works to register free or join free is true BUT!!! To be a member!!!! you have to pay. So you can sighn up to some thing but it dose not mean you can use it its a bit like a application or a info form

December 17, 2013 at 11:15 am
(285) purgatory says:

ALL DATE SITES ARE THE SAME. SCAMS. PROFESSIONAL HOOKERS. CONTRADICTORY WOMEN. ABOVE ALL, THEY ABSOLUTELY WILL NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU UNLESS YOU ARE THE RICH BOWFLEX GUY. I CAN REMEMBER WHEN SUCH SITES WERE AS THEY WERE INTENDED, A LAST RESORT FOR THE ,,AVERAGE GUY,, …BUT NOT FOR SOME TIME. THE AVERAGE GUY HAT DOESENT LIVE IN A BAR, NOT RICH, OR DOESENT BELIEVE IN BEING A FAKE P.O.S. WISPERING FLOWERS& PICKET FENCES IN A EQUALLY FAKE BRAUDS EAR, IS SCREWED.

December 19, 2013 at 12:27 pm
(286) biguno says:

Ive met women on AFF, Fling, Onlinebootycall, POF, Adultspace, and Datehookup, they all have pros and cons. FLING was easiest site to get laid for me, POF and DATEHOOKUP, have younger more attractive women. So to each its own.

December 21, 2013 at 2:57 pm
(287) johnathan says:

Hey I just wanted to say from experience okcupid is the best for men. I haven’t met a solid girl friend on there but I have gotten laid. I also received the best blowjob ive ever had from a girl I met on that site. Basically if your decent looking just message girls something simple. Start talking, get to know them, and then ask her out. After that keep the relationship going and before you know it you will become intimate. Usually takes about a month, maybe a little more. So far most of the girls I have met are pretty weird and they end the relationship quickly. They always say that they have had a bad past bla bla bla the same old bs. Ive learned just to act like your interested, get laid and get out.

December 27, 2013 at 5:48 am
(288) Steffen says:

I would highly recommend AdultFriendFinder and also HornyWife.com as the flag bearers for the adult/casual encounters.Within a month got laid 5 times on AFF.For the same period on POF had only 1 encounter that lasted 2 months with 6 dates total.I believe Zoosk.com,Singlesnet/was bought out by Match.com/ and True.com to be mre result oriented.
On the free dating sites OKCupid/bought out by Match.com/ gave me 8 dates and 2 sexual encounters.Tried also DateHookup.com..about 6-7 dates within a month.That site is free too.All sites paid and free ones have a large population of fake profiles.At this time Match.com is under a class action lawsuit for $ 1.5 BLN claiming as much as 60% of their members are fraudulent profiles.In my humble opinion free dating sites have approximately 80-85% fake profiles at any given time.Most of those are put on by the sites themselves to create impression of critical mass of members.This way they entice more n more fish to join.The largest dating site at this time is AFF and its affiliate HornyWife with more than 30 M people yearly.Match.com with 16.7 million per year is the 2nd largest site .I tried Fling.com and BlackBook.com – those are scams – do not join.

December 28, 2013 at 12:16 am
(289) Steffen says:

The beauty of adult dating sites is…guys do not need to buy dinners or flowers on first dates.A large portion of the female population on adult sites are married,swingers and some divorced.
They do not usually post profile pics,but make a first contact.These ladies come to your place or meet at a motel,usually 2-3 times and that’s that – no strings attached.No relationship can come out of those flings.A few of the dates were not interested in sex,one told me that we aren’t a match..lol
Another one turned out to be with a church group on a crusade against adult/porn sites and the whole date was a crack up.
And yes..even on an adult site like AFF a guy can meet the usual…girls that are into dating for the free dinners sake.But then again my motto is – Starbucks on a 1st date,drink and chips at a bar for 2nd date and then a dinner and flowers on the 3rd date.Good luck to all and please avoid small startup sites with no membership base.A site that has almost 30 million members per year is big because of a reason – RESULTS.

January 4, 2014 at 9:59 am
(290) Gemma says:

Hi i just try http://www.crazynutt3rs.co.uk its 100% free , has many good features , no ads , good loading times. worth a look

January 4, 2014 at 8:08 pm
(291) Don says:

I have tried many pay sites including Chemistry and Match, both are total scams. I have seen the same woman on different sites like Zoosk with different names and profiles, same picture. Good luck to anyone trying to find a legitimate dating or relationship site on the internet.

January 8, 2014 at 5:31 pm
(292) SeriousGold says:

Comment (41), I think it’s Jeff.
Very funny and real bro. I like these forums. They are very funny. I just enjoy reading and this is the first time I am leaving a comment. U R right buddy. Any good looking young girl has the key to the city. The young, pretty, hot women don’t need a dating site to be banged.

January 11, 2014 at 5:33 am
(293) Steffen says:

I did compile a list of sites-for fee and free to avoid
1.Match.com -enormous amount of fraudulent profiles created by the site’s staff itself
2.eHarmony – most “matches” hundreds and thousands of miles away
3.Ashley Madison – casual sex site with a $ 20M lawsuit on its hands by a former employee/profile writer,who claims permanent work injury,due to the site requirement their profile scammers write 1000 profiles every few days.
4.Fling.com – fake profiles in excess of 90%
5.Small for fee and free sites,that nobody heard of
Fake members on site are easy to recognize – they chat till the moment they have to meet or give a local phone number.Those are usually sites own staffers.Outside fakers/scammers usually want money and are located abroad…Ghana,Nigeria,Russia,Thailand.
Even,if a scammer gives you a local cell number that doesn’t mean they are local.If I wanna scam someone in LA,NY,Chicago all that is needed is…GVN..Google Voice Number.Easy to get in order to scam love seekers.Crooks prefer email addresses,because they can put a virus or spy cookie to obtain financial info for identity theft.They hate cell numbers – tough to put a virus in it.They usually take off,if no email addy available.Favorite method of virus/cookie is link/attachments – photos etc.Dating sites have escort rings doing biz there..well some of them…POF,DHU,Matchmaker,Mate1 etc.On POF n DHU I WAS TOLD ON ARRIVAL BY DATES,SHE..charges $60 A POP.
PlentyofFish has Fridays and Saturday nites social events for members at local hotels,where prostitutes congregate – like the Admiral Hotel near Dallas International Airport in Grand Prairie off of fwy 360.
Surprise surprise ! Wink..wink.
Be careful,happy hunting and good luck to all

January 25, 2014 at 3:59 pm
(294) John says:

I just got ripped off by a dating site called dateplayfull , currently looking how can I report them as illegitimate as the whole thing is fake .
and they took $100

January 27, 2014 at 9:05 am
(295) jonathan says:

tinder as an app for the iphone and android. and it is a real working dating thing that works as u would like it to work

January 28, 2014 at 2:14 pm
(296) Royce says:

I like this one dating site they fight against fake members. And you can turn in anyone that you think is fake and they will send them a verification test. Which I think is cool http://www.youcanmingle.com
They are well priced as well. Lookem up & me 2 :)

January 29, 2014 at 3:06 pm
(297) Mr. Coffee says:

WAKE UP! If a site guarantee’s sex and takes money that’s prostitution and it’s illegal. Read the fine print they say for entertainment purposes only. Seriously a married woman in your area is going to post a picture of her face and body for the world to see so her husband can take her to court and kick her out. NEVER going to happen. Most women are not that stupid. Men yes. Women no. And to you whiners no one answers my profile – have you had a woman read it who can give you her honest opinion? You don’t have women friends??? ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE CREEPY!!! No one wants a stalker. NO ONE. So stop it you morons. First you gotta love yourself and I don’t mean self gratification. Be happy with who you are. It shows and it’s attractive. If you can’t do that – get Professional help. Nooooo see a psychologist or therapist. Sheesh!

January 30, 2014 at 6:32 am
(298) Mike says:

I suppose different dating sites work for different people. For me, <a href=”http://www.datesunlimited.co.uk”>DatesUnlimited</a> has been a fresh of breath air :)

January 31, 2014 at 2:05 pm
(299) Chazz says:

So far I’ve tried (Paid Memberships) for Adultfriendfinder, Fling, AshleyMadison, and some other ones like XXXblackbook etc… EVERY single one of them have FAKE ads, AFF and Fling were the worst. I actually sent like 60 messages and received messages back that were word for word the same! Come on now ya know! Ashley Madison Ive sent over 100 messages. Every single one is a short few word response asking for pics, you give key and never hear from again… Now im not an ugly dude so I know that’s not the thing. These sites rope you in and take your money. DO NOT PAY for a site. Plenty of Fish actually I met a few people there (just chatting and swap pics) but they deleted my profile because im attached. So, in the end the ONLY site Ive found is POF….. If anyone knows any send it my way!

February 2, 2014 at 5:04 am
(300) Looking for love says:

I have tried so many sites. But I definitely think the free ones are best, because I’ve seen job adverts asking women to talk to men on dating sites pretending to be genuinely looking for love. Obviously these are the paid for sites doing this, as the free ones don’t have the budget to do that. The site I’m on at the moment which I like because it’s quick to join and you have to accept people for them to message you is flirthut.com.

February 8, 2014 at 3:06 am
(301) Vanna says:

Try 3single dot com. There you can talk to amateur grils who look like your neighbor. Have fun :)

February 13, 2014 at 4:50 pm
(302) Carrie says:

Yes
Free adult dating website for 18+
Serious members only
Not for kids
http://www.my-body.spruz.com

February 15, 2014 at 10:48 am
(303) Peter D. Salisbury says:

I am a thirty year lawyer, and somebody ought to bust these guys, so I am launching a Criminal, Civil Investigation into these sites. It’s outrageous, theft, and they are busted. They used to call be the bulldog, mover over Broderick Crawford!

February 15, 2014 at 1:02 pm
(304) sheplayheplay says:

Since Stephen specified “real,” not “free,” we’re wondering what your problem is with adultfriendfinder. It’s as real as it gets in our experience. We live in a smaller city (about 40000) and personally know a bunch of real people in our area on the site, including single women, men and couples.

February 18, 2014 at 1:20 am
(305) musclemike says:

I’ve been through times like this before (really tough). Almost all of the dating sites I’ve visited wasn’t worthy of my time and certainly wasting it. I’ve encouraged myself to find and visit another site and luckily, I’m satisfied with this one. Try and check this out http://getlove4u.net/getlove4u-2/. This totally worked for me and has found the love of my life here which I’m now happily married to . Hope this helps! :)

February 19, 2014 at 3:46 am
(306) Emma Taylor says:

I joined http://www.eliteswingers.co.uk/ and as as single woman active in the lifestyle i loved it! Give it a go! xx

February 22, 2014 at 12:10 am
(307) Stephen S says:

My wife and I tried Adult Friend Finder….it’s crap. First…nothing for free…nada so don’t expect it. Second, paying for their membership is like throwing money out the window. The parent company also has other sites. We found ourselves signed up in and didn’t know about. Searched for months…no women. But it, like other dating sites is a veritable sausage factory. Don’t waste your hard earned money. Period.

February 22, 2014 at 6:55 am
(308) Pete says:

Hiya,

You should try http://zonsex.com its free and its more like a community where u just meet up for some nsa fun. I’ve been there for a while now and I meet up with few interesting people. :)

February 24, 2014 at 12:43 am
(309) MeinTN says:

You people are whiny! It takes time. I’ve spent a couple years on POF and OKCupid in the past. I’ve been on at least a dozen dates with real women from both sites. Even better, at least half the dates ended in first date sex or ongoing relationships which yield the benefit of ongoing sex. I even had one girl drive 3 hours to meet me in a different city for the weekend knowing I already had a room booked for us. She was normal and we dated for months. I’ve also had luck walking up to women in bars and telling them what I want. Try honesty. Let’s face it – if you don’t have game in real life how could you ever convince a woman you have it online?

March 13, 2014 at 8:47 am
(310) Steven says:

Often its the same company running different sites.
The following are all scams. The women are not real and they try to trick you and charge your credit card for extra stuff.

BENAUGHTY.COM

-they just try to charge your cc, unbelievable, plus fake admin profiles

SHAGAHOLIC.COM
(fake admin profiles always online, there aren’t even as many women online as it says on the site….sometimes 20 or so)

MILFBERRY.COM (fake admin profiles)

Hornymatches.com
(this one used to have a better reputation but it’s become a total scam/fake admin profiles try to lure you into signing up with scam sites, plus most profiles are fakes)
I can’t believe this site got some alright reviews online. Must have been years ago (hundreds of scam complaints online)

March 20, 2014 at 1:13 am
(311) peterharley says:

I like this one dating site they fight against fake members. And you can turn in anyone that you think is fake and they will send them a verification test. They are well priced as well.Which I think is cool http://www.adultdatingplace.co.uk/

March 20, 2014 at 10:05 am
(312) Bubbatxman says:

So I got scammed out of about $70 from milfaholic.com . As I started looking a day or two in, I realized the same. Billing was though Epoch.com. Emails through outlook.com.

Fake people sending flirts. I found the same profile pic on multiple names and cities. What broke the bank was finding Connie from x-art.com as a local profile.

I sent maybe 75 emails on milfoholic.com. 5 replies, I replied to those and only one replied. She said she was in Malaysia on a models photo shoot and her party just left her behind. She promised me a date when she gets back. I expect the next email to be a plea for money. Not falling for that! The domain was outlook.com which I would call suspect for Fraud.

Last year, I tried okcupid.com and got two girls interested. We traded emails but they were looking for LTRs. One I even romanced one online, and probably could have carried it further but I didn’t. She was upset when I broke it off and I felt guilty. I thought my ex and I were going to make a go of it.

I also tried POF, but did the LTR route. I got some interest but they didn’t follow up.

I WILL tell you this, most women are ALL about LTRs. I have yet to meet a single women who seriously just wants a casual encounter. I haven’t been to the bar scene. I thought about “cougar night” at a local club, but at 49 and 25+ years as a software developer I am hardly a “cub”.

Those who appear to want a casual encounter are very picky that it be a man with the body of a Greek god, with an 8+ inch member, combined with the business savvy and wealth of Donald Trump. Sounds like they want to start with a good time and end up with a rich husband or sugar daddy. Again LTR.

So I’m done with the online, I will go spend my time exercising and losing weight to get closer to Greek god status and then try my luck in person when time permits.

One final thought. Most women ARE looking for LTRs. They are on okcupid.com, match.com, and eharmony.com.

March 22, 2014 at 12:52 am
(313) how to make a solar hot water heater says:

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March 26, 2014 at 4:41 pm
(314) Rich says:

Milfhookup.com is the biggest fake profile web-site I have ever seen. I wouldn’t waste a dime on this site. There are good sites online but this isn’t one of them. STAY AWAY from here.

March 30, 2014 at 3:31 pm
(315) shower designs says:

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March 30, 2014 at 3:34 pm
(316) small bathtub ideas says:

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March 30, 2014 at 11:16 pm
(317) scot says:

Have to agree that adult friend finder is a joke. Dont waste your time

April 1, 2014 at 7:18 am
(318) Hank says:

think it really boils down to personal experience. There are a lot of smaller adult dating sites that yield great results for some and feel like a scam to another.
I agree about milfhookup.com being a scam but there is a .net version as well, <a href=”http://www.milfhookup.net/”>Milfhookup.net</a>
my personal experience with that site was actually pretty good, apparently is a network of dating sites and milfhookup.net send you to the right site based on your profile info, profiles viewed, signup info etc

April 4, 2014 at 8:58 pm
(319) John the Amoeba says:

I don’t think so. I’ve been on so many I can’t count them. But when I go on, I may easily get off within five minutes. To name just a few: I was on Adult Friend Finder and found it was a scam. Give me two minutes and I’ll tell you about the others. There is pattern recognition between sites and if they are similar, they’re a scam.

Fling is b.s.
Getiton has the commonality of other bs websites

I am not identifying the crap out there that allows me to see it. Telling the scammers might have them change what they do for a while. I did work in the computer field long enough to know what
bs looks like.

Craigslist is beyond having irresponsible posts on their board. Men pose as women in women categories (W4W and Women to Women) is most common. Now people are asking for women to be in relationships and live in with a man and a woman. That pushes the boundaries and makes their posting illegal. A man cannot have two wives or whatever he calls them.

April 6, 2014 at 1:06 am
(320) Lon says:

OK Cupid. I have had some dates and had one relationship from this site. It is the best dating site out there and it’s free.

April 6, 2014 at 9:41 am
(321) DJ says:

Just stay off all of them…for the low probability of meeting anyone you would want to touch anyway, it’s not worth the insane amount of risk to your finances, emotions, and life. If you insist on taking this route, read the terms and conditions BEFORE you sign-up. It could very well make you reconsider. And there has been a consolidation, or proliferation if you will, of many sites under the same Jamaican-based holding company that runs its technical/website operations out of Canada.

If you are at a point in your marriage/relationship where you can’t/won’t get out, try a museum/cafe/park/club, etc. Are there still real risks? Absolutely! But you can at least see a real person and use multiple senses to form an opinion and make a decision to continue.

April 10, 2014 at 11:14 pm
(322) me says:

OKCupid is down and out for the count. probably bought out by one of the big hongs who peddle fake cuties and charge socially inept men who masturbate all day :)

April 14, 2014 at 6:53 am
(323) staneley williams says:

For me I will say the only place you can be sure to find people that are surly real and no fake or any scram, when you go on a completely free dating sites with no change of any kind not when after you sign up or before you signe but totally free in there you will find a lot of real people and must to mtch your like.

April 19, 2014 at 1:25 pm
(324) Joshua Dye says:

Awesome article, any more similar you have written? :)

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