Are There Any Legitimate Adult Dating Sites Out There?

sorry to say but no…. better just meet guys in person… dating sites are honestly a waste of time… the people that you see on the commercials doing those types of sites are paid actors…. the people on the site are total creepers

That’s not true not every guy are jerks you just have too meet the rite people and I’m one of the real men in alabama

Well, I’m disappointed to not see Plenty Of Fish mentioned as an okay site. I’m new to this blog, so I can’t say I’m familiar with all that Bonny’s laid out. Maybe POF got a previous recommendation. I did note, in my one previous visit here (when I registered), in a discussion about smiling and body language that can affect your appearance, that POF was cited as possibly sliding, with the focus too much on how to generate revenue.

I get nowhere with POF, although I have nothing better to do while I wait. At 54 I really don’t want to wait for anything! Still…

I know for a fact that the women on POF, in many cases, want action but don’t say so directly. And they want what I want, namely action with younger partners. I can’t even get the attention of 50 year old women who are looking for the intimate encounter that I’m looking for.

But I wouldn’t quite call it dishonesty. It may be a little bit, but I think it’s more along the lines of those women just being careful about how they go about getting what they want. Whereas, What Stephen refers to sounds downright nasty. POF wasn’t my first foray, recently, into online hookup sites. Here in Toronto there’s a free paper called NOW!. It partnered up with some scammy outfit called CONNXXXTIONS which I joined. It was supposed to be free to join and put up a profile and have a voice mailbox. Well, When I realized that there were virtually no women using the site (or at least it appeared that way to me) and I kept getting asked for a credit card to use the ‘free’ features, I quit, but not before emailing CONXXXTIONS and NOW! to let them know why. Of course, No one responded.

I have found so far, there is no such thing as a REAL free site. There is always an “Oh by the way, in order to answer a letter…” or some such. I don’t know about you, but I am fed up with women who can’t make a commitment to meet and talk live and in person. I am 68 and I am very definitely having that problem. So POF wasn’t the answer, I guess we both need to go somewhere else. I am going to continue to read and if I have more negative comments I am gone…

My best to you on your search, I want you to find her and soon.

okcupid.com is completely real, and completely free…. I can’t say I’ve met anyone “special” on it, but I haven’t been solicited in one way, shape or form on the website, and you have a ton of options available for free members… the only catch is there aren’t many looking for NSA intimate encounters on there… but if you want that, go to a trashy bar or something.

I am fed up with the women on these sites to. On most of
them, I can’t even get a nice letter from an old granny, and if I do get an email from a good looking woman, she is usually a fake. On one site, I got email from a lot of women, and not
even one wanted to meet me! Even though I cancelled my
membership, can you believe I still get email from those fake
women! But on other sites, I get nothing! I don’t know what
is going on with these sites. I think its better to go to a bar. At least the women are real and you will not be spending your
money!

Darrel

Arby,

I didn’t put POF on the list because Stephen asked specifically for sites that catered to adult dating, meaning, casual sex. I realize that Lavalife doesn’t quite fit that bill, but on POF, if you email someone for sex, the system automatically excludes you from emailing a whole schwack of people because of it. So, if you ever change your mind or find someone you want to email for other reasons, basically, you can’t.

I agree with your suggestion to try local papers and publications, although as a single male, it can be difficult no matter where you try. There just aren’t as many single women looking for that kind of relationship as there are single men.

Iam indian businessman I think ur view of life is samto me

Yep, It’s rough!

I don’t like Lavalife at all. I just get zero returns when I do a search. I don’t get it. And I just don’t like the site. I don’t like all the framed questions. Let me do the talking for myself, Thanks very much! I delete my one day account there. There’s another one I joined up. Don’t know how good it is for Toronto, Canada. I forgot to bookmark it, so I’ll get the name while I’m here and look again.

This is all so painful.

I have tried plentyoffish , ok cupid and lavalife (can’t believe you recommend this one along with POF).
What really has worked for me is Reelspark. This site is straight forward, easy to use and got video profiles on there.
 
I would highly recommend using this one.

yes many of adult dating site same problem. I know a free adult dating site where you does not face those promlem.

adultdatingforme.com

100% Free online adult dating community. Free chat, Free email, Free video chat, Free cam to cam, no subscription fees ever. Everything is free in the Adult Dating For Me social network.

FYI. Adult Dating For Me is not a free site. its just like all the other sites, paying membership to recieve,send emails. robseo must be employed by them. totally false info!

Well the only one I’ve come across is hornydevilsonline.com, Its kinda like a free version of aff. Besides that I have come across any others.

I have tried a few adult dating site. Some do not offer a lot. Tried free adult dating sites, some are not really free, but there are a few that have a lot of free services. I say sign up and check out a few for yourself and judge. I like http://www.hush.24ex.com

I agree, it’s hard finding a true connection. That’s why I enjoy logging onto http://www.barstalk.com. All they do is tell you where the best bars to meet singles are located near you. The guy to girl ratio, best nights etc…You go out and make your own connection. Choose your fate.

I have tried Camerates http://www.camerates.com. Its free and good. Can also be used on mobile phones

just use yelp or this new site in NY: http://www.barstalk.com/

simply shows you good places to hang out to meet people

plentyoffish.com is full of fakes.

The free dating site plentyoffish.com is full of scams. Most of the women on that site are fake profiles and the same pictures are used in many different major cities. I believe plentyoffish is responsible for this, because otherwise, if there were no profiles then who would join? I theorize all dating sites are responsible for putting up fake profiles at least in the beginning to get people to join.

I’ve attempted to contact plentyoffish.com to complain about (and report) fake profiles and you will not believe their response–they deleted my profile. I interpret that reaction as them not only knowing about the fake profiles but being responsible for it to scam people into joining.

Yahoo Personals was successfully sued because of a bunch of fake profiles they put on their site to entice people to join. I did join years ago. After the law suit, Yahoo cut me a check to reimburse me $35 I spent on a membership. They have the same fake profiles on different areas–in other words, one beautiful woman would be in the San Diego area, but also the same picture of the same woman on a different profile would show up in the Sacramento area, Seattle area, Denver area, etc, and there were tons of profiles like this. Yahoo Personals was so diluted with fake profiles that it was not even worth wasting your time after a while.

Yes, and more and more sites are putting up fake profiles, so
that it is getting harder and harder for men to find real
women on dating sites. That is understandable, when you
consider that men looking for women online out number the
women looking for men. If they did not put up fake profiles,
they would not get any members. It’s better to go to the
green sheet, local newspapers, or ad sites. There you know
the women are going to real and they are free.

Darrel

Hi guys,

I’m just recently out of a relationship and a good friend of mine recocmended this site Maybeadate.com, it’s totally free and I’m enjoying meeting people:)

Hope this helps xxx

OK, so just HOW MANY of the above people posted information on dating sites because they’re only promoting them in this forum? And the ReelSpark site doesn’t even exist! So how can “you” recommend it “SANDRA GREEN”? If that’s really your name? On-line dating is ALL bogus. You’re much better off meeting someone “out there” in the REAL world instead of wasting your time and money. And that’s all these on-line businesses are good for…. STEALING YOUR MONEY!!!

i agree with u i mean i have tried the online stuff and u dont think ur meetin a real guy and then u meet this person and they look like wtf so… stay away from these websites

There are no legitimate adult dating sites anywhere. Why? Because a pretty female can step out the door, make eye contact for 30 seconds with any male, smile and get laid. This applies all the way up to age 50 if she is pretty. Plus, no woman in the world gives sex for free. Women want to see a man’s clothes, walk, shoes, car, where he lives and on and on. She does not really want to get to know a man at all. If a female has a job making $24,000 a year or more she will date managers at work and have sex at work. You would think the Internet would be the best place to meet because you can ask a lot of questions first. I went on one sex site that charges $49.85 a month and it was the absolute worst place in the world to hook-up or talk about sex. A lot of females would email and ask why I was on a sex personals site. Duh, I am looking for sex. How is this one, I am in my 40′s and a bunch of women said I did not even look 21 and would not date me let alone have sex with me. just amzing how lame the Internet dating scene is.

You are right. Most good looking women can find sex
anywhere without going to a dating site, but have you
seen the men on those sites? Most of them are not exactly
Don Juans. Most of them are a bunch of creeps and nerds,
and no woman in her right mind would want to date them
anyway! I wouldn’t say that all the women on some dating
sites are good looking. Some of the women on Friendfinder
look like grannies. I don’t know why that is. Maybe they
want to add some realism. Everybody knows that every
women who joins a dating site is not good looking. You would
think that they would want to date anyone, but I couldn’t
even get a response from the old women. That is the reason
I am fed up with all the dating sites.

Darrel

Hey Darrel,
All is not black and white. I am an attractive (hard to say without sounding vain but..) woman and i use dating sites to (maybe) meet men. Do you know how many men are just too scared to ask a woman out in person – it’s a real problem for us. I have dated 2 men this way over the past few years, both of which were quite normal guys and we had normal relationships. They weren’t loonies and nor am I. Its just another medium to meet people and if you’re a woman who doesn’t come into contact with men in the everyday sense (or more to the point – they just assume you’re already attached!!), then it works for me, thanks.

you know i would agree but the reason there was an explosion of these sites is because craigslist personal ads were so popular and then BAM, it was also dangerous. these sites try to profit from the idea that girls want to be safe when doing anything like this….NOW….that doesnt mean there are THAT MANY girls out there like that. I would agree with a few above posts. jsut be outgoing, positive and assertive and interact. IN FACT, not many people would think of this advice but it works for me. get MALE friends, quit focusing on getting females and just be ACTIVE. remember all males have friends of their own or sisters/cousins, etc etc….and you may not necessarily get with them (thats rude!) but those girls may have girlfriends…..just build yourself a net of connections.

There are actually a few real ones maybe 4 or 5 real ones however most are fakes. Here is a site called Dating sitebuilder.com where just anyone can pay $30 per month and create an adult dating website. They even offer fake profiles to potential clients and autoresponse. Where a computer automaticly response with fake messages. The automated response usually begins 5 to 10 minuite after one signs up.

LOL! Yes there are fakes and lots of them but I have met and dated and scored with women on quite a few sites, usually after an email or 2 you can figure out if they are real or not. Also there is a thing as the phone, if I exchange a few emails it is time to speak and arrange a meeting.

Oh one of the women I met was a business owner, picked me up in a Benz and paid for the hotel we played in. Fantastic shape and beautiful.

Like anything you develop a sense of what real or not and also a strategy to “close deals”.

What site did you find women on to date? I would like to
know. Finding a real woman on a dating site is like finding
water in the desert.

Darrel

I enjoyed reading your dating article. I agree with a lot of
what you say, but I cannot say I like Lavalife and Match
doctor. It seems as though all the sites I have been on go
in two directions. You either get a lot of fake messages or
you get nothing. There are only two sites that I have
actually got dates on. Those are Friendfinder (Not Adult
Friendfinder, a terrible site!) and True, but even those
have gone to pot lately. I certainly agree with you about
friendfinder and its sister sites like Getiton, where you
end up spending your money on upgrades and get nothing!
I guess its better to go to a site that is free, so that if you
don’t get dates, at least you will not lose your money. I am
still trying to find one that will work for me, but I haven’t
yet.

Darrel

I tried most of the dating sites and got so pissed off that most where totally designed to steal your money. That I researched the software and built my own site. http://www.floridasexysingles.com/
The problem is that the only people joining are scammers and people whom are looking for free advertising. I spent around a grand for this site in space and hosting and even went to totally free down from 1 buck a month.
So I am assuming that is what these other sites are doing is creating fake profiles to get others to actually join.
I would sincerely appreciate it if some of you looking would join and check it out to see if there is some type of problem I am not seeing and let me know? I am going to try to keep it free by using banner ads for at least some revenue. So try it out no matter where you live.

Really plentyoffish really does that if you request for sex? I have met like 20 girls in person dating and some turned to serious things but just after my friend got on my phone awhile back and just said hey I’m Dan wanna have sex. I got all these nasty messages back . I don’t get any messages back Lmao .

well in order to prove that they are legitimate they should have their members with real names n profiles state that they have had a actual encounter from using their site and if more people are having wonderful encounters it would give us less of a headache and filter out all these fake sites that’s out their because honestly my pocket cant handle it.

Actually there are NO real dating sites. There are companies that produce these sites and I found one. It’s called http://www.datingsitebuilder.com People put down $29.95 or more depending on the plan and they get their own dating site complete with thousands of phony profiles and a computer response to members. There are no real dating sites because it would be imposible too start one. No one would put down $50 per month to chat with 6 people.

I aggree with most of these comments, i’m on 9 adult sites wich all i want is casual sex and these site are crystal clear that you’re here to meet other people for either casual or ongoing sex. No relationship, no dating toward a relationship, purely sex most women i meet are either single or in a relationship as well couples. They’re so many of cheating wives that’s unbelievable. It’s getting ridiculous that the only way to meet other women is to leave your own province or travel at least a good 100 miles just to meet up. I would like at least 1 site that can garantee that they’re real and will garanteed that you’re going to laid in a period of time not that BS like AFF wich you have to post blogs, reply to articles just to be eligible for the 3months free if you don’t get laid. The bar remains the only option but who wants to stay at a bar for a couple of hours with music blaring like crazy and yelling each other in the ear just to have a simple conversation. Very frustrating for the men who just want simple casual sex without the relationship drama and headgame.

Yes I run an adult dating website called Wink2Play and I use my own services too and I have had alot of fun sign up and try it out, thats all the advice I can give same with any adult dating site out there if you dont give it a go then you’l never know.

Hello… Im glad i can make a comment on this issue… Im a 54 years old Filipinoa who wanted to meet someone sing those datings sites.. but unfortunately… the men I chatted with are either scammers or just want to play…I want to meet a serious man… but I think its really hard to find…Right now… Im tired of those dating sites…Is there still a man whom I can trust?

i saw this add when looking for a dating website and went to lavalife.com and although people use and talk on there if your not from canada or upper united states dont bother. every female that responded and that was active on the site was from canada it seemed. a few scattered here and there for the united states. oh and the age group, it was mostly cougars to hardly anyone under 33 years of age.

I was a member of gay sexyads which is deceitful there basicallya bi and hetero I met one guy in 3 years ..not worth the effort to join

I have found the same as most and dont need to rely on a dating site but its all a bait and switch. You can tell the real females from the fake ones….cuz damn! All internet scam b.s. trying to keep alot of hard d@#ks hoping for maybe…just maybe that chance to get with the hotties halfway around the country who tell em how they wanna play. I told this girl from vegas(if it was a girl) that my unit wasnt big enough to reach her from florida. If she was real, then I`m a frickin awsome profile writer cuz I didnt download any pics and she thought I was hot! Sometimes I wish I was gay cuz It would likely be easier to have that casual encounter with another penis carrying member of society. Only men think like this. If you have a vagina and are even a little cute you have a key to the city. Its not easy for guys having to deal with what our units are capable of making us do. One pic of a hottie taking a …..can trigger days of chronic masturbation and obsessive thoughts that ultimately usually end in……yep more masturbation. Maybe its just me. All this talk has made want to go cruise some porn sites and look at s#$t that will never happen in my life time. I`m good but not that good!

alot of sites rip you off and cost money too. But I personally do not believe they are a total waste either. I never met women in bars. It will also cost you alot of money to date women there. No woman is going to bed with a man on first date, hence it could take four or five a ton of money too. The same as a six month subsription and you do not have to leave your room to chat with someone. The site is good for both married men and women. Negatives: single males do poorly since there are 13 males to every female. Hot broads are usually fakes getting you to upgrade and pay more for another package. Few people even show faces? sex with someone you cannot even see?

contrary to this review Adultfriendfinder is still the best because it has the largest database alot more profiles. There is some fraud to all of them…John

adultfriendfinder is fake. Stay away from there. Its full of bots.

Hi after readinG the comments here i feel i should add an experience to this, I was on a dating site and i started talking with a lady on there and we got on really well that was 7 months ago and even though there is over 3000 miles between us we have meet up twice for a few days each time and we are NOW firm friends and lovers and we are BOTh working towards re-locating to be together, yes it is BLOOMING hard at times but with friendship and care you can MAKE it. even on normal dating sites remember the old addage…………………..
IF IT LOOKS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE ……. IT PROBABLY IS !!!
yes i understand that you are looking for a YOUNGER woman and yes i am older than my lover (13 yrs) but we became FRIENDS first as i never even looked at younger women when i did my searching just that my significant other read my profile and liked it and believe you me i was very suspicous and wary when we first started talking.
If it is NSA MEETS you are after the contact mags for your local area are more use to you as the majority are honest on what they want and want too get.
Good luck as i was very very lucky too find a beautiful to me Lady
i will give you the name of the site we meet on but it is full of scammers and fake profiles.

After reading all the comment I have to agree, dont waste your time and pay alot of money just for fakes to msg you.
Personally I’ve had success on POF.com. met, dated, got laid quite a few times. there are some fakes on there, but most are real. And most of the girls I’ve banged from POF they’re profile says “dating” “friendship” or “hangout” its hit and miss, but I’ve gotten alot of good ass from that site so I guess I can’t complain too much about POF.

GUYS THE FAKE PROFILES THING IS SO MUCH MORE MESSED UP THAN YOU COULD EVEN IMAGINE!

I thought it was wrong on the highest moral level when all I thought they were doing was tricking and baiting us in with fake profiles to membership revenue..That doesn’t even make me all that mad anymore when you find out the full extent of it…
HERE IS PERFECT SUMMARY OF IT LISTED IN XXXBOOK.COM TERMS: (“Online Emissary” is their way of wording “Fake Person”)

“14.7 You also hereby expressly authorize all data in Your profile and all other data regarding Your use of xxxbookcom.com to be used in and in association with Research’s™ Online Emissary™ Features, including, for example, to provide introductions to other xxxbookcom.com Members, introductions to other real and factious persons, including those in other dating services. To assist xxxbookcom.com in the formulation and transmission of communications to You, and to enable xxxbookcom.com or a third party in the creation and use of one or more Online Emissaries based on, acting as, or representing, You.”

THE FACT THESE SITES COULD BE USING MY IMAGE AS ONE OF THESE FAKE PROFILES THAT IS OUT THERE DECEIVING PEOPLE AND GENERATING MONEY FOR THEM MAKES ME ANGRY ON A LEVEL WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE.

THE THING IS, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE SITES SELLS YOUR IMAGE TO BE USED ON ANY 3rd PARTY SITE SITE THAT WANTS TO BUY IT. EVEN IF YOU ONLY EVER MADE A P.O.F. ACCOUNT FOR DATING, THERE IS A VERY GOOD POSSIBILITY YOU’RE NOW ALSO “HuNgBiG4U” IN ANY RANDOM CITY YOU CAN THINK OF.

THERE ARE LAWS IN PLACE HOWEVER THAT CAN HELP YOU:
Applicable Privacy Laws allows any individual the right to request the omission of their personal information that is in their custody or under their control and how personal information under their control has been used.

Yea,I agree with the majority of you guys,so DEFINETELY stay away from CitySex and Xdating and I-Hookup.You’ll get a ton of mail but hardly any of them answer your questions or acknowledge any personal things about you in your profile.I can’t believe in this day and age that these slimy lowlives can get away with this.It’s fraudulent at the very least so I’ve concluded that these money stealing crooks are all from Washington.D.C. Let’s face it,we all signed up to get F***ed and we definetely did but not the way we wanted.Alot of sites say if you don’t get laid in the first 3 months,they’ll give you another 3 months for free,gee,I wasted 3 months on fake BS and still had to masturbate and now they want me to waste 3 more. Well I’m sorry but if I have to go 3 more months ,I’ll have to sue them for carpal tunnel in my left hand.There damn well has to be something that we collectively can do against these crooked bastards.Thanks for letting me vent and good luck to all.

There is no law on the Internet. You can get away with anything . There are more than two billion people on the web which makes it the largest “country” in the world. China is only 1.7 billion. The amount of money to be made deceitfully is staggering to the imagination. This is the last sea of piracy and it is going to happen to us all. Good luck to you all … I will probably die masturbating and some woman will have missed a really great time.

Dont know if any of you have heard of untrue.com or not but it is full of fakes as well peoples location change frequintly and there are many profiles witj pics of the same people, and I think they might have computeized profiles or wide spread messeges from fakes because I was getting messages from ladies that read: your so hot and other things about my appearance before I jad even uploaded a photo! And the membershkp is reoccoring amd the only way to stop it is by comtacting customer service, so if you were to overlook that when you signed up and decoded you diddmt wamt to renew your membership and they renewed it amyway you would not get a refunt, do not use.untrue.com!

If you read the fine print for most of the sites you will find that they actually have paid employees to “lure” you in. It is meant to initiate contact and also make you feel you have a chance in their site. When you sign up you find that there is hardly anyone on the sites and you just got tricked into signing up by an employee. They don’t think anyone will read their license agreements and terms of service (which 99 times out of 100 that is true) so they put it there for you to miss. They send false invitations, talk to you for a few email and chat sessions, then leave you. Do not be fooled and make sure to read the terms. If you see that this is a term of service, then leave the site immediately as it is a scam site.

I HAVE READ ALLL OF THE ABOVE COMMENTS AND ITS LIKE A GAMBLE PRETTY MUCH. I STARTED OUT NET DATING IN 2008, IVE HAD INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS FROM FLING, HORNYMATCHES, AFF, AND POF. MAYBE IT HAS ALOT TO DO WITH LOCATION. ALL OF THE MEN I MET USUALLY SAY THE SAME THINGS…. “I DIDNT THINK THIS SITE WAS REAL” AT ANY RATE, 80% OF THE MEN I MET ON THESE SITES I WOULD MEET WITH AGAIN FOR THE INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS. LIKE I SAID I THINK IT HAS ALOT TO DO WITH LOCATION AND IF PPL ARE ACTIVELY SEARCHING IN UR AREAREA. I MET BUISSNESS MEN WHO HAD LITTLE TIME FOR FACE TO FACE DATING, AND THE OTHER HALF WERE MEN WHO JUST LIKED THE FACT OF ACTUALLY MEETING ATTRACTIVE.WOMEN AND HOOKING UP WITH THEM. THE ONLY BAD EXP I HAVE HAD WITH THIS IS MEETING MEN FROM CHATLINES I.E. QUEST AND A FEW OTHERS.

what a ripoff.i tried adult fineder and xdating and relised real fast that it was a money making scam.i email hunderds of women on thes site and got no responce after paying to get on site.i’m not a nerd or loser,nice looking,and i get no responce.i finelly emailed on women a hatefull email to get a responce .i got email saying she liked me. come on

Ha, BrittnGA, you might be the only real person that responds on those sites. And by the way, what location are you in that’s so teeming with legitimate casual encounter seekers?

Regardless of how many positive qualities one possesses, if you’re a 42-year-old male who doesn’t make enough money to afford the kind of lifestyle most women desire, you’re destined to live out the rest of your life alone.

Even the ugly and obese women don’t want to have anything to do with you.

I cannot complain about the women who want this because, in all fairness, it is important to be able to show that you, as a man, can provide for them (financially) and any potential offspring she may want to have with you someday.

And people think I’m crazy for frequenting Asian massage parlors or enjoying an occasional paid-for sexual experience.

serusly tho what do u do when ur so ready to move forward in ur life but girls around u wont stop acting like kids going for thoz tipcle jock tipes

I’ve joined a few adult dating sites and they all have fake profiles. Some more than others. I don’t want to pay $30 per month to have a bunch of crap profiles emailed to me. The latest site I joined is http://adolto.com, specifically because they claim to have no fake profiles and they charge way less. I guess time will tell if this is a con also.

I have or am a member (some paying, some free) of aff, xxxmatch, untrue, fling, be naughty, blackfling, lonely wifes club, discreet adventures and a few more I cant think of right now. Most of the profiles are fake in that they arent even real people and many others are real people but dont look like their pics or never intend to meet in the first place. I have had a little success from aff and xxxmatch. I am chatting now(these past few days) with a beautiful girl on her webcam. She is for real! I have met several others. I have sent countless emails, flits, friend request, etc. There is limited success to be had, but dont expect instant results! They arent join today get laid tonight sites for the most part as they say they are. The girls might get that but the guys dont, lol. 10 times more guys than girls!

I AM NEW TO WEB SITE DATING.I’VE BEEN RESEARCHING SOME OF THESE WEB-SITES.I’VE SIGNED UP WITH ALOT OF THEM,BUT HAVE NOT COMITTED TO ANY OF THEM.I JUST FOUND IT HARD TO BELIVE THAT SOME OF THESE MATCHES WHERE TO GOOD TO BE TRUE.I AM REALLY SCARED NOW TO SIGN UP AFTER READING EVERYBODYS COMMENTS.I WAS JUST LOOKING FOR FRIENDS TO CHAT WITH,PEOPLE WHO JUST WANTED TO TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.IF SOMETHING HAPPENED, FINE,IF NOT, FINE….DOES ANYBODY HAVE ANY SUGGUSTIONS?

Most of those sites, and also the ‘alternative’ dating ones are choked with scammers….not me, or any of my pals, have EVER gotten ANYTHING from them…and thats over a 12 yr period. My MATCH was right in front of me..at a local tennis club, doing the same thing i like to do (like interests)

I agree with most the comments here. The only non-scam adult dating site I’ve found is http://www.abitbigger.com, but it doesn’t have many members and if you’re a guy then you have to be well hung. It is completely free though, in fact there is no option to hand over any money and it appears to just rely on advertising. I haven’t seen any fake profiles either. All it needs is more women.

POF is a site I would recommend. I meet several women from there, granted a few were creepers but they were real. It also seems like everyone expects to.pick up a date the day they sign on to these sites. It took me awhile to finely meet the first girl and its something u have to work at. Yeah there are fake profiles and stuff and it seems all those are easy to spot. The ones that sound to good to be true are usually just that. AFF was somewhat successful for me but there are a lot of scanners there, I think I meet like three girls off that site in about 6 months time and a buddy of mine meet a few in about the same 6 months. I’m the one that showed him the site and its actually pretty expensive.

Needless to say I am hopefully with the girl that I will spend the rest of eternity on this God forsaken earth and I met her off of POF!

It is like everything else in the last 30 years of rampant deregulation. Even though these “businesses” are on the essentially unregulated internet, they still have physical offices somewhere with real employess and they still receive pay for “services”, which means they would have been busted for outright FRAUD and a host of other felony and misdemeanor offenses BEFORE the days of deregulation of business. Now thanks to all of you “Free” Market, never regulate, never tax business interest types, WE ARE ALL REAPING THE BITTER WHIRLWIND OF YOUR SELFISH LIBERTARIAN PHILOSOPHY. This is only the tip of the iceberg, since that same “Free” Market, “Free” Trade, anti-regulation, anti-taxation (of the rich that is), anarchist economic Darwinian philosophy has destroyed our American workforce, cost many families their homes to bank foreclosures, destroyed our beautiful Gulf of Mexico (BP), caused huge public paid for Wall Street bailouts, wars for profit, etc., etc., etc. WELCOME TO THE TRIUMPH OF GREED AND FRAUD OVER HONESTY, INTEGRITY, AND LEGITIMATE GOVERNMENT TO PROTECT SOCIETY FROM THESE THIEVES!!!

fling is a fake site i was a member but all the ppl that would talk to me or that showed thy were in my part of the state were online cupids

LOL.!! Even the scammers from fake dating sites are advertising about how “REAL” their sites are on a page about fake dating sites. Very comical!!! LOOK!! PEOPLE. IT’S VERY SIMPLE. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS THIS……….SIMPLY TYPE IN THE NAME OF THE DATING SITE AND PUT A / SCAM BEHIND IT AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS. HERE IS AN EXAMPLE: http://WWW.MATCH.COM/SCAM OR PUT IT INTO A QUESTION. EXAMPLE: IS MATCH.COM A SCAM?

OH BY THE WAY. NEVER,NEVER,NEVER, USE YOUR CREDIT CARD ON ANY OF THESE SITES…..NEVER!!!!!!!!! ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GO TO A WAL-MART SUPER CENTER, AND I KNOW YOU LIVE NEAR ONE, PICK UP A MONEY CARD, PUT SOME MONEY ($20.00 & UP) THEN JOIN ONE OF THE FAKE SITES. THIS WAY WHEN YOU HATE THE SITE, AND YOU WILL, THE CARD WILL BE “DEAD” AND THEY CAN’T RECHARGE YOU BECAUSE IT IS NOT CONNECTED TO ANY OF YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS. IT’S JUST THAT SIMPLE. TRY IT!!! IT WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi,

Well let me start by saying I agree with a lot of what is said above. It is very dificult when starting a new dating site. Until you are popular it is hard to have other users that are local to other potentil users and so those potential users wont sign up so it. Its a catch 22 situation – you need the volume of existing users to appeal to new users, so how do you ever get started? Well at tickle-my-fancy our premis is offering an adult dating/ social networking platform for a much reduced price. We have typical features – chat, editing profiles, looking for, videos etc etc but we offer monthly membership for $10 total. Period. No additionally charged premium features. We are new and have over 1000 members so far and are constantly growing. Our ethos will remain the same – dating for less. We do not pretend to be free. Users can create an account for free and have a look around – but we are very low cost. Our mission statement is to be THE CHEAPEST and THE BEST.

Lavalife definitely worked for me too. Intimate section for play… Dating section for the nice guys!

I was just inputting my details into Mature Dating UK and received notification of a message from a girl not far from me. Odd I thought but decided to look at her profile…it said she was a non-smoker but in her profile picture there’s an ashtray right by her side and she doesn’t wear glasses, apparently. Most peculiar because the picture I’m looking at has a Doris with specs on Deenis Taylor would be proud of. Come On! If you’re going to try and fool someone at least make it believeable.

http://www.collarme.com
free, easy to use, lot of people on there

this is free site.with sum success .
http://www.fabswingers.com
you only pay a small fee for upgrades only if you want that which i dont use
and like someone above says..as its free and you get fakes timewasters etc you got nothing to lose

I used http://www.casualsex.co.uk for a while and was pretty happy with it. I guess on many of these sites some of the profiles are out of date which can be a pain but I still managed to find a few girls on here and went out with a few (with varying degrees of success but that’s another story).

Hope that helps

@Giovanni: You’re wrong. My girlfriend and I met on a dating site and we are both very happy. We are both attractive and very in shape successful people. We work very hard and have busy lives so we went online…oh and to your argument that they are paid actors…Ive been in two commercials now…so…yeah, sorry you must of had a bad experience. Best of luck

Key is, be selective, have fun and dont be too vested into any of it…again…have fun!

They are 99% scams very few women are actually on these sites fact if u wnt to find a woman join a serious dating site like zoosk and ul meet women

aff pof seekbuddie be naughty all rubbish i ahve dozens of mates who hav givin in joinin thse sites onlyy one has work and taht was pof afte 6 month membership and he got with a total munter

I have tried Match.com for two weeks and have to admit that
I should have paid attention to all the bad review I read
from consumers which were huge.
The company lures you in before joining with so called flirts,
email, etc., from members. Unfortunately, this is all a
scam. The majority of the flirts I received were thousands
of miles from where I live, not paid members and some
fake profiles. I live in British Columbia, Canada and many
of the bad reviews from 2012 were from British Columbia.
The old saying a fool and his/her money are easily parted,
well, that is true.
Do not waste your time or money on this site, it sucks.

Noreen Hardy
surrey, British Columbia
Canada

C’mon people. There are definately real dating site uot there but one myst be honest with oneself. first of all no WOMAN will go on a site and have SEX with you after an IM. Just diesnt happen unless money is involved. That being said, if you are confident in your presentation and dont look like a nightmare then you should have no problem. If you are but ugly and epecting sex….then the 90% of the internet is for you. I have enjoyed and met many women on a few different site in the past…match is real, lavalofe is also. Sure they use models to advertise, who doesnt these days, doesnt mean they are not legit or are fake. Look in the mirror, question your true intentions, be honest with yourself and girls will respond, as long as you hunt “WITHIN YOUR LEVEL” dont chase models and wonder why you are still single. Cheers mates!!

I have been looking for a while to join an Adult dating site which caters for all..as most sites seem to be filled with scammers and fake profiles . I came across a pretty new website that seems to be doing well..www.singleandfun.com. I decided not to judge the book by its cover as it did not have those flashy beautiful girls on the front page, but real profiles. they dont have lots of people like AFF profiles as its pretty new, but members seem to be replying emails and online..wow.. that’s something that takes a while with other sites.. .
I think the site has potencial as its dealing with only personals from the US.. finally i dont have to deal with people asking me for money lol..this is something that i have been waiting for….

Hey guys I read all of these and I’ve signed up to most of these sites and more and can confirm they all pretty much suck, I have found one, just one that is completely free although they do advertise for sites that aren’t. There aren’t a lot of members but there is enough, although there are a few scams but if you join you’ll realize it’s only the same few pics over and over again for scams. This site is a little bit more for people into fetishes though, anywhere from normal to creepy but I figured I’d see if anyone wanted to try it, it’s babblesex.com and if you think this is just more spam just remember you’ve tried plenty others that didn’t work and this one is completely free so what’s the harm in trying? Hope this helps and if anyone finds another please post. Best of luck to you all

I think it is very important to remember why you are joining a dating website in the first place. If you are looking for something casual then perhaps your expectations will not be that high. If though you are looking to establish a serious relationship the just in a face-to-face style of meeting it is going to take some time and will not be able to be done in a week.

WOW SEE THAT’S THE PROBLEM WITH DESPERATE MEN, YOU NEVER EVER ADMIT TO A GIRL THAT YOU LIKE’EM UNTIL YOU’VE PLAYED THE GAME RIGHT AND HAVE HAD THEM FALL FOR YOU. BUT REMEMBER THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISHES IN THE SEA. OPTION 2 IS THE DESPERATE MEN SHOULD ALSO CHANGE THEIR APPEARANCE TO LOOK LIKE MICHAEL JACKSON,ZAC EFRON, JUSTIN BIEBER, ETC…. AND PLAY REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY, HAVE THE WOMEN AFTER YOU INSTEAD OF YOU GOING AFTER THEM. EVEN THOUGH A WOMAN WANTS YOU ALWAYS PLAY HARD TO GET.

I know of a great website that just started. It is safe and interactive. I have had a great experience with it. The name is http://www.iknowyoureoutthere.com

I know you’re out there, which is a cool name and literally describes what I feel. They just started but it is already working for me.

I have had success with AdultFriendfinder…..and didnt pay a dime…met the women through a local group chat on there….and I have had success at POF

Hi there, I read your new stuff daily. Your humoristic style is awesome, keep it up!

Thanks for every other informative site. Where else could I
get that kind of info written in such a perfect way? I have a mission that I am simply now running on, and I’ve been on the glance out for such information.

There are still some good adult dating sites. There is this new one that just popped up called xotiq.co.cc.

Ay, yall better stick to myspace if you’re looking for some online loving LMAOOOOO

There is a brand new site that just popped up called Xotiq. This is an adult dating site where you can find people near you and even internationally to chat with. You can exchange pics, flirt, and even have a little fun. You can meet exotic people in your area.

I’ve been on these sites for a few years now with some really nice encounters and friendships produced. Started with Yahoo personals, Kijiji and Craigslist, POF and yes…. I was suckered into the paid ones and fake ones like so many of you have already mentioned.
POF has been the most successful to date but you have to build two profiles on it. One for Intimate Encounters and the other, put either Dating or Long Term. Put your picture on one but not the other and you will notice if you read carefully, many women have done the same thing. With two different pages, you won’t be blocked from sending a message to an old fashioned woman, you will send her that message from your Dating page.
Most women really want to see Dating or Long Term…..I had the most torrid, satisfying and enduring encounters with a nurse who put how devote she was in her faith and that she would never go to bed with anyone who wasn’t her husband and that she really wanted to get married again, etc, etc, etc.. OMG, she was great.
The key to these free sites working for you is to be patient and communicative with the women. It may take months of messages and showing that you have not forgotten them for them to finally agree to meet you. Be a gentleman and a positive communicator, kiss them on the cheek tenderly and you will have them in no time at all. Many women I have talked to complain that men are pigs, jump right into sex talk and are all Romin Hands and Russin Fingers.
Guys, the time for that will come and I promise you, you will complain about how sore you D**k is when she finally opens her bedroom door to you, but be a gentleman first and foremost, and that helps these free sites work. They are only an “introductory to a stranger” mechanism, the rest is up to you. (cont’d)

(cont’d from pg 1)
One more thought if I may……
I have met and been with all shapes and legal ages (some pretty, some really not) BUT…..if you ask yourself honestly and answer yourself honestly……are you the most handsome Co*k in the barnyard at your age?? Does this really matter when you are in her bed, watching her moan and grip the headboard……and YOU are the one causing this to become????? No greater thrill is it for a man than to pleasure the woman and watch and hear it all, front row seat if you will.
I mention the above in support of using the free sites that are available and yet to be invented, along with doing your grocery shopping at 530pm weekdays, take your time and dress and smell nice….the old ways still work guys…..trust me.

Excellent pieces. Keep posting such kind of info on your
page. Im really impressed by your site.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on adult dating sites.
Regards

I’ve been on 12 dating sites (most of them mentioned), and i’ve been scammed, deceived, lied to and been totally sexually frustrated .What a waste of time and money! Since then I’ve increased my workouts, and started taking better care of myself, and getting better noticed in public. Who needs this chatting, winking, viewing, teasing, bull***t. How pathetic. I’d rather meet live breathing real women.

This is a legitimate site where you can meet people from all nationalities for free. Maybe someone is there that you could click with. Give it a try. I did.

We have a totally free website which need’s to have the word spread about it.

It’s called http://www.flirthut.com.

Please check it out and add it to the list if possible. We have been around for a year now and going strong ! But need to get more members especially women.

We are currently working on a better version on the site which will be ready at the end of the year.

Does any one have coments about Ashley Madison. I am considering joining this site.

Yes there are loads of fake sites out there full of fake profiles and bots etc. We are just starting and haven’t quite finished our site yet, but we are not using any of the above. We are working very hard to make a better casual sex/dating site. Our site is free at the moment as it is still under construction but we are welcoming people to sign up and have a look around. We welcome any comments and/or suggestions you may have.

I was widowed 8 years ago and after four years I tried online dating. I was being optomistic about meeting like minded people. However I now know why children and youth are warned continually about the dangers of meeting strangers online.

This same rule applies to adults. I think adults think that they are not vunderable, they can’t be coned, lied to, manipulated, played with, taken advantage of sexually, money etc. by profiles on dating sites and the dating site companies.

I took great care and consideration with my profiles, my pictures, my search and responses. I tired Lava Life, Mate One, E-Harmony, Match.com, and a few others. I met a few men that lied about their age, intent, some were actually married. Some never exsisted and or did not show up for dates. Several were scum con men from Nigeria etc. I had to take widowed off because that seemed to be a target for cons and very undesirable men. It did cost me emotionally and financially for memberships. Two men I had dated and were interested in wanted a woman for sex only and a women to be support/pay their way (male hookers instead of the nice term gigolo).

Once I decide to go off line I felt better about myself, and more positive about dating and meeting a real, healthy, great guy.

No more online for me. I want to meet people in person, see the whites of their eyes(as eyes are the window of the soul), hear their words and read their body language. So I am still optomistic to find true love in Calgary, Alberta. I drive a 2012 Race Red, Hard Top Mustang. I am Selective, Sincere, Careful, and A Classic Woman Just Like My Mustang Car Good Luck To Find Real and True Love

Cheers, Ms Optomistic

Ha!! I gave up HOPE. Please be on your GUARD. There are just TOO MANY FAKE PROFILES out there…. I was made a fool of not once or twice, but three FUDGING TIMES!!!

I was talking to this guy on and off on the BADOO website (say he’s called JOHN) for a good 6 months…. the pics were gorgeous, he said all the right things etc… and during a picture exchange a few days ago…. i uncovered the lies…. after searching on his email address on facebook, out popped up a fake profile of a girl…. after doing a bit more digging… i found the real ”JOHN”… different name, age, location etc… He obviously didn’t know someone had stolen his pictures etc.

So upset…… But then again, it’s my fault for trusting a total stranger….

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Ok so i just searched legit adult dating sites and ive come to the conclusion that theyre obviously all fakes but not necessarily that just the amount of profiles.. anyways im 25 yr old athletic good looking male and i dont need to use these sites to get laid once in awhile but it is hard to find some new women on them and then it hit me one day.. ive been on the right site but also all the wrong ones.. you dont want to use any sex matching site, all the women are on regular friendship sites.. the one i use most and always works for me me is meetme.com similar to facebook but i use it seperatley for more discretion and ive hooked up with more women then adult friend finder which worked once for me but wasnt enuff that i cancelled it.. trust me fellas, women are stuck up they are “too good” for adult sites. .go to meetme.com, or facebook or anything of the lik e and just use the regular sites its all about being able to TALK to them, tell em what they want to hear and if neither of u are looking for some seriousness then ur golden just steer the ship in the right direction

There’s also a site that I use personally called tagged.com, its always worked for me and its kinda like meetme.com. u don’t have to pay a dime to use it and u get to send and receive as many messages as u want, view every profile, send friend request… the works. There is a V.I.P. that u can pay for but its optional, all it does is let u see if the ppl that u sent messages to have read them or not and a few other things. I haven’t payed for the V.I.P. cuz u don’t really need it. I think y’all should try it out if anything. It does have its share of fake profiles on there but if u been on dating websites b4 then u know what they look like just by either looking at there username or profile pic. Give it a try, I’ve been using it since 2007 and met numerous ppl from this site. Hope this helps!

I can teell you not to go localcheaters.com one time a woman can be right down the road from you and next week she 2000 miloes away I spent several months on this siye at different times and out of over 3hundred and eighty some messages sent I never got one reply

HI all . Why not use this place ? I am also tired of all these spam mails and sites. I am just a normal man 25 years, looking to have some fun . If some one is interested let me know .. I am from NYC. Hope this atleast works

Internet dating has been good to me. Why? I’m a big guy, with a few rough marks, and obvious military experience. Read architypal germanic warrior. Something you can’t be these days.

The internet allows me to express myself through writing, which I am very good at. I NEVER do pictures. I simply say: Why don’t we arrange things so you can get a good look at me without me knowing who you are? Perhaps a public library? I’ve only had one woman take me up on this, and yup I never heard from her again. But usually the subject of pictures just gets forgotten and we actually begin a relationship through writing. By the time we meet in person she has a very accurate idea of who I am inside and has, in at least one case, begun to have feelings for me. I feel as if I am allowed to ‘speak my piece’, as it were, on the internet where I am never allowed to when brutish appearance is a factor.

OK guys & gals. My wife of 18 yrs “come July 2012″, & I met using the personal ads of a news paper. She answered my ad and we talked on the phone for 3 weeks before we met. I was up front with her and told her I was dating from the ads, I did not tell her I had met over 40 women in two weeks. I did however tell her she was number 13 that I actually met more than once. Most either I did not contact a second time or they did not answer when I called them a second time. Lucky for me I got to know this woman for three weeks before we met, because I was not what she was looking for at all & I was looking to get laid. We had described ourselves over the phone & despite the fact that I was tall dark & handsome, lmao, she agreed to meet with me because she liked our conversations. We dated for about a year & then married. All thanks to the personal ads in the news paper. Oh, & did I mention out of the 13 women I met, I got laid 4 times in three weeks. Yes I know I am a slut so sue me.
LJ

I signed up for a few in my time and had varying degrees of success. I think you need to take the whole thing with a pinch of salt as almost all of the sites use at least some window dressing to get you hooked in.

There are some really basic sites (sorry I can’t remember any names) that are entirely legit but, the simple fact is, they have too few profiles.

The last site I used was f***tonight.co.uk so you can imagine the frame of mind I was in when I googled that one

I did ok on that site though and met a couple girls so I know at least some of them must be real. I think the golden rule is ‘If a profile looks too good to be true, it probably is’. Just look for the ones who look like real girls and only part with your hard-earned cash if that’s the case. If it says there is a supermodel living in your street who is desperate to get it on with a guy like you, exercise caution.

You can definitely meet girls on these sites if you don’t get sucked in and use some common sense.

After reading everyone’s comments, and taking into consideration my experiences from online dating … maybe you’re looking for NSA on the wrong sites, there are women who aren’t looking for a relationship or commitment — I had never even heard of “Adult Dating Sites” and I’m 49yr old. There are women that have strong sex drives that enjoy the company of a man …especially after being married for 21yrs. I’ve been on free sites, and on paid sites. I even had a great FWB relationship with a 33yr old for 4 months — he approaches me in a email & I appreciated his honesty. We talked & texted for a month because I was dating another man at the time. We became good friends, and when we met we had amazing chemistry. I don’t look my age & it’s probably why I’m approached by younger men all the time. But I’ve dated a wide range. Don’t loose hope ….

Peace Out

D

First I have to say I agree with Goulash-2. I am more than happy to get down and dirty, but let’s play nice for a minute first. I certainly want a relationship, but there are times where I will happily toss that over.

Also….I have been on dating sites for years. Without much luck. I have to assume I am not the best looking out there. Meet people in person? Would love to! I just don’t meet people when I am out and about. So…yea, I am not real successful. BUmmer for me.

Don’t waste your money or time on Adult Match Doctor and Adult Friend Finder. I got zero results. It’s all hype and no action.

I have been looking for a dating site where the guys are not looking for just sex, not because I dont want it or cant have sex, but moreso to find love and not a piece. I have been let down so many times because that is what 96.9% of guys want. I live in a small town and the selection is, lets just say, less than appealing. That is the reason why I have searched beyond my means into the curious world of online dating. Whether in person or online, I have been proven right with the males wanting sex only. Pathetic, I am a beautiful 28yr old woman who has her stuff together and knows what she wants and I can’t even find a real person with morals. I understand why people turn gay. That is why nice guys finish last, cause the real good girls get thrown in the mix with all of the other sex crazed materialistic females. This is a shame, I have such beauty to give and no one to share it with.

Where do you live?

All the negatives that have been reported on dating sites are true.
There will always be a few genuine women on the site, but most will be fake.

I have tried many sites and you see the same photos of women who apparently have different names, ages, all with varying characteristics, and locations hundreds of miles apart.

It is a shame, the opportunity to bring people together has been wasted by greedy, lying, cheating people. For males these sites are completely pointless, once you have picked your way through all the fake women, you are then faced with competing with thousands of men chasing only a few women.

I’ve been to this one and it has a more classy feel to it than your average sleazy adult dating websites. It has a beautiful woman (Classy, done tastefully) laying on a gorgeous velvet couch in thigh highs and beautiful classy lingerie. It has a certain rich feel to it, like a great glass of red wine. As with most other tasteless adult dating sites, have a cheap, trashy look to them. This was eye-popping candy as soon as you hit the landing page @ http://www.VampirePalace.com

This site has 1000′s of people all over the world and what’s really good about it, is they have different levels…so if you don’t feel that comfortable with the full on XXX, within the same site it offers some Sexy (showing a little) to more normal type profiles in case you don’t want to get that crazy right out the gate…LOL!

What I liked about this site was there is truly something for everyone there to match your own comfort level, sometimes some may just want to ease into it, while others may want a more in your face XXX. And this is why I like this place, it had something to offer everyone! Subtle to Kinky.

My recommendation is that you try it: http://www.VampirePalace.com

PS. It’s totally FREE to join, I liked this too so I could check it out first.

All of the sites are scams designed to take money from lonely people.

I don’t know if women are treated differently but these sites don’t show any ‘active’ women in your area, you get messages (which you can’t answer unless you ‘upgrade’) from women far from your area which are never answered, etc. etc. etc.

Total scams. If you are desperate for female companionship, you WON’T find any on these sites.

Try adultspace its 100% free and ive met a few ppl off of there

stay away from UnTrue.com

They are total scams. Before you join there are lots of women near you. Once you join, suddenly they have not been on line for 3 months or more. You get messages from women from far away but none from local women and no one responds to your messages.

Is all a total scam and I doubt there are any women on those sites (except possibly for those working for the site)!

I’m gone to say to my little brother, that he should also visit this weblog on regular basis to take updated from latest information.

I dont think there is a such thing as a free adult dating webiste or a free casual dating website. Regular ones like ok cupid or date hookup, sure, they are real and the members on there are real too. I met someone from there who iv recently had a relationship with(ok cupid) and on datehookup i personally know know one of the members on there. Those two are regular dating sites that are 100% free except ok cupid has a new feature requiring you to upgrade if you want to use the extra features but finding a totally 100% free adult dating sites is alot more harder altogether, i myself am still looking for one.

I hate randomly meeting someone online, but I guess I was hoping for love at first sight. Its just everyone I come across is interested in sex. Im interested in someone who I wouldn’t even kiss till the third date. Im only 20, maybe I’m just dreaming and living false hopes in the wrong ERA.

Confirming that Fling is a fake scam site.

I’ve personally had some success on okcupid. Haven’t met anyone in person through the site, but at least I actually talked to a few real people. Something that’s increasingly rare on dating sites.

Currently I’m messing around on plenty of fish and I’m rather disappointed. The place is FULL of transsexuals and prostitutes who post their services and prices in their profile. I sympathies that TG’s need love too, but on POF they’re blatantly dishonest about it.

How can anyone say that there aren’t any women online looking for sex. I mean, there are just as many women using the internet. Millions! And none of them are looking for hookups? Maybe your standards are a little too high guys. I use dating sites and see tons of girls. Sure, they’re not super models, but neither are most of you.

I just think it all depends on the way you look because I have been on pof is for about 7 months and I’ve already been with about 10 women on there I’m not gonna say their models but they were penetrate able

I’ve been online dating for many years and here’s what I can say about men looking for sex… most women would be open to it, but you have to show that you have some friendship qualities too. I’ve had guys suggest sex on the first coffee date and that’s a real turn off to a woman. Even if we wanted sex too – we want to be treated like real human beings – not a piece of meat.

I’m one of those real women who would reach out to a man on a dating site and suggest meeting for a coffee if I was interested – without a lot of unnecessary emailing. So real women do exist out there – it’s just that so many men don’t know what to do with us once you meet us. They don’t know how to court a woman, so she does want to be with you. It’s very sad. Then men complain that women don’t want to have sex. I think they need to look within. We need to trust who we’re with. Success lies in the ability to treat a woman well. Like a flower that will eventually blossom – if you are interested in a woman as a person, and are sincere – it will pay off. Just don’t be a bull in a china shop about it.

- Starpepper

Online dating has worked for me, I am still a memebr there, joined 7 month a go and had sex 4 times only, but seems the women there only want one time only whilst I wanted it regular. NEVER email the pretty woman cos you wont get an email or have any chance as its fake most likely but FOCUS your attention on the less pretty ones and fat ones to and also with no pictures on, the reason I think I had sucess is cos it depends how much time you put into the site, like I am using it all day mostly and jsut sending out the same messages and usuallly after every 24 emails you get 1 reply, the hunt still continues……. adios xx..

Dating site Ponzi scheme

Yes I have try serveal Dating site and they’re just the same odd. When I received a message from a another member on the Dating site and if I want to read it I have pay for it and when I do that and rely their message and they never rely back no matter how long I wait. I think that the owner of the dating site are not trying to help us to find the right partner they’re after our money yes it all about money. The member who paid to use the site get ripped off and the owner says “it good business”

I’ll say that it’s best just go bars and club at least the people are real and you can meet them and it doesn’t have be bars and clubs to go and meet someone to have a great it can be anywhere else to someone. And I’ll just have to be patient and lower my expectation. Sometimes a woman will smile at me when I’m having a great day and this happen you less expected, you just got to be yourself and to do what you enjoy.

I am going to be honest I searched for a long time and had the best luck and still currently at NightFling.com I have had the time of my life. Site is free to sign up and there are some costs to upgrade but there are so many people on this site it would be impossible not to hookup period! I mean anyone no matter who you are will hookup. Site Link is http://NightFling.com I love it and will always be on there.

yea goulash is so full of it, he’s probably some cross-dressing mama’s boy, who tries to make others feel jealous even though he’s a 40 yr old virgin!

Dating sites can get old, I find that just meeting people out and about works the best. And just make sure that when the time come you can deliver! I visit the http://adultspicestore.com to get what I need to look good and to satisfy my mate and everything else seems to fall in place!

To Mr X, get real OK, you says (Online dating has worked for me, I am still a memebr there, joined 7 month a go and had sex 4 times only). come on young man I’m 60 yrs old ( yes older men still enjoy sex) I known I can not keep up with the young men, but 4 time in 7 months, please, and to say online dating is working for you. I have sex at least one time a week and now and then 2 times a week. I have a casual friendship with 4 women that I meet online. the youngest was 25 when we meet 2 years ago and we still see each other now, the other 3 are in there 20′s and 30′s. yes I like younger women , but I put that in my ad to start with. yes it a free web site Craigslist.. yes it can be a long process weeding out all the Bots and Spam and finding a local girl is the hardest part. but it does happen. When me and one of the girls go out its understood I’m going to spend the night now. no we do not have a contract, sure I help them out time to time but no it not like they get money every time we go out. All but one has kids and when we go out the kids come to. we will go to a pizza place that has games for the kids to play or if we decide to go to a movie we go somewhere nice to eat and a movie. life for me is good and I spend a whole lot less money now then I did in my younger days bar hopping. Like Starpepper said Women want to be treated like real human beings – not a piece of meat. being nice to them does not mean slip them some money, it means treat them with the same respect you expect. Its a good feeling when one of the girls kids call to tell me what they got on their report card or to tell me their Birthday is coming up (hint hint). but they remember my birthday and Christmas too. To Be Continue

So as far as web site dating I will not ever again join a dating site. been there done that but no more. Craigslist. is free and when you get rid of the Bots and Fakes you can find what your looking for. Maybe I am lucky because I’m not rich, I’m just a everyday working men like I guess most of you are. But remember in my ad I was looking for casual friendship not just sex. Do you think any of these young ladies has sex the first or second time we went out? no way and if offered I would have turn it down. don’t laugh remember I’m old school and if she was willing to show a old man a good time the first time out then I know she was most likely friendly with a lot of men. I was looking for a casual friendship not a Pro. Is any of the ladies friends with anyone else, I do not asks and they don’t tell. But god gave me enough common sense to wear a party hat always. like I said at 60 life is good. How long will this last God only knows. But if it ended tomorrow I would go back to Craigslist and start over.
remember do not be in a hurry, be honest and use common sense.
because you can find what your looking for without going to a join and pay monthly dating site. Good luck to everyone I hope yo find who your looking for. I have 4 friends for life. The benefits may stop as they are young and may find someone there age to get serious with. But our friendship will never end. If one or all of the ladies get married I will be at there wedding, I mean don’t you go to a real friend wedding.

I have also tried every dating site there is, people say to me that I will meet someone on a dating site but to me everyone wants sex on dating sites and thats not what I’m looking for. I’d rather meet a guy in person rather than waste my time on dating sites.

Lol,

Skimming through the 129 comments made me laugh, as I read some rather blatant attempts at “better” online dating sites.

This is a damn good thread by the way. It’s actually got a high percentage of real people unless most of you are about.com bots, trying to make about look busy

I suppose the old “too good to be true” saying, should be firmly adhered to.

Obviously the average man and the average woman (based on gaussian distribution curves majority) usually want different things. It’s a right old tangley web online (hur-hur)

Anyway, here’s a great site for you all to date on gooutsideforacupofcoffeeifyoucanandstopwastingtimetrawlingeyecandyonlineffsyounoobs.com
(That coming from a total noob oneself )

use the adult websites they SO work! xxx hehehe

I’M A 51 YEAR OLD MAN THAT’S BEEN ALONE FOR 34 STRAIGHT YEARS. FROM WHAT I CAN GATHER IN THIS FORUM, THE ONLINE DATING SCENE IS ENTIRELY FAKE. I CAN AGREE WITH THAT. I ALSO READ THAT THE ONLY WAY TO MEET WOMEN IS AT A BAR OR CLUB. BUT WHAT ABOUT SOMEONE LIKE ME WHO WOULD NEVER SET FOOT IN A BAR OR CLUB??? WHERE DOES SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT SMOKE, DRINK, OR DO DRUGS TURN TO IN ORDER TO MEET UP WITH A NICE FEMALE EITHER FOR SEX OR ANYTHING ELSE??? I’M FED UP WITH SPENDING MY WEEKENDS BY MYSELF

There are some good sites, but you just have to be careful. I’ve met some great guys, and I review them on my site if you are interested in which ones I think are the best…but I always talked to them for a long time first. I met some jerks too, but that happens in real life also.

I apologize if I posted this twice…but yeah, I met a lot of great guys online. You just have to be careful and talk a bit, and then meet in person. I review some of the best sites on my blog adult dating website help, if you are interested in reading reviews and more tips.

i used this site before and found a few dates, nice ladies xx thanks up4adate.

There are some like http://adultdatinghookup.socialparody.com that are free with no strings attached..nada..

There are free sites out there but those people look hideous, i mean come on why would someone search for a mate on the internet? Something really weird in that.

You should add untrue.com to the list of fake dating sites. Truly terrible site with thousands of members, supposedly. They even come out and tell you which ones are fake by labeling them “OC” for Online Cupid. THese are people the site pays to become members of the show to, apparently, liven up the conversations.

Now that there are software solutions that allow people to essentially build their own dating sites, the rip-off pay sites will slowly die and fade away.

This site was one of many built using Boonex, which is open source and will lead to invite only sites building communities of real people that only consist of other real people.

Can’t wait for it to take off in a big way.

I have found what appears to be a totally free dating site, but unfortunately it is still a little under populated. But I’m still hoping that this might be the real thing, and that i wont one day have to pay big bucks just to open my mail
but so fare it looks promising!!

http://www.socialaurora.com/

looks like it free…

use this trick that i use. whenever you find a sight were you can make a free standard profile. take a picture of your self that you know for sure is totally unattractive. like i used a picture of me from halloween with a zombie costume on . i had nails in my face, red contact lens, and my whole face was red, and on top of alll of that i made the dumbest looking facial expression, and that was it. in my info box said i was 8 feet tall 11 inches, disabled and only spoke latin. I STILL GOT EMAILS from a bunch from fake girls and websites saying that they want to meet me and stuff soo its a scam. use this tactic to find scams and real sites chances are they are always scams

if your receving emails from girls and havent even showed them a picture of your self yet. the site is a scam. just don’t upload any pictures for a while and see how many girls just love hooking up with guys who look a like a box that says upload photo here.

I just want to weigh in on some of what I read above. I have actually had my best luck with POF. Pulled 4 different hook ups in under a month about a year ago and might be going back to give it another go due to the dissappointment of other sites.

One in particular is Untrue.com, I was stupid enough to go out on a limb and pay a one month membership to see what I could find. Hundreds of ladies have contacted me but all have an “OC” tag on the account. I would like to warn anyone who reads this to not waste your time or money and instead go to a bar and try your luck there.

In the fine print of the User agreement it states that the site is for entertainment only and though it resembles a personal ad site it is not and OC profiles are fictionous.

I have tried to be prudent, but still I have been victimized by scam sites.
However, I have found some success (sex and friendship) on http://www.fetlife.com This is a bondage site, but also for ordinary people who are just looking for sex. it combines online, with local “get togethers” (munchies). It is a clever idea since it encourages the bar scene without the bar, but also the fuller disclosure that can happen online. I have never been asked for money except for a donation to view user posted videos. The access to geographic specific postings is good. Spam emails are controlled by a limit on the number of emails per day.

I am not into bondage, but the openess on Fetlife is refreshing.

Dating sites = waste of time

Jim’s suggestion of Craigslist is still better than dating sites. You have to week through a lot of phonies and be careful, but it will work if you start out with a “casual friendship” approach.

The best I’ve found by far is Meetups (meetup.com). Join any of the movie or relationship groups or whatever (look for the stuff women like to do) and you’ll have a lot higher rate of real women (some of them even attractive) than any dating site.

I can say that Fling worked for me. It’s great if you want to get laid but don’t want to play flirting games at the bar. Signed up on a Friday night and was waking up next to a cutie Sunday morning. Honestly didn’t think I’d meet someone that fast.

So far I myself have not found a real dating site. But here is a simple rule of thumb. All you have to do is Google the name of the dating site put a slash then type after it scam or complaints and that will solve your problem. You would be surprised as to what pops up

if there are a lot of them are just to scary to try. i am a straight man looking to find love all over again, since my wife was the one that cheated on me and now divorced and single again. a real good woman is certainly a rare find nowadays, especially that there are so many very nasty women that seem to have a very bad attitude problem now, and have become very difficult to start a normal conversation with.

There is one totally free dating website (more of a social network) that I’ve found for adults. That’s http://www.nudeweb.com There is some activity there from african scammers (I guess it comes with the site being free), but they are quick to delete them. I was surprised when I was able to contact anyone and reply to the messages I got there without them asking me to pay. I think they make their money off of the live cams they link to becuase that seems to be the only thing on the site that ever asks for a charge, and you needa separate account for them.

all profiles probably start off in good faith.
the problem occurs for two reasons:

1. new sites prepopulate with copies of (genuine) profiles to give a high “member count”. Always check for new members.

2. sites insist on you “signing up”. hence you get “inactive” members. Look for members who have paid the charges to use the site.

http://www.UKquicksex.com is very good. I’ve really enjoyed using it. I’ve used it on and for a few years, in between girlfriends.

as far as I have experienced datehookup.com has been the best for me. 100% free and the profiles are legit, there may be fake ones ofcourse, but i saw a real girl that i know on the site and the people seem real. Give it a try

I know it’s been mentioned in a few comments, but OKCupid is the only site I ever tried that ended up in casual sex with the kind of women I like. And it’s completely free, though they do have a premium “A-list” price point that adds some features like more photos and different search filters and the ability to browse anonymously, while still seeing your visitors. You don’t need any of it, though. Seriously, check it out. I have been in two long-term relationships with great women I met on the site and now that I really only have time for casual hook-ups, I am literally turning down dates. Don’t believe me,. though., just try it… if you aren’t A CREEP. The key to internet dating, as in real life, is to be dateable…

My experience with online dating sites has not been positive. Out of curiosity, I signed up to benaughty.com as a standard member (i.e. the free membership) but deliberately gave the most minimal amount of information possible and did not upload a photo. Within 24 hours, I was getting notifications of several winks, emails, and invitations to chat, some of them from hot looking women half my age. So I deleted my account. It is far more interesting, fun and real to meet women in the offline world.

I have been a member of adult friend finder an met many women on that website so whomevet said it wasn’t up front is very disappointing to us

http://freelivefriends.com is a pretty cool site. I highly recommend it

DO NOT EVER USE THIS SITE! first of all it is 100% fake, every day you will get like two messages but the people NEVER return your messages. secondly i think this is a website that only has people from OVER SEAS on it. This site SUCK and i wish i NEVER joined

I have came across a few sites where basically all the women on there are from the same town or the same two towns and are usually located 100+ miles away or nowhere near your location or area and usually always are listed in centralized metropolitan areas or in an area where the population is not that big.
I believe sites like that to be mainly fake or hyped profiles even though the women appear to be regular everyday women you would come across in real life, I do not trust dating sites that most if not all profiles are from the same place or the same two places.
It is the same with sites that have the automatic chat popup’s that constantly show up and you cant reply to when you visit the site and your not a paid member, Also the sites that do not allow you to see profiles unless you are a paid member.
My rule is, If you cant chat with members or see the profiles without paying and they all seem to be in one or two areas it’s either a fake site or a scam or the profiles are just there for the hype and you wont get any real responses from the members….

Hey, I have found some good free dating sites, and met many people. Here they are, and social sex.com is all fake profiles lol just so you all know. They are listed in order.

1. Meet me
2. Ok Cupid
3. Collar me
3.Craigslist (forgot about this one, look at personals section, men seeking women, etc. Casual encounters, but dont ever agree to pay money on some age verified shit that is a scam.. Prostitutes with fake photos) lol
4. Plenty of fish
5. Adult friend finder (you don’t have to pay, just make an account, wait for a member to msg you, then it’s free to respond to the msg)

Hope this helps.. I’m tired of bulls**t fraud dating sites

At a new site, http://www.playmatematch.com we are trying to change the face of adult dating by having real people, real photos (not professional), confirmed identities while remaining anonymous, and we encourage communication. This project came about by watching “various” companies deceiving customers into applying for memberships on other sites they own while sharing your profile on those other sites for the sole purpose of getting you to sign up multiple times. Users cannot talk across those boundaries unless both are on the same sister site. We may eventually have multiple servers, but you will always be able to communicate with everyone.

Another problem is that they don’t put blocks between the spammers who create fake profiles to lure you off site. Our methods will always be improving the quality in our numbers instead of quantity. Even people who are inactive will be removed from the statistics provided, instead of finding dozens of people who signed up years ago, never to return.

If this sounds too good to be true, check us out and see for yourself. We are on Facebook and twitter and have just started our membership drive to reach 50,000.

Just last month I joined a popular dating site after being alone n lonely for a long time. So I gave myself out with all honesty n genuiness..The bogus man seemed to be very respectable n respectful of me until his last email a week ago. Our exchanges of emails were full of love n emotions…I even cried st times…stupid me..I was so naive n vulnrable for my age..hahaha…thanks to my angels decided to become techy…checked the P n email address ..it was a range of IP addresses in Mountainvew CA…apparently not using only one server…and the worst thing…that evil man use fake pictures of Min. Bernier..and being from another part of the globe deprived me the recognition of this honorable man…gosh…for almost a month ..I thought this man in the picture fancied me too…lol… And now am also worried where my picturez will be used to…

Just sharing this unforgettable experience..am excused as this is my first time…falling for Min Bernier whom I dont have any wild idea who this person is. Oh gosh..it was really embarassing..for my age. Lessons learned well…though I must say this fake guy never asked anything..nor harm me…nor violated me…he in fact helped me be inspired…added color to my life…made me love again…haha…though everything was just a…dream…illusion…whatever…anyway…he made me go back to my aerobics again….charge to experience…good luck to all..love or date seekers

I just remembered uploading several photos of myself to my fake…min Bernier…now am worried..where will all these photos go or be used? ..Though they are all decent ones..but still…beginning to worry…the fact that they even use pics of famous people (whom unfortunately has no idea of)…how much more of ordinary people like me…..so help me God….

I’ve been on several adult dating sites, personally I wouldn’t recommend the free ones because all the fake profiles and crazy ass people that join, because it is FREE. You have to pay for quality, unfortunately thats the way it is. http://www.laywithme.com is one of the better websites I’ve used. It is free to make and browse profiles, but to actually contact someone, it does have a fee. Its well worth it though, trust me
I’ve yet to run across any crazy people of fake profiles. Just my take but I love the site and recommend it to anyone looking for some adult fun or just a causal date! Good luck!

Stay away from just hook UPS, it’s a scam and 99% of the profiles are fake.

Just read the terms and conditions of every site you go to, it will say in there if they use fake accounts. It has to or they can be charged or sued for fraud.

Very informative…Thank you

stay away from lonelywifeclub.com,& ashleymadison.com, big time scammers, i sent out over 300 messages never got any respond from anyone, really, your killing me smalls, lol,,

You guys are all pigs! Instead of coming up with all the ways you can get your rocks off, why don’t you grow a conscience? Of course your going to get scammed, your jerks and deserve to be taken. I like the 60y/o who thinks he’s Casanova – dude, you are paying these single moms.
If you are looking for the right girl and you are a good guy, you’ll find her but if you are a selfish pig, you deserve every scam being laid upon you!

i’ve met a FEW real women on Ashley Maddison, Fling and POF and Tagged.
Tagged is more of a social networking kind of site, but many use it as a dating site.Ashley Madison members are looking for ‘dates’ and are real, but very picky. I find most of the (real) women on these sites just refuse to respond if they are not interested. Also. even though they are SEX sites. a lot of the women shun NSA relationships and looking for liars (LTR’s seekers)
There is another side to this though.
I’m in an open relationship, And my g/f also is on the prowl for guys, you won’t believe how many MEN on sex sites are FAKES. They e-mail and message great, but never show up.
Once we set up a G/B with 8 guys for her 35th birthday…ONE showed up.

milfs.com is totally bogus all the girls are on line cupids never found a profile that was not labeled oc.

You could enroll in any hiking club or even an organization team.
Its just much more targeted if you join a site where everybody is looking
for the same thing. Some people will pretend to be who they are so
avoid free dating sites that may be misused.

I was AFF and complained about one of their memers because of things he said he was going to do to me satan type things and the next thing I knew they suspended my profit and acct, they did not answer any of my emails or phone msg to customer service so be very aware do not send them money you will never never get it back………

Dating sites let you meeting new peoples and it works at the best. I visit the http://truelovex.com to get what I need to look and get satisfied.

I am sick and tired of these sites that say they are free.
then you get to them and if you try to send a message to a member it than says in order to send a message you must be a full paying member. what happened to free? oh it is Free to create a profile. I see, they are all scams.
I also don’t get these stupid women on plenty of fish. I had a couple where they wanted to meet ME, I emailed them we had a nice back and forth conversation than the dissappear, I try to email them and I am blocked? and all I did was be very respectful and nice to them. such idiots on these sites. they are all players

Dont bother with adsforsex.com it looks really good at first but before id even put up a profile picture or filled in most of the info i had people emailing. But at least with that one the girls who are fake are marked with a tag to say they are fake but none of the real girls ever message back anyway.

There are still legitimate adult dating sites but we have to do reviews before paying for membership subscription. Ask your friends if they know some good sites to subscribe. Most websites have fake profiles and scammers. Avoid signing-up on free adult websites. Most of the female members are scammers. Join a website with anti-fraud system. Check if there are enough online members. A friend of mine recommended me this website http://www.shagarena.com/ . It’s not a cheap website. They charges high for the subscription but it’s totally worth it. I love their VIP featured profile. I subscribed to their 6-month subscription. I’m going to subscribe to their 1 year once my subscription expired.

If you’re going to join the site, spend your time on older women. Most of them are hot

Well, I’ve been scammed also. Turns out “she” was from Nigeria. But that wasn’t revealed until she suddenly “turned” up there and had a scooter accident and had a dislocated knee. But, guess what, the “doctor” is here now and he wants to talk to you. I only needed to send them $5000 to get her knee “fixed” and she would actually then be on a plane to my city to meet me! I shut “it” down and deleted all information blocked all emails everything.
It’s no wonder that all this is happening at this time guys.
Take a look at this:
2Ti 3:1 You can be certain that in the last days there will be some very hard times.
2Ti 3:2 People will love only themselves and money. They will be proud, stuck-up, rude, and disobedient to their parents. They will also be ungrateful, godless,
2Ti 3:3 heartless, and hateful. Their words will be cruel, and they will have no self-control or pity. These people will hate everything that is good.
2Ti 3:4 They will be sneaky, reckless, and puffed up with pride. Instead of loving God, they will love pleasure.

So you can see why this is happening. And trouble is, it won’t get better it’s going to get worse.
Wolf

Ok, here is a real comment from a real person who has been doing the online adult dating for 5 years. I don’t know how many real sites there are, but it is very, very few. My money has been taken by 5 or 6 of them that are nothing but automatic bots that send you canned email and nothing more. If they reply to an email it is a one liner that promise more, but it never develops into anything. There is only one site that I’ve had any success on and I always come back after wasting my time and money elsewhere. There is no such thing as a free site that will actually let you date someone. It isn’t easy when the girl/guy ratio is a thousand to one. So here it is adultfriendfinder.com is the only site that i have actually met, dated and gotten laid. I met about 9 women dated 5 got laid by 5. None were 1 night stands but were mostly NSA. It was NOT easy. There are so many hard bodies for women to chose from that the rest of us must compete with intelligence and seduction to get anywhere. Even AFF my have some bots, and they do get solicitations to other fake sites, but they remove them as soon as they are exposed. Just because someone responds doesn’t mean that they will met you or even keep communicating. However, if they show no inclination to meet then move on. The real ones will want to meet rather than send endless emails. Then is your one chance to make the right impression. If you are married and chose to be honest about it that limits you even further, but it is hard to keep up much pretense with a real person so be wise with this one. If you can find one, treat real people with respect. they are not just for your amusement..

I just checked your recommendation Steve. I thought you were just promoting http://www.shagarena.com/.

I love the site. It’s clean and easy to use. They just charges higher compared to other sites that I joined before. What’s your username on the site Steve?

I am now chatting with some members in Italy. Thanks for a great share!

Any of Asian sex sites around that aren’t scams. I’m from Australia if that helps. Thanks for any assistance.

A few things from a man in England here…

The dating sites are mainly genuine people. Trouble is women generally have a check list and if you aren’t scoring 9 out of 10 in the” looks department”, then it doesn’t matter if you tick all the other boxes, they will just ignore you.

Since, as in real life, the man is generally expected to make the first move, the dating sites main income is male orientated, but some sites allow a ratio of 30 men for ever 1 female, which ultimately impowers women, to the point that many of them get the attitude, that “they are doing us guys a favour” by talking to them.

Since I often only score 8.9 out 10 in the looks department, I have also tried adult sex sites and these are mainly an insult to us guys.
There are some scammers but the website site itself will “manufacture” numerous hot women to entice us to keep paying.

A few website tactics to look out for are: -

1. Hot girls in their 20′s…online at 2, 3, 4, or 5am in your country..
NO GIRL that age, (no matter how ugly she is) needs to go online in the night, looking for a man for sex !

2. Women who log on…and then relog on 2- 5 minutes later..and again, repeating the process over a few hours.

3. Women who “wink” at you, but they have no filled out profile or photograph.

4. Generic messages…ie they do not mention even one specific point from your profile, so that their message can be sent on mass to us guys.

This may not exactly be a dating or hook up site. But if your savy and fairly intelligent. The ability to hold a conversation and arrange a night out at the bars or club can quickly turn into a one on one encounter. The app is on android… not sure for ios. But it is called “Circle.” N the other cool aspect about this app is the integration of using ones facebook. N im pretty pos we can all tell if a facebook is fake or not. But I have yet to come across anyone that was fake. Now I have lots the attention of some women that would have been great to meet. But its no biggie. Sh*t happens. The other issue I have noticed is the amount of minors that have access to this app. But like I said it is not geared towards one night stands or casual encounters. But it is completely free and just as effective. Another downfall… the app uses gps to locate completely random people in your relative area. But u cannot adjust the range or search parameters. So, no looking for a single sex parameter. Kinda sux. But I have met some Veterans on the app n now we go to the club or bars n try our hand at playin the game. So all in all I would probably rate CIRCLE about a 7.5/10. I live in the permian basin (texas) and when I first came across the app the amount of people on it were very small, roughly 27 if I recall. N now its well over 150. And ive been usin it for about 3months now. N im sure there is a much better reception of people in a bigger city! Well, I hope that helps… its not much n I feel everyones frustration in here as well. I work 80 plus hours a week in the oil field, so meeting people is extremely difficult and frustrating! So I rely on social media to stay in contact and meet people. But again. So you dont have to scroll through my rambling. The Android App is called CIRCLE

Can anyone recommend a good dating site that not full of scammers and fake profiles.

I am sick and tired of these sites that offer all these so called women waiting for you BS if u look around half of the female profiles are the same pic just different name,age,location, and no wonder! a lot off sites only charge men and women get on free (sexist) so no wonder there are so many spammers if they were forced to pay like men there would not be so many fake profiles!… and to comment (168 Jamie) the sexist sow! there are a lot of women who are no different to the men…even the normal dating sites are the same

List of Bogus sites
: Flirt- no photo and little info and i got 58 messages 3 day trial then 0.
; X dating- xblackbook- Same thing but did not pay!

One of the free dating sites is MeetOutside.com ( http://www.meetoutside.com )

It does not require any payment or fees and has facility to send messages, interests and chat room … so its worth trying … i did get some messages back on this one…

Ok Guys, online dating is an art. I have used 4 different ones all free and have gotten what I want no problem, and I’m no ripped or super great looking guy, just an average Joe…. well Tom lol. The key is it takes time to get a female to become interested. I presently use plenty of fish. I have an erotic profile on there that describes a real good time. Now here’s what you do.. do not ever message anyone on there. Let your erotic profile do the work for you with a little help from the meet me functioin on there and also if you like the looks of someone make them a favourite. You can have up to 3000 favourites on there. This lures the women into your site because you faved them or did the meet me.. they will look at your profile. You can even see who looked at you. It will take some probably 30 or 40 women looking at your profile and one will send a message. If it is favourable you have someone on the hook. Send lots of messages talk clean all the time until she promotes anything other than that. This could take a month or more. Remember you can have several women on the hook at one time… play them send them pics of flowers… this works really. I have more women than I know what to do with most of the time. My profile is very up front about my intentions as well. I simply state… are you tired of looking… why not enjoy yourself while you search for the one… discreet , safe and I know what the word NO means so you can trust me, thats a promise… this one sentence has done wonders. I should sell this information…lol
I have two regular NSA women on the go and I always have one or two newbies I meet up with now and then. I’m serious guys you need to learn to take it slow and learn how cast a wide net and woo those women who get caught. All free , all real, I’m not selling anything just speaking the truth… yep I’m real, I score, cheers

If you think the scams, and bots, and false ads are common on a paid site, why would anyone want to visit a FREE site like POF? If it’s free to set up as many accounts as you can have email addresses the scammers WILL DO IT! If anything a paid subscription to a site would weed out the phony’s IMO. If I was going to post fake ads, I would use craigslist, or POF because its FREE!! So use coomon sense! I did meet a woman on AFF (adult frind finder) a couple years ago, and it did lead to what was expected. But only once, the rest of the time I felt like I was talking to robots on that site.. I tried match.com and had 24 women want talk to me before I even uploaded a photo.. BS! Women do not flock to a new member with out a complete profile or picture.. It was a great concept, but is BIG BUSINESS. HUNDREDS of BS sites!!! Search for “Buy daiting profiles” on google. There are sites that sell THOUSANDS of “profiles” to anyone so they can fill their BS dating sites!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I like this one http://www.rosapurple.com.

it seems to be pretty new and with not many profiles, but at least they are real and I actually was able to do a little cyber erotic chat with a cutie…..

XXXdate.com is a scam site The very best way to find out about a site is to read the fine print as in XXXdate .com case. It states this site is for entertainment only and all profiles with a small logo ” online cupid are not real. Whats more they state that they can use any info you put online to build fake profiles. So pix anything they want to use is up for grabs.

XXXDATING. COM is a fake site. Top to bottom tell everyone.

The best advice was given by someone above….

Stop focusing on getting laid, meeting gals. There’s just way too many dating sites creating an obscene amount of competition. This leads to you becoming another faceless man in the sea of choices women have online.

Instead, get out there and socialize with other guys if possible. Join groups; keep joining new groups to build up connections. There’s bound to be someone that knows someone that can set you up on a date. Six degrees of separation.

I recently joined membership on Asiandating.com and from mere moments later, i get bombarded with nothing but pinoy women (Philippines) all spamed their “interest” at me and want me to join other dating websites like ClassicaFilipina.com to either become their couple, or go to Lilydating.com to see more of their pictures.

I paid my membership that day, and several hours later, i gotten sick and tired of being manipulated by the fake profiles and fake women in Asiandating.com, i end up canceling my membership there.

Malaysiancupid.com is also another website with majority of their women’s profiles being fakes! Not only fakes, but some of them being scammers too.

Here is my beef with fling.com I used them last year and all I got was people from places like Africa,Sweden,Norway, and people that tried to scam me so I killed that account plus my lavalife account but I have to say click&flirt owned by the same people that own fling.com and flirt.com is actually worth a crap and free to women and no I don’t work for any of the people listed I work at a Kroger’s location in my home town

I posted a profile on AFF and purchased the Gold membership for approximately three years. I also posted a profile on Ashley Madison and purchased credits. I removed my profile on AFF and Ashley Madison. First of all both sites were easily hundreds of ads or fakes to any one real profile. I also had several men posing as womens profiles contact me. They would agree to meet for coffee or a drink. They were hoping you wouldn’t beat them up because you we’re in a public place or because they hoped they could smooth everything over through a sexual favor. Over three years and the two sites I estimate I sent we’ll over five hundred messages attempting to contact women or m/f couples. I never had one real woman respond and meet for coffee or a drink. I did have three m/f couples meet with me through AFF. Another handful of m/f couples shared pics and chat but would never meet. Four times I was duped by men posing as women, one went as far as having a women voice verify for him. I had better luck on craigslist 8-10 years ago before the ads and fakes quickly took it over. I strongly advise you not to waste your time and money on adult casual encounter dating sites.

Most importantly if you are in a relationship you need to be aware that businesses make a living buying info or surfing the web storing photos associated with dating profiles. Other businesses working for your significant other or your significant simply can google profile names or email addresses if they discover them. I have found old photos online from profiles I canceled many years ago. Never post photos with your face, wearing your regular clothes, or from familiar backgrounds that your significant other will recognize.

They are all scams, even Christian Mingle. Full of scammers and con artists and fake profiles. Even the legimate guys show up and are 15 years older than they say or look. It sucks because when you do have the ability to go out due to work or parenting their is no way to meet anyone. Just have to swallow the bitter pill that you will have to remain single. This world is full of EGOmaniacs, self serving, arrogant and disrepectful men and women. Lying, cheating… I know its alwasy been this way but the internet and social media just exposed it. You can’t even turn gay and trust that either….. The sex shop is gonna make killing off me. Gonna go stock up on my battery operated boyfriend LOL

All “DATING SITES” are fake you might want to try “POGO” and chat with the gammers there might find someone special there. You might find your new friend wants company or just to talk. always worth the time to try talking to others instead of just getting laid.

After studying websites like POF & Craigslist personals for the last couple of years, I’ve come to the conclusion that dating sites (these two in particular) are filled mostly with phony ads. In particular, I think most of them are ads posted by lazy law enforcement. I gather this from the repetitiveness and baiting that’s easy to read into. Perhaps they’re trying to find prostitutes, drug dealers, or sexual predators. I also believe there are rouge officers who get off on posing as perspective daters and when they come across the few legitimate ads posted by their co-workers, neighbors and friends, I believe they think they have the power to play games and abuse their positions. They bring their fellow co-workers into their assignments and have a big laugh at the dater’s expense. They are the majority posting the bogus ads. Trust me. It’s quite sad. Because of this I will never post or answer an ad from any website.

Another thing is that when you post your picture on a dating site, it can be pulled up through a Google image search or just by the user name on Google. So when you think you get privacy when you pay for a subscription rather than using a free website, you don’t really get privacy. If you use the same user name on several sites, a Google search will bring up the various sites as well. Funny, when you go to try and browse people in your area, some sites won’t let you do so unless you go through the rigmarole of setting up an account. YET if you know a user name you can search it and pull up sites and see the whole page of users without having a membership. It’s all so ridiculous. I must say that I do know one person who met their spouse on a dating site. But still, I see them as just a fluke.

Whilst it’s true that many dating sites have photo’s of models and false identities.

My Son and daughter have met some nice people via these site

I personally went to meet three women in another country
the first two were a waste of time the third was okay.

And well off but something was missing from the relationship
and she was very annoyed when I finished the affair

Even sent me some virus’s that caused me Computer problems
I know it was her because she built me a site for free

Then tried to charge me . when i Left

Be Careful.

I am constant user of dating sites which orientate on traveling and dating. I’ve tried misstravel and travelgirl also friendsfinder and lots of other but damn they do have fake profiles. Its just waste of money and time. Though helpful for me was travbuddy, but girls are not so nice. Then I found globogirls.com and I enjoyed it. I see they are still new so all those escorts and scammers didn’t reach them or they just fight with them. I found bunch of great girls who I am in touch. But frankly speaking I am super active trying my chances with all girls ahaha.

I just wanted to let those doubters out there NOT all of the profiles out there are fake. I was a single mom, struggling to make it, and I met someone off of POF. We had our first date on 11-06-10. Sure, it took some time to actually get to know each other. Needless to say, here it is, 04/08/13, and we are still together, and plan on getting married next year. We have learned how to communicate, which means talking about REAL feelings…there is hope. The key is to be you. You don’t have to change who you are, maybe just the way you look at things…it does work. I am proof. Good Luck to all.

hi guys i would like to say that badoo is prob the best site out there, you can talk for free and buy extra’s if you feel the need, you will find genuine people on it as i have met 6 decent girls off it already

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Try Chess.com. Don’t meet too many women to date, but plenty of people to chat with who are interesting and appreciative of the honesty and competition on the site.

And Girls? Why, just today a lovely young girl named Sarah9888 said “can someone teach me a good e4 opening”? Wow! THAT is HOT!
She was even willing to Mate me!

I have tried several sites. Some paid and some for free. I wanted a serious relationship so I erased my profile on POF. eHarmony was a waist of money for me. I got one match!! I know I am not the best looking woman in the world or the easiest as a matter of fact, but ONE!!
After a long search I found MyOnlyMatch.com (www.myonlymatch.com). It is a good, reliable website and I had a very good experience. In fact I met my current boyfriend there. Most of the people posting their profiles on myonlymatch.com are people who want serious relationships. I suggest you try this website, it really worked for me!

I have tried several sites. Some paid and some for free. I wanted a serious relationship so I erased my profile on POF. eHarmony was a waist of money for me. I got one match!! I know I am not the best looking woman in the world or the easiest as a matter of fact, but ONE!!
After a long search I found MyOnlyMatch.com http://www.myonlymatch.com. It is a good, reliable website and I had a very good experience. In fact I met my current boyfriend there. Most of the people posting their profiles on myonlymatch.com are people who want serious relationships. I suggest you try this website, it really worked for me!

Online dating might not know it but it’s dying on its feet. The only people who get anything real from it are one in a million (and of course the people who run the sites).

Yes, I’m a straight man… but IMO most of the men who join dating sites are oversexed toads who’d be better off buying a Fleshlight for $60. Or maybe a milking machine.

Anyhow, if you’re looking for something real, forget about online dating and look for some singles groups on meetup.com. I did, and EVERYTHING CHANGED. This is why Meetup is wrecking online dating!

Oh yeah… and Meetup is cool because trolls don’t last long when they show up in person.

I’d like to share my experience with http://www.globorgirls.com. It’s actually more of a social network thing for people who would like to meet travel mates from different countries. The good thing about it is that it’s totally secure because they have the feature of video chatting with these girls so you’ll not share your personal contacts unless you’re 100% sure. You’ll also find pretty good tips on how to stay safe online and also some traveling tips. All in all, it was a very good experience.

There are many fake women and some real women. If you are a good looking guy with nice pictures there should be enough real women on most sites. Fling had fake profiles but I also met about 10 real girls from there as well. I canceled it because Fling used my picture as a model for there other sites such as millionaire single or something like that and also another site. Even after I canceled Fling continued to use my picture as a model which proves how there are many fake profiles.

I am a male model and athlete so they took advantage of that. But they are not all completely fake. There are some hott girls on there because they are freaky and perverted as us guys sometimes. If you sign up just look for real girls. If the pics are too hott and professional use common sense. If your and fat guy talking to a super hott girl, come on think a little. She is most likely fake and the responses are automatic. Overall Fling was good even though they pissed me off and used me.

I’m registered on SaucyDating.com website and have to say it looks very nice. I’m male and there are many girls there What I like the most is Sex Map feature. In few words, when you search for a partner you can put all matches on a UK map and see who is living in your area.

I have tried Fling with success. AFF, with limited success. Adultspace is free too. Onlinebootycall when it first started was ok too. Not sure about now though.

I recently found a dating website called “bookagirlfriend.com http://www.bookagirlfriend.com – I signed up last month and do get a lot of messages from girls, and I met with one in London for a sightseeing tour. I was amazed really, as I have been a member of a few you mentioned above and this one worked out for me.
Thanks again for the informative information you provied here!!

Found this article very useful. After reading the reply’s it seems that most of you found the same thing I did. However, I think many jump into the casual encounter sites with their expectations way too high. So I’ll share what I’ve learned from making the rounds.
1. Best way to tell the quality of a casual encounter site is to count the number of women who don’t look like Victoria secret models…I mean they have extra padding. The higher this number is the more likely they have real membership (discount this if the site caters to bigger people).
2. The number of people you find in your area is directly proportional to the population of where you live. This is the same for any dating site. So be prepared to go distance if you find someone real.
3. They all employ the bait and switch as well as “special members” who are there to get you to sign up. On the nicer sites those members will have a logo or describer attached to their profile (online cupid or something).
4. It’s likely that you’ll be contacted by a person who will offer services if you register somewhere or pay some amount of money to earn their (it might be a man posing as a woman) time. Just look at where the profile location says, very likely a give away. Also don’t respond to the ones that say this is an old boyfriends account they want your money. Look for the mail that has the same words and situations that you’ve seen before. Copious use of “babe” is a pretty strong tip off, so is poor spelling and grammar.
5. The best sites will have the most freebies. Free mail and the ability to look at profiles are huge. But there is always a catch, not being able to reply to mail is usually one of them.

That all said be wise with your money here this is a giant sink hole playing on the some very intense feelings and emotions. Patience is key because you could exchange several e-mails before finding out the person is fake.