Have you ever had a friend that attracted people wherever they went, never seemed to stay single long, and were able to fall in love at the drop of a hat? It's almost like they were able to find not one, but several soulmates throughout their lives, and each one was a joy to be celebrated.
I have a friend like this, and I've been fascinated with her luck with love throughout the years. There's nothing unhealthy or desperate about her loving nature; rather, she's centered and open minded to whatever comes her way. If she wanted to be in a relationship she never had any lack of suitors, and it was rare to find her without a partner. Even more interestingly, she stayed on good terms with most of her ex's, going so far as to set some up with other friends of hers because she felt they'd be a better match.
I'll bet that most of us know someone like my friend who (seem to) effortlessly attract love relationships. But if that's the case, why aren't more of us who are seeking a date or mate following in their footsteps? Or, is it really a matter of being lucky in love, and nothing to do with the laws of attraction or how we present to the world?
So, dear readers, what do you think? Does attitude have a lot to do with your "luck" in love, or is it something else? Have you changed your outlook, or know someone who has, and it has benefited them romantically?
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I believe in the power of prayer, guided meditation, and daily positive affirmations. My daily affirmations are posted at my computer at home. Some of them are:
I am happy.
I am smiling.
I am positive.
I am optimistic.
I have a clean desk.
I have a clean home.
I like salads.
I like vegetables.
I am a vegan.
It is easy to attract new people into my life.
It is easy to start new intimate relationships.
I love women.
Women love me.
There are lots of young, women who want to date me.
I have nothing to lose.
If shes not interested, its her loss, not mine.
Yeah, i want to totally agree with Don, that prayer is key in all that we do. Whatever we desire in our hearts and we pray to God for, He will give to us. Also positive thinking is very important, cos we are a product of what we think. When we think love and show love to others, we attract love to ourselves.
I am this “friend”. Right now I’m living an change in my life, on my attitude towards life and I found out that I am that “friend”. I always have someone that is chasing me, I have not been in a lot of relationships but because I decide to not be in them cause I do not know if is “comited fear” or is just be in a relationship for me is be in one, is energy and always possible to last forever, always possible to be the one finally. So I found out that every guy I like, always always I always like them, time before or after I liked them but It happened and just because I’m pretty much a relaxed person, I don’t like to push people into me, to do things that they decide they like me, somehow I always atract nice people to me, loving guys, romantic, fun, sense of humor. I realize you attract what you pretty much are. I believe every day of my entire life that “what is meant to be is meant to be”, that thing, that person that is meant to be with you or for you does not need a big effort, just happen naturally. Course every day in the morning and every night I pray for what I think is best for me, I trust God and the universe to give what I want but because I am also giving it. I also have nice relationship with my ex’s they all think I am a nice person, I really don’t remember someone that have a “bad” feeling about me, cause I really act natural and I like to have healthy relationships.
When you are just friends and ntonihg more there isn’t a strong physical or emotional attraction to each other. You just like hanging out without all the aspects of a relationship. There’s no getting in trouble for talking to other people and there’s no worrying about calling each other all the time. It’s just two people that have a genuine good time together. Dating is way different. There is a strong physical and emotional attraction to each other. You always want to be near each other. You can’t stop thinking about them. You will know when you are more than friends. If one person likes the other and the other doesn’t have the same attraction for you then a friendship doesn’t really work because you will always want more out of it.