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What To Do When an Ex Comes Back?

By September 17, 2012

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You broke up. Years passed, and both of you moved on. Occasionally a reminder pops up of the time spent together, but for the most part there's no contact.

Then, one day out of the blue, the ex says hi. Maybe you ran into each other on the street, he found you on Facebook, she sent you an email. They ask, "How are you doing?" and, "Maybe we could catch up sometime."

For many, fear sets in. Do I want to see this person? What could they possibly want? Is a reconciliation possible? Are they getting married? Do I really want to bring all those old feelings, memories, back up again?

It's a tough decision to meet with an ex, depending on how the relationship ended and how much time has passed since its demise. I've heard all sorts of stories:

  • High school sweethearts that haven't seen each other in 30 years, who meet again at a reunion and by the time dessert is served have already chosen their wedding date;
  • A couple breaks up because one has to move far away, just to find themselves next door neighbors in a completely different town four years later;
  • Two people share one great date but circumstances don't allow for another. Seven years later, one contacts the other on Facebook, asking for meet up number two.

When readers and clients ask me if they should either contact an ex or reply to contact from an ex, my answer depends on the nature of the relationship and how much time has elapsed. But the stories above prove that sometimes, the rules aren't worth following and connection has its own time line. So what do you think? If an ex contacted you, would you reply? Is there an ex that you want to make contact with again? If you've had an ex contact you, or if you've already done the contacting, how did it go?

Related: Getting Back Together With an Ex, How To Get Your Ex Lover Back Book Review, Does She Miss Me After the Breakup?

Comments
September 22, 2010 at 9:28 am
(1) Red says:

Have gone back with one ex in peticular, but it never works out, but we have remained friends for many yrs. (known him since we were 18 y/o. Other ex’s I leave well enough alone and do not contact, if they contact me I usually don’t contact them. Ex’s are Ex’s for a reason. Don’t think of just the good times, there must of been some unplesant times too, do you really want to go back to that?

September 22, 2010 at 9:59 am
(2) abiodun@exback says:

trying to get in contact with Ur ex will make you fill bad at the first place you need scale off all communicating medium with your ex for while and in order to rebuild you need to resume communication with your ex.doing this will make his or her affection for you strong.

September 23, 2010 at 10:05 am
(3) Suvival Mode says:

I think it depends a great deal on the circumstances. If circumstance denied you an opportunity with this person years ago then it is worth exploring. If you just want to re-visit old pain because the familiarity is comfortable then move along.

September 23, 2010 at 1:44 pm
(4) precious says:

i left my ex because i did not feel he loved me as much we have been good friends and were better friends in the absenceof a binding relationship.we saw and dated other people and evne talked about our relationships.we are no longer in those past relationship and he feelswe should get back togrther and get married.he claims he could never get what he wanted in the other people .and am still confused does he really mean it ?its been 2 years now does he really love me?

November 11, 2010 at 1:56 pm
(5) Nance says:

I had an “ex-back” scenario that almost destroyed me. The first time you break up, it’s bad and heartbreaking. The second time, there are no more delusions.

We took the gloves off and said some of the worst things that two people could have ever said to each other…

I didn’t date again until just recently (almost 3 years later).

What changed? I did. I had to. I was so miserable and some sick part of me still wanted him back even though every possible piece of information I knew about this guy was screaming at me to count my blessings and move on.

I found the book, The Art of Irresistible. I figured out that I had decided to put a ton of effort into a guy a was never meant to be with. We were almost completely incompatible, but I had made the decision to make my next relationship work.

The next guy was the ex that had me on the verge of suicide…

Now that I know how to choose the perfect guy for me, I am a new woman! Life is good, girls!

February 23, 2012 at 11:11 pm
(6) Dangerous Pie says:

this is happening to me right now…a year ago, we were together and happy. then all of a sudden, she stopped talking to me. completely shattered my heart. the only girl to ever make me cry. it took this whole time to get over her…and now im finding that i never really got over her at all. she contacted me for the first time since, from her new facebook account earlier this week. she told me she misses me, and wants to move here to tucson from minneapolis…a year ago, when we both lived in georgia, she only lived an hour away from me, and she never once made the effort to spend time with me…and now she wants to move all the way across the united states for me??? all i do is yearn to have her here in my arms. everytime i think about her and how much it hurts she’s still not beside me, it hurts to the point of tears…

September 18, 2012 at 5:28 pm
(7) wondering in the wings says:

I am engaged to the love of my life, we have been best friends for 4 years, last year his ex from 30 yrs ago came back into his life , they have a son together and now a grandaughter. He says he loves me and i have told him i think he loves her more than me. He answers me not possible… but on occasion he dosnt delete the text messages between them. most of it is innocent enough but its alot of I love you back and forth, she will tell him she loves him more than he knows, he once told her a nibble on your ear…. That one set me off……. I have stopped telling him i look from time to time and she and i communitcate but i dont feel its right to ask her if she wants him back and cause something worse ….. Him leaving me when there is nothing there between them but freindship now. Help me please… I love this man with all my heart…..

September 19, 2012 at 9:26 am
(8) fredick Jong Momom says:

i am now married 8 years, recently about 2 month ago, i meet my ex. We broke up for 20 years ago. We have had pretty much exciting time then and i had totally forgotten about it since till we meet up again. Now lot of picture flashing in my mind while making with my wife……

September 19, 2012 at 7:11 pm
(9) wondering in the wings says:

wow fredrick, sounds like you are in trouble, and your wifes heart might get broken…… That really didnt help me…… makes me feel even more insecure about this…

October 18, 2012 at 2:33 am
(10) Mike says:

It really depends on what your intentions are. If you want to get back together you might want to have no contact so as to establish your power. If you just want closure then you might want to meet up. But just be aware that it opens you up to painful memories flooding in, leaving you vulnerable.

October 18, 2012 at 2:37 am
(11) Mike says:

if you want to get an ex back youll want to be assert your power in the relationship that includes using the no contact rule. If you dont want them back you may just want closure, but meeting up with a past lover makes you vulnerable to feel old pain

October 19, 2012 at 2:44 pm
(12) David says:

i need help

November 12, 2012 at 7:38 am
(13) rham says:

I left my ex bf because he need to move in US. but we dont have a formal break up. After 1 week, i’ve got committed to other guy (college classmate) but I still love him (my ex bf) . We been together for almost 3 yrs. .we broke up because i reliazed that i still love my ex bf. after 1 yr that i am single. I received an email from my ex bf he says that he’s going back here in the Philippines. He wants to see me and he also asked my number. That was the time that I felt the all memories that we have been together. When we met up and I can that we are matured now. We still love each other and no one can beat on us although ou relationship is LDR. So if i were you just follow your heart, your feelings. You will find the true happiness in life.

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January 6, 2013 at 2:30 pm
(15) wondering in the wings says:

Ok…. things have progressed…. He has been distancing him self more… I have been posting love notes on his facebook page… just so he knows… and also posted a comment that i will fight for our love but if in the end i lose then at least i know i will have given it my all… Well evidently she took that as a personal attack on herself… She has been pressuring him to back things off with me… I guess he told her he was but aside of feeling that things were a miss… He never said anything to me…. and thats all he had to do…. I only want him to be happy even if i have to be miserable… Well things came to a head last night… I dont know if i believe it or not… will wait and see… but she said she was tired of waiting for him to end things with me…. and said goodbye… God i hope its true…… She even went to far to make him angry with me and told him i had sent her text messages telling her to stay away from him…. I never did anything like that…. In fact i told her if she stopped talking to him it would tear his heart out…. God i dont know what to do… She tries to say im obbsessed with him… and that what they had was true love… I give up….. What am i supposed to do..

January 6, 2013 at 2:35 pm
(16) wondering in the wings says:

Help things have progressed…. He has been distancing him self more… I have been posting love notes on his facebook page… just so he knows… and also posted a comment that i will fight for our love but if in the end i lose then at least i know i will have given it my all… Well evidently she took that as a personal attack on herself… She has been pressuring him to back things off with me.I guess he told her he was but aside of feeling that things were a miss… He never said anything to me…. and that’s all he had to do…. I only want him to be happy even if i have to be miserable… Well things came to a head last night. I don’t know if i believe it or not… will wait and see…

January 6, 2013 at 2:44 pm
(17) wondering in the wings says:

oops sorry for the double comment

January 13, 2013 at 11:18 am
(18) in love says:

Yes me and my first love have been reunited after 20 years through Facebook and it’s amazing that we both been married we are both divorced and now we are both single and we still love each other.

January 14, 2013 at 4:28 pm
(19) cynthia says:

After being in relationship with him for seven years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone on-line and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his name is Dr. Joel his email is azakaspiritualtemple@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

January 14, 2013 at 4:30 pm
(20) cynthia says:

After being in relationship with him for seven years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his name is Dr. Joel his email is azakaspiritualtemple@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

January 15, 2013 at 4:33 pm
(21) faith says:

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January 18, 2013 at 1:36 am
(22) TRUE STORY ABOUT MY EX says:

Am so happy to tell the whole world that my ex boyfriend is back to me after 3years of our break up. He left me and change his contact, I tried all I could to make him come back to me as we were before but all my efforts failed. A friend introduced me to this spell caster who cast a spell for me and after 48hours of his spell my ex came back looking for me. Today we are happy together as we were before. All thanks goes to kabaka for helping me bounce back to life. If any one on this site needs the help of a spell caster, you can contact him via his email KABAKASPELL@GMAIL.COM or his phone number +2348169750752.

January 21, 2013 at 11:29 am
(23) bobo says:

Here it is, its is killing me inside out! My story: high school sweethearts gone through the most crap in the world, lost my virginity to him, shared my troubled childhood with him. Grew up in Europe and lived with parents that lived apart to make their marriage work, in other words awful parental issues. My ex shared similar experiences and got through their parents separation whilst i was in his life. People say parents do not effect their children but our parents failed marriages effected us a lot. Until one day my father decided to move away to make a new start. We never broke up, but lost contact, in the meanwhile his life went downhill. I was always worried about him, he was my fist love and i always wanted him to do well in life because he was smart and above and and beyond intelligent.

anyhow I dated guys and was in a 3 years relationship without any sexual intercourse, broke it off. Not long later met my husband and have been married for a good 2 and half years. Things ca not be better. However i Lost my father not long after i moved countries, my mother to this day his widow is a though cookie but his death was not easy on me, especially as i grew knowing his three colours and cover those. I don’t feel safe to truly speak about him around my husband, however i went back home this year and met my ex. Whose life like mine turned upside down, we never dealt with our unspoken break up. His best friend came along when we met and kept hinting at making my decision to marry without having tried to contact my ex beforehand. It brought up memories and feelings i thought had long gone. We did not have a bad relationship, even if i try zoo hard to forget about him I can not, my husband is everything i want however the chemistry between myex and i has not gone unnoticed by either of us……I AM SO F***!!!!

January 26, 2013 at 4:52 am
(24) Past says:

My ex and I broke up 10 years ago. She went away to college. I was dating someone and she would always come back and try to get me back but I couldn’t trust her. She kept contacting me for the past 10 years. She just recently got a hold of me and told me she missed me and that our relationship was the best one she had. She would make comments like she wanted to get together but I think it may have been revenge.

January 26, 2013 at 10:27 pm
(25) wondering in the wings says:

Past… I wish thats how my man felt…. This woman from his past has done everything she can to get him to distrust me… Told him i sent her texts to stay away from him… Nope… Never did… wanted to…. I will admit that…. But this woman slept with his best friend while she was pregnant with their son back in high school….. Used to talk to me till she realized she still wanted him back…. then she was and is my enemy…. I think things are turning around… I hope with all my heart… For your sake…. Stay away from your ex……

February 26, 2013 at 12:23 pm
(26) wondering in the wings says:

Really…. were asking for honest advice…. Not spell weaving….

March 4, 2013 at 3:47 pm
(27) cerria says:

see when i was only 16 i meet the man who i loved and he loved me but i didnt thank i was in love with him but i rellsed i loved him and now im 18 and i just can stop thanking about him but the bad thing about it he moved back to somerset ky if i dont see him im going to go in sane but i dont know if he still love me i just dont know how to see him can some one just give me so advice i need some one to talk to

March 12, 2013 at 10:40 pm
(28) love says:

My HS love got in touch with me 4 months ago saying he was divorced five years ago. I have been divorced for 7. He live far but wanted to go out when he came back and i agreed but it had to wait till his work allowed. we havent seen each other in 25 years. we would talk every night and text all day and he said he never stopped loving me and i feel the same. Because of some medicine i am on certain memory loss is normal so i wanted to see if i could do i search online for his birthday( which is harder than you think…found alot more though) It is strang I rem his old phone # from hisparents house, the month he was born, his faviot color but not the day. But a woman kept coming up with a differnt last name as a possible relitive looked it up on FB and seen his dog that he sent me pictures of and storys on her timeline that he told me without her of course. when i told he i found out he told me they are together to raise the kids and when he moves in a few months she isnt going with him and wants me to wait. (he is moving here) he said he never planned when he contacted me that we would have the same feelings he was just wondering how i was. I told him he broke my heart and i dont answer his calls or texts as often. i know i have never loved anyone like i love him.

March 28, 2013 at 10:48 pm
(29) james says:

Hi. An ex girlfriend of mine has decided she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore after 4 years of contact after we broke up. Now after a few weeks of silence she emailed me saying ” got engaged !!! ” ( her exact words ) and attached a photo of the ring. Which has confused me. Is she rubbing it in my face and trying to upset me ? Or is she playing games. Or does she just want me to be happy for her ? I can’ t decipher how it’s meant.

May 13, 2013 at 10:15 am
(30) donna says:

an old love of mine has re-appeared after nearly 20 years and my head is constantly buzzing with ‘what ifs’. We had a brief affair when we were kids,i was 19 he was 22 although he had a wife and a child at the time. please don’t misunderstand me, this is not something i ever did again, coming between a family….it was just that we had practically grown up together and our feelings for each other were acted upon. Anyway we were found out and i didn’t see him again, 6 months later i got with my wonderful life partner who i love dearly. I was working in a shop months later and my old love walked in and said that we were meant to ride off in to the sunset together. I remember saying to him he toke too long about it and that i was now happy with someone else. Well, years passed by and i found my old love drank in the same pub we do occasionally.To cut a long story (which im finding this is becoming) i told him i think about him and know i shouldnt to which he replied i was the love of his life and in another life time things would of been different!! I now know with adult insight why he disappeared from my life all those years ago, he had things to sort out which were messy, where as i was carefree and single, i had no mess to attend to.Any way i think we just need closure on this, for both of us, as we attend the same weddings, christenings and other events and there is an underlying tension. but i find it oh so sad as i know he was definitely The One x

June 28, 2013 at 4:10 pm
(31) Kimberley says:

Let’s see, um, get away. My ‘ex’ screwed me over so bad I cannot even tell you. First of all I barely remember the relationship which is bizarre and I’m wondering if he is partially or completely to blame for that one. Secondly, he had a kid with this major psycho/my coworker (think fatal attraction) behind my back and tried to make me believe I was the mother and that I just forgot about having her. Yeah okay, did I mention we were only 18 when this all happened?! Yeah, he was messed up and still is bitter towards me. As if he has a right to be – at all! Males are so screwed up it is disgusting! Oh yeah and they rule the world whether naive women want to believe it or not. I hope he and his little psychotic trophy girlfriend get married (if they’re not already) so that they can be a cute little psychotic couple together.

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August 2, 2013 at 12:09 pm
(33) Sarah Olzen says:

It all happened in Paris 7 and a half years ago, I met this wonderful man from Sweden and we started going out for like three months, our separation was unavoidable since I was moving back to the States for good and he was going to work in Russia. Our relationship was one of those great and fun and perfect relations. We got along as if we knew each other for life, while we were going out. I thought this was one kind of man i could settle down with, obviously he never knew this. After I left Paris we barely kept contact, and each of us moved on, he got married couple of years later after I left and had a daughter. Me I became a career woman and started to succeed in the business world, so never been married or had a serious relationship. So by the end of last year around November he sent me a message through Facebook and we started talking again after 7 years of no contact, obviously I had seen his Facebook profile even before he contacted me and realized he had a family now. So what he tells me is that his wife cheated in him several times during their marriage but he just found out and separated, we started talking as friends for few months, ideas even giving him advises to cheer him up and things like that. After 5 months of talking every once in a while he was like, hey I need to tell you something “I’m just realizing you are the woman of my life, and I think I’m falling for you”.

August 2, 2013 at 12:10 pm
(34) Sarah Olzen says:

Part 2
i was in shock I didn’t see it coming at all!!! So we started talking like everyday and of course I started to fall for him. So he decided to come and see me in order to decide what we would do next, so of course everything started to get soooo complicated even with money, work and wife, because he isn’t divorced yet he claims that in France is very expensive and did rave the money yet. The ex saw this silly collage thing I did on Instagram with his pic and mine, so she got sooo mad and started to yell at him, he told her I was just his cyber best friend!!!! I was actually very disappointed that he thought that way, of course it’s true that’s what we were, since we haven’t seen each other in so long, but I thought it was a little more than that, he tries to keep everything cool with her because of his daughter so, she controls him with that. As you can imagine he’s not coming to see me this summer. After that we talked and I told him that this might not be a good idea, he said he was not giving up on us and that he really wanted to see where all this is going, he said he was going to be super honest and will speak up his mind and soul and he was no going to let me go that easily. he said he was not going to be able to come this year but that he will pay for my ticket for me to go to Sweden during Xmas holidays. So he took off to Sweden to see his family and we have not had much contact which is fine be because it gives me time to think clearly. Obviously now I’m very confused I fell like we are so perfect I have always thought of him as the most suitable guy for me and I really want things to work out but also I feel very insecure about the soon to be ex wife. And most of all Im not sure he is totally over her. So I don’t know what to do next, either stop all of this for good and for the sake of both of us or just go to Europe and find out what is all this. I’m so confused why di ex come back ?!!!

August 24, 2013 at 9:39 pm
(35) Anonymous says:

I was widowed 2 years ago. My wife had a long illness and finally succumbed to it after a 2nd liver transplant attempt in 2011. Her first was in 1997. I stood by my wife to the end. She survived numerous set backs since her 1st transplant in 1997. Cancer and other miscellaneous things. I brought up 2 kids with her. They are now in college. I sent a message 6 months ago to my ex from high school and college. Hadn’t heard from her since 1990. Anyway out of the blue I get a message from her 6 months later on my “other” box on FB saying it would be nice to meet for coffee and check up on 25 years of life. I respond back saying it would have to be in 3 or 4 weeks because I’m tied up with family stuff but I give her my cell number and say “if ever an emergency, call , text or message me”. I get a response back saying that she is not looking for a “day to day” relationship and was only looking to “check up on life” but that messaging on the “other” FB message box would have to suffice. She explained that ” WE ARE DIFFERENT PEOPLE FROM THE KIDS WE WERE”. She inferred that I was looking for more than just being friends which I wasn’t. Now I feel horrible. I didn’t plan on these bad feelings. I don’t know how this happened. I hate FB. Wanted to give her my phone like a man. Now I feel totally embarrassed. Sick. I will not message anyone like that out of the blue ever again. Big mistake. Needless to say I will not be contacting her at all ever.

November 10, 2013 at 10:40 am
(36) birdman says:

If your ex loves you and it’s meant to be then he/she will find you to be the most attractive person around. The moment their attracted to someone else or they do not make an effort to be in your life anymore… The relationship is already lost.

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January 30, 2014 at 11:23 pm
(38) Lisa Kings says:

After being in a relationship with him for 6 years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spells, I had no choice but to try it, I mailed the spell caster and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before 2 days, that my ex will return to me before 3 days, he cast a love spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4:27PM. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there on the internet. Anybody could need the help of this spell caster, his email is (igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com or +2348103318340)

February 27, 2014 at 11:08 am
(39) getting your ex back says:

Trying to make your ex-spouse jealous is just one of the worst things you
can do if you intend to return with your ex, because all
it is going to do is reveal him that you have actually gone on and that he
ought to do the same. As an alternative, you want him to
assume that he was the best point in your life, which nobody compares with what he had to offer
you. By increasing his confidence without seeming needy, he will
quickly realize the two of you were great with each other in spite of the tiny fight or distinctions.
Stay away from acquiring dismayed if he is viewing a
person else, due to the fact that you won’t be able
to stop it no issue just what you try.

March 2, 2014 at 5:49 pm
(40) mandy says:

I met my ex yesterday after twenty Yrs we was so in love and he still says he does now we are together again what is so good

March 18, 2014 at 7:36 pm
(41) Exodus Walter says:

O MG, i can not believe this, that my girlfriend who left me for 2 years came looking for me and also begging me to forgive her that she will never do anything to hurt me again, i was so surprise and i am very happy now, because what i have been looking for i just got it now Dr uduga am so grateful for the great job you have just done in my life thank you sir and also to my friend Peter for leading me to this great man thanks doctor i will let people out there know about you because you brought back my lover within 48 hours my friends out there if the mans contact is needed here is it via email;udugatempleofsolution@gmail.com or his cell number +2348153592618

my name is Exodus Walter i live in UK London

March 27, 2014 at 2:59 am
(42) Beverly says:

I haven’t heard from him in almost two months. We hadn’t even met yet but he was already getting serious about me and I held back in the beginning because I was afraid of getting hurt. Talking on the dating site we chatted for hours. We decided to text and the talk on the phone. I was still being cautious and then I found myself missing him at times. He wanted to know everything about me. We exchanged pictures, I would be up night since he worked nights. He would text me on breaks and then again when he left work. Then we talked on the phone all throughout the morning even when he was tired. One night on a Monday we were texting and he says to me, “You are wonderful.” So I told him he was too. And then days after I didn’t hear from him again. And this had happened a week before Valentines Day. I called left messages, texted, emailed him and even wrote letters. I cried almost every day and maybe I shouldn’t have because we never met each other. But he was making me feel important and said all the right things. Well anyway, After I decided to let it go I moved forward and took some time for myself and even went on another dating site. I went on one date. I realized I was still an attractive woman who deserved better. Recently, I checked my email and his name and messages are still there. So I decided to
leave a short message just a simple “Hi……” Then later in the day
he responded. He called me beautiful and told me he had been in a bad car accident and had some broken bones. And told me that he
had gotten a new phone and had been trying to contact me but my numbers were locked in his old phone. And said that he hopes I am still with him and want him. I wasn’t as excited as I should be but
there are somethings that don’t add up. He had my email address,
Did that get locked down too or deleted? No.

April 2, 2014 at 10:18 pm
(43) getting back with your ex says:

Attempting to make your ex-spouse jealous is one of
the worst points you can do if you wish to return with your
ex, because all it is going to do is show him that you have
actually moved on which he needs to do the
exact same. As an alternative, you desire
him to believe that he was the most effective point in
your life, and that no one compares with what he had to offer
you. By improving his self-confidence without appearing desperate, he will quickly
recognize both of you were fantastic with each other in spite of the little battle
or differences. Avoid obtaining dismayed if he is viewing
somebody else, since you won’t be able to stop it no concern what you try.

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