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Bonny Albo

What Are You Thankful For?

By November 26, 2013

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A 2011 blog post by HowAboutWe (Buy Direct), a dating site matching people based on their date ideas (i.e. How about we... go snow golfing?), got me laughing. In it, writer Chiara Atik discusses what her single friends and family members are thankful for this year. My favorite included a bit of salty language, but still one I think many single folks can admit to feeling at some point: "I'm thankful I'm no longer dating an ****." Replace the stars with any number of negative words and you'll get the jist.

The article reminded me of a time when years ago, I gave a workshop about dating, and in turn getting over your ex. At one point I asked everyone to come up with something they were grateful for in relation to their dating life. Most of the folks had something amazing to say, such as they loved the time and money they had now to spend on themselves, or even small things like they didn't have to leave the seat down or up. One man waited until the very end, and said quietly, "She left me for my best friend." No one said anything for maybe 30 seconds, until a woman next to him gently touched his shoulder and said in the same tone of voice, "Well, then you should be grateful she's HIS problem now!"

We all got a laugh out of that, and it helped diffuse the tension. Every year when I think of Thanksgiving, I think of that story, my Thanksgiving date disaster story, and now this HowAboutWe blog post.

What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving in relation to your dating life, whether coupled up, single, or somewhere in between?

Related: Meet Someone New During the Holidays, Thanksgiving Dinner Ideas for Couples, http://dating.about.com/od/fallholidays/qt/couplesthanks.htm, Stress Tips for Singles During the Holidays.

November 25, 2011 at 3:25 am
(1) Cindy says:

I’m thankful to have great friends and a loving family. Happy Thanksgiving

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