New Website Plans To Tell Men:"Don't Date Her"
Today's Yahoo! Buzz showed "Don't Date Her" as the #5 mover and shaker this week with regards to who is searching for what over at Yahoo! Although I'm unsure as to what initially created this buzz, the site everyone is looking for is Dont Date Her Man.
Due to the overwhelming success of Don't Date Him Girl, Don't Date Her is a variation on the theme, which allows men to publicly post their experiences with cheating girlfriends.
Unfortunately, it's relatively easy to post a complaint on Don't Date Him Girl, which may lead to some issues with abuse and slander. Still, I had to look and see if anyone I knew was on the site - if for no other reason than mere curiosity. Luckily no one was listed.
Don't Date Him / Don't Date Her seems to have a fairly comprehensive Terms of Use however, including items such as:
You will not post on the Service, or transmit to other Registered Users, any defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, obscene, profane, offensive, sexually oriented, threatening, harassing, racially offensive, or illegal material, or any material that infringes or violates another party's rights (including, but not limited to, intellectual property rights, and rights of privacy and publicity).
... which to me would exclude many complaints of cheating partners. Yet I still have to wonder: do these kinds of sites actually change cheating behaviors? Do the people listed on them even know they are there? And do men and women check these kinds of sites before going out on a date with someone?
I'd be interested in hearing from singles who have used Don't Date Him or are thinking about submitting content to Don't Date Her (since the site isn't live yet). What is the motivator for you? Did posting on Don't Date Her / Don't Date Him change anything in your life? Do you (or would you) use Don't Date Her / Don't Date Him to 'check up' on potential dates?
Comments
Yes, it’s reasonable.
I’m seriously considering posting my most recent ex on Don’t date him girl for several reasons. The primary reason is that when he and I first hooked up and I asked him if he was clean he said he was. It later transpired that he had gentile warts and had known all along about this infection without a cure. We have since broken up and given his affinity for young college aged girls I’d say they deserve to know since he *obviously* wont tell them until it is too late.
dan slapped that sucks looks like u shouldn’t have hooked up with him so quickly. ya couldnt see the warts?
I’ve definitely posted an ex on the DontDateHimGirl site. This guy was violent - both physically and emotionally and I felt that I had a responsibility to warn other women. Really, I only believe you should post on those sites if you’ve experienced a real psycho and a cheater who could pass on a VD of some sort. We all know men won’t be honest about it. The best we can do is warn others
I love looking at the posts on DDHG some of them are hilarious I cant wait for don’t date her man; us men can get twice as brutal and women cheat just as much as men do. I guess it’s a good way to screen someone. You women should start thinking logically when you first enter a relationship then once you feel connected open your heart up, women tend to emotionally open up first the result is a pixalated vision and they don’t realize what a scumbag they’re dating till it’s to late. I don’t think I’ll ever post on these sites but it’s fun to read the stories.
It’s always a gamble when putting your feelings on line.
I am grateful to sites like DontDateHimGirl.com and Womansavers.com. Recently I met online and a “relationship” started to developed very quickly. Fortunately, I did the requisite background checks before becoming too deeply involved and discovered that the man is an internet predator with a history of trolling for conquests.
In today’s global world there is no excuse to not check up on potential mates and I am very thankful to the women who had the courage to post their experiences so that others like me are spared from going through the same pain and suffering they were subjected to.
We no longer live in small communities where we all know each other and technology such as the internet is a necessary tool to gather information about who we meet.
I agree with OmniPresent. My man’s ex posted HIM on DDHG. LMAO. I couldn’t help think how much of an azz she made HERSELF out to be. I’ve been with him for about 18 months now and haven’t seen anything like what she was posting. He and I couldn’t stop laughing. So now we just type in a male name and read - what fun on a rainy Saturday afternoon.
I dont really think men care or even want to get into the drama of writing about there EX. It will be the current girlfriend that will do it, not the guy. The ones that will post the girls are already on dontdatehimgirl.com.
Absolutely! Women should know who they are dating. At least the guy might straighten up or the girl will know a red flag sooner. Either way, it;s good to know so we arent snowed over. Goldigging women are the exeption.. Guys have no idea how mens actions mess their whole lives up including future relationships.
Employers screen for drug users…The Government screens..WELL,FOR EVERYTHING NOW!..So, why can’t woman screen for potential losers?
how can i find girl? website with woman who is cheating??
I know first hand that 85% of these women are scorned and jealous your #4 comment being one of them….Liars maybe but women are just as guilty and I can’t wait for the rebutal! I am a twenty something woman who “stole” my husband from a senior citizen!(lol) How do you steal a man they are not property there was no gun he went willingly he was not happy….I feel if you truely had feelings for the man you would want nothing but happiness for them….Your Worst Nightmare!!