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4 out of 5 4 out of 5
May 13, 2013 By tosh334
great place to hang out.. Will be recommending this site to my friends.. i am sure that they gonna enjoy as well//
0 of 5 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
DON""T GIVE THEM YOUR CREDIT CARDApril 21, 2013 By kentwayne
Expensive for what you get, and after you cancel they will continue to charge your card.
4 of 4 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Fake not worth itApril 19, 2013 By shaan1112
adult freind finder is totally fake. i signed in for memebership and my mail box was like full just like the other review said. i am just sad i didnt read it sooner :( . wasted $50 for nothing. mostly cam and probably website created women profiles . any how . do not waste your money here.
1 of 1 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Adult Friend Finder Total ScamApril 06, 2013 By puddlemann
Adult Friend Finder is a total scam. After joining as a standard member my email box was flooded with messages from 'available' women. Of course you had to pay to read them. For giggles I did only to find everyone of the 'available' women were fake. At least 50% of the women on cam are soliciting from professional pay per view sites. I would guess that 70% of the accounts are fake, created only to generate interest. The instant messaging service is a running joke amongst those in the chat rooms as it works maybe 25% of the time. I don't think I received another email from anyone until my membership was about to expire at which time it flooded again with fake solicitations. Don't waste your time or money.
11 of 11 people found this review helpful.
5 out of 5 5 out of 5
fun fun funApril 04, 2013 By slowbro121
im 22 6,5 an like to have fun ;) and it looks like i have to keep filling up this space so this can get activated haha
0 of 1 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Scam site!!!March 01, 2013 By NoHidingPlace
I recently joined AFF as a standard member and decided I would browse the members first to see how many there were in my area and how many I would be interested in meeting. I couldnt check out the profiles of these 'members' unless I joined, which meant I had no clue how many were even active profiles or who and what they were looking for. In these first days I received a 'Friends' request from a woman I was willing to strike up a conversation with so I signed up........ only to find that the woman who sent the request hadn't actually been logged on for over a month!!!! When I sent an enquiry to the help desk I was ignored and it was only when I threatened them with legal action for fraud and missrepresentation that they decided to refund my fees. I found the whole experience excruciating....... no interest from anyone in my area (despite paying extra for a highlighted profile) or indeed from anyone in my country!! Loads of interest from 'brides seeking passport' types and the ubiquitous 'cam pimps'! I cant speak from a womans perspective because I couldnt be bothered to post a female profile but if you are a guy then don't touch this lot with a stick unless you want endless frustration and less money in your account than you started with!!
19 of 20 people found this review helpful.
3 out of 5 3 out of 5
Like in life...forget the promises and claimsDecember 14, 2012 By chrisandeliza
My husband and I aren't hardcore swingers. In fact, I dare to even call ourselves swingers, since we don't do the party scene or meet couples to swap. We like threesomes and we've met several guys and a couple of women for exactly that. So, for us it works in that sense. Keep in mind though, we've been members of the site for a few years and for the ones we do meet, we remain friends. Single women have the pick of the litter, but there are so many men who lie, are chicken, expect too much, have problems distinguishing reality from fantasy, etc, so it can be just as frustrating as it is for the guys sorting through the hoards of fake women. Couples tend to be problematic or insecure resulting in drama for all. Honestly, it's not ideal - it's a website designed to make someone else tons of money but compared to other websites for the same purpose, it attracts more people has more features and is best known in ""the community"". Be careful, have fun and try meeting people in real life.
26 of 28 people found this review helpful.
2 out of 5 2 out of 5
A lot of smoke and mirrorsDecember 11, 2012 By Doganr
I have utilized this website in the past and there are a lot of profiles with old photos and inaccurate information such as age and actual location of the persons profile. I have met a few people and there always seems to be a disconnected between what we talked about before the meeting and what they are actually capable of sexually. More often than not I have been disappointed in the people I have met.
3 of 3 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Men outnumber women 11:1October 31, 2012 By Umm13579
I did the math on how many men are on adult friend finder to women. It's 11:1. And, I even live in a place where men are the minority sex. This website is a scam. I dropped $50 thinking I could find a girl.... nope. The site looks appealing... but don't drop the cash. You'll be sad if you do.
22 of 22 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
A loser siteSeptember 03, 2012 By shaynew
You get emails and flirts from people 2000 miles away from you. Really i'm in Ohio and a girl from Australia is so hot to meet me LMAO. All i can say is save your money.
16 of 18 people found this review helpful.
4 out of 5 4 out of 5
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7 of 17 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Adult Friend Finder is for women,cpls onlyMay 04, 2012 By mikesh1980
There is no success on this site unless your are already in a couple or you are a woman. To all you single guys thinking your going to meet anyone you will be very disappointed. I'm 30+ and divorced with kids so I don't go to bars or clubs so my opportunity to meet women is very slim. I hoped this would be a good way but it is NOT. Its a waste of time and money.
55 of 56 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Adult Friend Finder (0-stars)March 23, 2012 By 55jets
Men beware! You can't do much in terms of chatting with other members, or viewing their profiles unless you sign up as a gold or silver member, cost is approx. $30 +. Getting your profile viewed by gays or trans sexuals gave me an uneasy feeling. The unlimited amount of flirts and nonsense from the women trying to promote their webcam sites grows old in a hurry, with as many as 20+ a day. The auto-renew feature works even after you're sure you turned it off! There are countless old profiles still in the database that have not been active for many months. This site requires an overhaul by the administrators, but then again they are probably making easy money with the auto-renew feature. I won't waste my time or money with this site again!
52 of 54 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Very poor customer service.December 24, 2011 By kylepohsib
User names show up in google searches for anyone to see. I immediately disabled and erase my account. When I tried to contact them about the issue they were unable to help me.
28 of 33 people found this review helpful.
4 out of 5 4 out of 5
AFF good & bad & other stuffOctober 11, 2011 By jaygibbs
First the bad...lots of fakes, foreign-looking-for-a-husband types, but they're pretty easy to spot after a time. I've heard there's lots of hookers but never came across anyone like that. And they charged my card about a year after I quit the site. Just cancelled the card and had another re-issued. You will spend a lot of time looking and emailing. Lots of abandoned accounts. Ratio of guys to women is astronomical, confirmed by women I corresponded with....women get hundreds of emails a day, so many they turn off their profiles...I would maybe get one or two if lucky. I did encounter some great women. One bailed, ouch, others were just email / chat buddies, one I bailed on, and one I met several times. If you work hard you'll meet people and eventually find what you like. Patience is a virtue :-)
28 of 30 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Not if your male anyhowOctober 04, 2011 By JimmyH80
I was sceptical, curious and willing to give it a shot. When i signed up to gold member status i really put time into this, contacting tons of girls, now im not Tom Cruise but i have a relatively good scoring rate among my mates,.. i got zero real replys, tons of fake profile replys and a handful of replys from hookers, scam artists looking for you to join other sites. No doubt about it, this site encourages you to sign up for free, recieve fake interest from girls to get you interested and then thats all that happens. Forget about it guys, if something seems to good to be through it usually is, proof is in AFF :)
8 of 8 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
inaccessible customer serviveSeptember 03, 2011 By zonrox4
10 of 15 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
its goodJune 06, 2011 By narhya
littel bit slow and dificult any way please let us know how are you going to help us out
5 of 15 people found this review helpful.
3 out of 5 3 out of 5
Looking for a campaionJanuary 08, 2011 By friskyraven
Let's talk, i am just looking for a friend first and see what happens along the way. Please do not be married, I won't reply. Please be fit, happy, and sure of yourself.
54 of 93 people found this review helpful.
5 out of 5 5 out of 5
December 07, 2010 By angeny
im looking forward to meet someone serious and hoping for many pleasant times to come
6 of 17 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
aff reviewDecember 06, 2010 By stargazinc
AFF isnt what it was 3yrs ago, members have died off due to social networking sites like myspace or facebook. Would like to see the price come way down also.
4 of 4 people found this review helpful.
5 out of 5 5 out of 5
FabNovember 23, 2010 By sassy1508
My friend recomended this site to me a couple of years ago and I've been off and on it ever since!! I'm a standard member but as a female I can view profiles, use the instant messanger and reply to mail. There are quite a few of in active profiles on there, but it's easy to see if thats the case because it tells you at the top of all profiles when that person was last online, there are fake profiles too, but after a week or so it's quite easy to spot them, I live in a smallish town but have still found plenty of people in my area, there is a much higher number of men compared to women, which means the men do have to make there mail origonal to get a response and actually reading the womans profile to see what it is she's after and if you match would be a good idea too, but if your persistant and can hold a conversation then this site can be lots and lots of fun :-)
11 of 14 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
They delete my account for no good reasonsSeptember 24, 2010 By Brigitlc
I joined the site for about 3 months, and I was a free member there. I totally agree with what other previous said, it's an okay site for girls but a really bad site for guys. I got lots of messages even I'm a free member, some guys are even willing to pay me for a full membership. I did meet some nice guys on that site and it was quite an experience. Then suddenly one day they deleted my account, for no reasons at all not even an email to explain, and that's not enough, the site even informed some of my friends on that site that I was a fraud and warned them to stay away from me, and some of them actually believe it. When I try to register again, they deleted me again and sent me this email asking me to back off. I mean I was a free member there and I can't contact anyone. I cannot believe they do this to me and this site is just a complete lie.
32 of 42 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
I wouldn't recommend this site to any maleAugust 29, 2010 By Jamesman_80
I've used AFF for a week now as a Silver member. So far, I have sent out over 30 messages to ladies on the site. I was quite careful to sort through the listings and made sure that there was a good chance of a match between us before doing so. To date, I have received a total of 0 real responses. The messages I have received (with one exception, who was a man) have all been from scam artists trying to get me to either look at a random web link or sign up to another similar website. Guys if you're just looking for a fling, I hate to say it, but go out to a bar and meet real women. It's much more productive than wasting your time on AFF. I'm not saying that there aren't real ladies there, but my experience and intuition so far tells me that it's 99% scam artists just looking for your credit card info, trolling for another site, or trying to pass off a virus with a bogus web link.
97 of 97 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Adult Friend Finder Sexist to MalesJuly 15, 2010 By man4men6969
My wife and I each set up accounts in AFF at the same time. For MEN you can not open e-mails sent to you, or send any e-mails without paying for the service. For WOMEN sending and receiving e-mails is free so is sending flirts. To verify this I set up an account as a single woman, and I am able to open, reply and send e-mails. MEN DON'T EVEN BOTHER WITH THIS SITE. WHY SHOULD YOU HAVE TO PAY FULL PRICE FOR WHAT WOMEN GET FOR FREE?????
75 of 81 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Adult friend finderMay 16, 2010 By AlbertoRey
Adult friend finder FAKE FAKE FAKE FAKE DON't ever pay this website !!! I joined it and the very next day after seeing how fake it is I asked for refund through their customer service tel line. The next minute my account was deactivated and they NEVER EVER paid me back ! I called them 5 times and always the same blah blah blah ! Anyway plenty of FAKE profiles. There is actually people dealing with several different profiles to answer the messages but definitly FAKE ! I DON'T RECOMMAND IT TO NO ONE !
32 of 34 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Definitely a ScamMarch 23, 2010 By samsam168169
I signed up for a membership just to try things out and try to find some new friends, I was getting emails from people asking me that they want to meet over the weekend for dinner and the next day, the email is deleted from my mailbox for no reason. This happened so many times and sounded so real. Also, you always find so many flirts and after a week or two the person is deleted from the flirt list. I think that the website is fake and profiles are either fake or posted by paid models. Don’t sign up for it because once you pay for it, you won’t get your money back because it is gone to another country probably where there is no law and order (you may notice the 4$ out of the country transaction fee). I don’t know but you might even be jeopardizing your personal and credit card information and that could be very costly. So, Just don’t do it!!! Thanks
30 of 32 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
DisillusionedMarch 09, 2010 By Adult_Blogger
I have to agree with the writer before me. Joined for fun only to find many heartsore stories where women actually fell in love with a member. They had been corresponding for a while. When it was time for them to meet, suddenly the male party had died or was out of a job or something. This is a story written by an AFF member who truly fell in love online. She is no longer a member. In the blogging section of AFF, it is also scary to see how one member abuses or harrasses another member, you have to watch everything that you say. Not to mention the racist emails that I used to receive. I am caucasian. I have since found a new site where members are all screened and verified and there is no such nonsense going on. This site offers only one level of subscription and at a fee which is probably a third of what AFF charges. As a standard member on AFF you don't really have much choice but to sit back and hope and pray that a paying member will contact you. You are not able to make first contact with another member, now what's the use of that? I too discovered tons of fake profiles, two separate profiles, exact same picture, different birthdates. Unless they're twins of course but then again, if they were, they would have the same birth date. Most members complain about what I have written above but they remain on AFF for one thing only, they stay to keep contact with those real friends that they did manage to make.
43 of 44 people found this review helpful.
3 out of 5 3 out of 5
adult friend finderFebruary 23, 2010 By daniel69699
i am not satisfied with this website, i got registered for a month period and started to browse but i did not get any contacts, i was hoping to make some contacts but i was very unfortunate. I think all this is a computer generated contatcs whereby u will be contacted by someone but eventually she wont even exist. So will not recomand this site, pls if u guys out there have any other better website pls kindly share with me
27 of 29 people found this review helpful.
5 out of 5 5 out of 5
need funFebruary 17, 2010 By drillyou
need som fun will out of town how whats to play whith no string just goood fun for me and you mmmmmmmm
5 of 54 people found this review helpful.
2 out of 5 2 out of 5
Many scams, a few actual peopleFebruary 15, 2010 By foobar1234
So I was getting a divorce, was kinda lonely, and decided to give AFF a try. Of course, their ""free"" membership has so many restrictions as to almost be worthless, so I figured I'd plop down a few bucks and sign up for the ""Gold"" membership. Worth a try, right? Whoopee, now I can view everyone, send bunches of e-mail messages, and all kinda of other stuff. My observations: 1) At least 95% of the profiles on there are completely fake (at least if you're a guy looking for women). If you send out 20 messages, you'll hear back from about 3 of 'em, and 2 of them will have the exact same (hardly changing) auto-response, telling you Whew, the week flew by! They're looking forward to the weekend, to email them at [someusername] that's at hot mail. It's connected to their phone so they can respond often. They look forward to hearing what you wanna do, and what you wanna do afterward. Blah blah. It sounds really neat until you read the same message for the 5th time from the 5th different user. If you respond to them all they want you to do is sign up for some other ""paid"" site where you can finally talk to them. No thanks. 2) Of the few that do give you original responses, at least 2 of the 3 are still trying to con you. I was exchanging e-mails for most the weekend with one nice lady (getting to know each other), she was telling me all about this business trip she was on in England (and couldn't wait to get back so she could meet me). Then she tells me she's all-of-a-sudden stranded there, her purse was stolen and she needs me to wire her $600 to get home. She'll pay me back (she trusts me so much and thinks I'm such a sweetheart!) when she gets home and we finally meet. I told her to call her own bank back at home (right?), and she sent me another e-mail... ignoring my suggestions... asking for $300 instead. I checked the full headers of the e-mails we'd been exchanging, and every one of her messages originated from various Yahoo! servers in Sunnyvale, CA. I instantly put ""her"" (if it was even a woman) on permanent ignore. What a waste of time. 3) All (and I mean ALL) of the photos and video clips of hot women on the homepage that you see--from your hometown--are fake. Every one of 'em. Their usernames (if you do a search for 'em) don't even exist. 4) All that being said, there are a few real people on there, and they're not all dogs (although most of 'em are). I did actually hook up in person a couple times, and had a good time of it. So it wasn't a complete loss for me, I guess. But it was a lot more time wasted than it was worth, I think. It'd be nice if such a site existed where the website itself wasn't trying to rip you off in every way possible. My suggestion if you wanna try 'em out anyway... use a PayPal ""one-time"" CC number to sign up (so they can't keep recharging it), create a new e-mail address, and use a completely fake name, DON'T GIVE ANY PERSONAL INFO TO ANYONE THERE. If you do get lucky enough to meet someone in person, then tell 'em your real first name and have a good time of it. Best of luck to you.
257 of 260 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Big scam, no real people but lots of response botsFebruary 08, 2010 By TMiller701
First: Basically the site is now just one big scam. There maybe a few real people but they are few and far between and likely very nasty when you do find them. My first suspicious experience was that the home page shows many people from my home town but there is huge a problem with that. I live in town that is tiny (less than 100 people) and I would recognize any of those people listed on the sites home page. Believe me people like that would stand out and be remembered where I am from. Second: If you do sign up make sure you use a PayPal (or similar) single use credit card to pay or you will never get them to drop your monthly billing. Also make up a home town name. Dont be surprised that once you are signed up you will still get locals showing up from your made up town anyway. Third: Should you actually become a member dont be shy. Contact every person you find that is listed as your match within any distance of you. They are likely not real people and you can start collecting the pre formated response messages and see for yourself. You will get almost the exact same scripted and formated responses from every one of them you contact. There is only a slight variation on the replies from what part of the week it is but the overall reply messages you get are always the same format. Also it will always have referance to contacting them through a hot mail address with the comment that they will check their email from their cell phone since they are out. If you contact them through their hot mail address you will eventually be asked to go to a pay website to meet them. Fourth: If someone does actually contact you who is real trust me there is a reason they didn't show their face or the rest of their body in the picture. They are either just nasty looking or someone of the same sex posing as the opposite sex for kicks. Fifth: Go to the chat room area and type anything you want and then wait about 3 - 4 minutes and you will see what you posted recycle. The chat rooms are all just repeating clips from a chat bot system which is why most of the conversations there have no structure and make no sense. Many of the members it shows as chatting will just turn out to be fake profiles of fake members or will come up as not even existing. If you put enough chat posts in the chat rooms you will even see your posts being recycled days later as well. Last: Once you are fully disappointed come back here and write a honest review but expect that a counter review with a positive slant in regards to the site will follow it shortly afterwords. (Take a guess where it likely originates from.) Just watch the site operating patterns for many of these obvious clues. They are not that hard to see. Since you paid the money have some fun and just wreck up the place while your there.
38 of 39 people found this review helpful.
5 out of 5 5 out of 5
This is a unique site...just not a ""dating"" siteNovember 18, 2009 By iloveartiel
Let's face it... adultfriendfinder.com is not just a regular dating site where regular people go to find the love of their life. What it IS excellent for, however, is for singles or couples of any persuasion to browse around, view other peoples' photos and personal videos and/or webcasts... it's basically a voyeur/exhibitionist's heaven. Once you play around with your settings, you're able to initiate chats, respond to chats initiated toward you, and change search settings. You can choose who sees your stuff, and it's actually a pretty positive atmosphere... I've seen a lot of really supportive and positive commentary going on. Was an excellent way for me to gain some confidence with people who I know I'd never have to meet, and put a lot of fun and spice into my marriage. Really glad we found it. The person who was disappointed in the lack of dating aspect... it's like that for ANY pay ""dating"" site out there... this is not a site for people looking for relationships where sexuality isn't discussed. That's why it's called ""Adult"" Friend Finder.
6 of 48 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
RIP OffAugust 23, 2009 By kwhit1516
I have to tell my story about adult Friend Finder stay away RIP OFF I was stander member for a long time you cannot email anyone as one So i i thought i join for a month big mistake they renew me with out me knowing Check my bank statement they had charge me i had my auto off they turn it back on .When i call they offer me a extra month. So I took all bank info out I check my bank statement this month they charge me again .I went to their site and to my surprise my bank info was their and it was turn on again .I had to call my bank and get a bank card when i call them same thing they offer me extra i month told them to stick it I delete my account beware of this site
23 of 26 people found this review helpful.
5 out of 5 5 out of 5
Works for UsMay 31, 2009 By mike907
We have a free membership to AFF, and even with the restrictions, we've been more than satisfied, pardon the pun. Yes there are a lot of people who are just there to gawk, we have met several times with people seeking the sme thing we're seeking. Not every time is a perfect match but what is? We can see streaming video, email others on site and exchange pics. Its worked well for us, we think the people who don't like it have their sights set too hi or, in our personal experience, don't have a firm grasp of how they really look.
14 of 39 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Avoid this scam at ALL COSTS!!!April 08, 2009 By therealnat
Scammed, conned, bamboozled, bushwhacked, violated, I can't think of anymore appropriate language for the way I was conned. I lost more than I should have, which should have been nothing. I guess naivete got me. This website is almost as bad as those dating sites, it just costs less (sort of). They let you sign up for a free account, then it shows you a listing of their ""online"" members. YAH RIGHT! I created a clone account to my paying account. The free account showed all my ""matches"" online, while the paying account showed half/most of them weren't even online! But wait....THERE'S MORE! From my paying account I had emailed one of their free members. Then it tells me that she may not receive my messages, so I need to buy another package to make sure that free members can email me. But, they try to sucker you into buying one of their ""VIP"" packages to absolutely insure the people you email get your message (i.e. bypassing their email filters). I will not be renewing my membership. This is a minor review. If you don't believe me, look for yourself. There are SCATHING reviews about this horrible site. Don't be fooled, these people will take you for a ride, if they get the chance.
489 of 504 people found this review helpful.
4 out of 5 4 out of 5
Not a rip-off just a lot of flakes!December 28, 2008 By steinbeck83
Try it! For one month, then go from there. I did it in November - December 2005 & I had great results, but that was luck to be perfectly honest. I think a lot of the people think that the idea is great but when it actually came right down to it they got scared when it was time to meet. I just recently resigned up November - December 2008 & got less stelllar. It's not the site that's a rip off it's the people, you can meet amazing people but it's just the luck of the draw. It's hard to meet people anyone & meeting people for sex, even if there intrested they can get gunshy and flakey. Like I said try it for the one month price, REMEMBER to set your auto-renew to off because it automatically turns it on for you. And if you don't get results than at least you tried.
86 of 94 people found this review helpful.
1 out of 5 1 out of 5
Complete rip off - check rip off report alsoDecember 12, 2008 By JRFrogman
I should have checked Rip Off Report before signing up for this site. I was using the little head to think with when I signed up. It is safe to say that 99% of the women on this site are spammers or fakes. The spammers just want to collect names and email addresses to sell. You give your email address to these guys and you will be attacked by spam email. Like ravenous fleas on a dog. Adult Friend Finder is a complete waste of time. Never mind that it is the most popular web site or whatever such sales trash they use. I am sure that every thing they pitch about this site is true but it probably never says anything about actual women being guaranteed to be there. You may as well toss your money out the window. I even experimented with alternate profiles and made myself look like a god and still didn't get any kind of response from anyone. I wrote lots of emails and flirted with everyone and not once did I get a real response. I did get emails offering to talk with me off site but that was just to get my email address. Bottom line...this is a trap for men to lose their money.
34 of 36 people found this review helpful.
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