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Mars Shares a Familiar Dating Scam Story

Share Your Story: Is This a Scam? Dating Scams Revealed

From mars

What dating service or website did you meet at?

be2

In what month and year did the dating scam take place?

december 2010

How much money (if any) were you scammed out of?

tried to get me to send him US4500

What details did the internet dating scammer share?

that he was a builder contractor based in new york but is in nigeria for a project. his name is martin walton and his email address is martinwalton33@yahoo.com. cell num 2348067499332

What did the internet dating scammer do?

after a few days of chatting, he said his daughter in washington needed an emergency operation and that he needed US4500 so the doctors could operate. he said that he couldnt send them the money because he was in nigeria and he couldn't get hold of the bank. by then i knew he was a fake because, they would never do such a thing in the US (pay the doctors before doing a procedure, what happened to health care?) i confronted him about being a fake and he said that he wanted to prove to me that he is real and if he does prove to me that he is real, would i still be willing to help him out?

Advice

  • it's very hard to tell if the person you're chatting with is true or a fake person. you have to insist on live chatting over skype with a webcam. he said he couldn't do this because he didn't know ho to do this. also be wary of sweet talkers. i was lucky i read through him immediately. pictures are nothing. but then ask him to send you lots of pictures with him in it!

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