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Sexy Gift Ideas for Men
Sensual and Unusual Gifts For The Guy In Your Life

By Bonny Albo, About.com

There comes a time in all relationships where a sexy gift is appropriate; whether its to give the hint that you're ready to take things to another level, or to incite some intimate fun. So if you want to add a bit of steam to your gift for him this year, choose one of these great gifts to arouse your partner.

1. Sexy Gift Idea: Erotic Magnet Poetry

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Ok, this is more of an idea for the two of you than just for him. But wouldn't it be cool to leave him an erotic love note - on his fridge? Provided, of course, that he doesn't still live at home or have roommates that might not enjoy your private words of longing displayed for all to see.

2. Sexy Gift Idea: Maca

Bear with me here; this sexy yet great gift idea for him definitely needs an explanation. Maca is a root (similar to ginseng) that is purported to increase a man's sexual stamina and energy. About.com's Guide to Alternative Medicine shares some folklore about the herbal remedy, stating that Incan warriors used maca extensively until they were forbidden to use it so as to "protect conquered women from their heightened libidos". Sounds like some pretty powerful stuff to me. Try using maca in this martini recipe, or have him take it in capsule format -- and see what happens.

3. Sexy Gift Idea: Kama Sutra Kit

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Why not give your partner the centuries old gift of love, via the Kama Sutra? Just the words alone are sure to put a smile on his face. Comes with an illustrated copy of The Kama Sutra: The Erotic Essence of India, 12 ultra-thin condoms, personal lubricant, massage oil, and a package of chocolate creme brulee body souffle.

4. Sexy Gift Idea: Massage Set

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I know few men who will turn down a massage from their partner, and this set will surely fit that bill. This set comes with one concentrated bottle of massage lotion and a Love "Smitten" - a purple glove that slips onto your hand, providing the recipient with hundreds of little jelly nubs that feel like delicate butterfly kisses on the skin.

5. Sexy Gift Idea: Suggestive Collar Stays

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In the "I would have never thought of that" category, collar stays are used to keep a man's dress shirt in place. What's unusual about these stays is not they are gorgeous (sterling silver) or practical (who likes it when their collar curls?) but rather that you can inscribe them with naughty reminders of just what's on your mind, such as, "That tie will be useful," or "Want you always".

6. Sexy Gift Idea: Travel Shaving Kit

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What better way to say you want him to spend the night than to give him his own travel kit to store at your place? Complete with ten sexy gift essentials for every guy (shave, aftershave, cleanser, moisturizer, shampoo, deodorant, lip balm, ear plugs, carry bag), there's even a sleep mask that could be used, uh, for other things other than sleeping. Some role playing perhaps?

7. Sexy Gift Idea: Vibrating Ring Condoms

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Perhaps a bit naughtier than nice, condoms that have a secret vibrating ring along their base can equal hours of safe fun for you and your partner. Buy one to try or a larger package with vibrating rings that can be used interchangeably, and you'll be sure to be thanked repeatedly for this sexy gift.
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